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    Curious about the circumstances of a legal case

    This guy pictured here and articles linked below was involved in some grooming scandal 764 shit and was charged with serious crimes.

    However he was able to with a public defender (though I suspect he did most of the work himself) challenging the evidence being displayed by showing the feds raided his home 7 minutes before a warrant was signed and also may have gone overboard with their look into his digital history.

    His hearing has been delayed so I was wondering what his chances of winning both his motion and hearing are.

    https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/crime/4739159/child-porn-suspect-linked-terrorists-might-go-free-alleged-fbi-mistakes/?srsltid=AYCX9vId5De9eEDbc6qCfLZwvKXhM3ubtTuTbKa291FQjyXGneKf-Cpw

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    I put in an effort to try to find some form of community and it crashed and burned. I'm a very messed-up person internally from my upbringing, and I was very sheltered, so I never really had friends or was invited to anything. I'm almost 30, and I know I'm doomed because I've never been invited to a wedding as an adult. I have no close connections, no relationship, no family even really. I don't know why I bother but I'm also too scared to kill myself. What do? I'm tired
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    Anyone? Please? Sigh
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    Do you drink? Can't really solve any of this as a teetotaler

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    >>35054481
    who did u rob
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    >>35054410
    We both know each other long enough, if you wanted to pull that act off you should've done it sooner
    You literally cannot even sleep with me accompanying you, and I know much emotional burden this past few weeks has been for you
    But you brought this to yourself, so I want you to make sure you never forget about how much of a scumbag you are.
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    >>35054493
    I'm sorry I disappointed you. Don't waste too much time scorning me.
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    I may be a despicable piece of shit, but at least I'm not an abusively powerful despicable piece of shit like Satan.
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    >>35054488
    My state has a grant to incentivize and support businesses to specifically output what my business does. Its free money. That one is $10,000. The second is through a non profit for $4000. I got an email for the gov grant status that im approved. The non profit distributed the grant but its funded by a family trust. I did the tele interview with the head of the trust today and am approved. I need to order everything in the next week and turn in reciepts to be reimbursed.

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    How do you not let your criminal record constantly remind you of your past?

    Especially when you have to answer on applications if you've ever been convicted of a crime?
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    >>35053347
    >if your kids want to do something thats involving a school fieldtrip
    they do background checks for that?
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    >>35053469

    Yes I spent 18 months in solitary confinement completely alone because I caught covid from being locked in a small booth with a guy who caught it from being in the hospital while incarcerated, we both were on the same controlled medication (methadone) so i was forced every day to get my dose, so i eventually got stuck in a med seg cell which is the best cell because the TV is big and very close to the door and you can hear it

    eventually got shipped to a whole new city for a year and got put on a wing alone i wasn't allowed to be around any other inmates or staff, it was basically a segregated wing for those who tested positive. some of the guys who go crazy and bang on the cell door for 12 hours a day

    I had no books (only a bible KJV from the Trinitarian society. i had about 2 phone calls in 12 months because all my calls to family were long distance and cost 10x more

    at one time i truly thought the loudspeaker was talking about me in the morning
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    >>35053560
    What the hell were you in for?
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    >>35053560
    goddamn that covid lol it's the gift that keeps on giving huh? lol did they make you take the vax?
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    >>35053560
    Holy f anon you got freaking unlucky with the covid...

    its so ragefueling that i dont know where to start
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    Idk man. Are you done being a moral busybody?
    We had that before. Religious sjws trying to out purity spiral each other in the 2000s. The same names jumped ship to be woke Karens.
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    Idk wtf this is about but the last comment is true. Niggas want a hotbitch and you see old fags with 20 year olds, look at Leo but the reverse doesn't happen. Pretending female/male relations are black and white is betapilled but you all want to rape womyn because they owe you sex. Go back to your robot containment board
    >inb4 I hope all your female relatives get raped
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    >>35052904
    women are animals they seek primary living needs, men are more complicated and complete than women
    look at the percentage of true romance which gender is truly romantic, look at avg iq between both genders men are either completely retarded or elites
    women are just okay overall by best, how many good women do you know?
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    >>35052904
    Feminists are incredibly good at starting off a post super reasonably and then letting it devolve into insults and you-all’s before even finishing the thought. It’s actually crazy because I see it all the time on this site, though maybe it’s just you doing this same thing over and over.
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    >>35052904
    >you all want to rape womyn because they owe you sex.

    Yes. Nothing more.

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    Ignoring the obvious demoralization shills, master b8ers and retards, how true is this, broadly speaking?
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    >>35051862
    kek.
    on a serious note, it does seem to ring true and only a literal child of a whore whose own daddy seemed to have had a hard time coming to terms with modern women would get triggered by.
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    >>35051672
    It's not true at all, but for some reason turdies fantasize about endlessly.
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    Sigh, another fake sloppy seconds cuck thread.
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    >>35053047
    third worlders are extreme porn addicts and can't see a woman without imagining dozens of men fucking her
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    >>35051672
    That has been the case for atleast 600 years in the west. Doesn't mean that the turd world, especially non-christian turd world, is going to be free from harlotry either. If anything, the turd world is going to experience an insane amount of unbearable debauchery, irl & digitally, so much so that it may as well have its own century of humiliation. Westerners are somewhat psychologically & culturally equipped to handle mass harlotry as many of our ancestors were whores and cucks. Turdies on the other hand are not.

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    I imagine most people would say my "life start" was a good one - loving supportive parents, stable childhood, access to education and resources. A perfectly good middle class.

    But what does it matter when literally all of it just ends up leaving me at the same future potential as some impoverished orphan who never even went to elementary? What's the point of going to college a STEM career, if you can't even get an unpaid internship due to failing the interview vibe checks (And even then if you did you'd get paid about as much as a McDonalds worker)

    What purpose is there to struggle if the best efforts just give the same result as nothing? In the end, the only difference between me and a random illiterate bum who spent their childhood skipping school and playing in the streets is that the illiterate bum probably has more friends and spent less time studying.
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    >>35054189
    You will keep suffering and degenerating until you understand you need other humans or you die. I'm going through the latter right now. Literally disintegrating physically.
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    >>35054208
    Frankly, anon, no, I genuinely feel at utter peace when alone and only care for having good discussions about things I'm interested in every now and then. The only downside I have for not having friends is not being able to get those "I know a guy" jobs.
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    >>35054211
    You're not here for advice, you've made up your mind - life is what it is and you're a volcel reeing at the internet as if it's not all caused by your desire to be alone. You're welcome, i made you admit that in your own thread, you're the problem not society and your ability to get a job or not.
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    >>35054219
    That's the exact sort of behavior I am talking about. I have no hope, for despite merely wanting to do my part and be left alone, that's just not possible because I don't play the social game.
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    >>35054118
    >>35053997
    Stop pontificating and sort your own shit out

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    How do you resist being sexually attracted to women that you absolutely fucking hate with every fiber of your being?

    You know what I'm talking about? Those evil cunts that killed your dog in cold blood but you can't resist looking at their ass?
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    >>35049217
    >When you stop hating yourself, unironically, you stop going for women you hate.
    I hate myself with every fiber of my being lol
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    >>35049252
    lol that's a dude isn't it
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    >>35049252
    omg so that's where they got the inspiration for the heart symbol... a woman's fucking ass...
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    >>35050317
    that's so perverted
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    >>35050317
    And a lot more of things. We are disgusting by nature

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    I made a friend in a game; we clicked, and I really liked him. He’s the kind of person you meet and think, “I want to be friends with him no matter what.” He has such a radiant energy that it’s impossible not to like him. A few months after meeting him, he told me in a text:

    “I could edit one of your messages to make it look like you said something bad, then spread it around.”

    My mind went blank. Could someone really be that cruel? I hadn’t done anything to him; I’d always supported him during the time we spent together on social media and in games. I felt like I should walk away, but I didn’t. Why? Because I like my solitude, but I like it even more when he’s there. I’ve gotten used to his presence, and that’s the problem. When we don’t talk, I feel like something’s missing—as if I’m incomplete without him. I talked to him about it; I told him it was wrong, but he played dumb, acting like he didn’t know what I was talking about. And, honestly, the problem is definitely me. No one forced me to depend on him; I put myself in that situation all on my own.

    I had planned to write him a letter for New Year’s and cut ties with him, but I can’t bring myself to do it. I’m afraid of leaving him alone, but I’m also afraid he’ll follow through on what he said in that text message. I’m not afraid of being exposed, but rather that he’ll manipulate others’ perception of me with a fake screenshot. But I have no proof of what he said and no way to defend myself. And even so, I can’t bring myself to hate him—or myself—it just doesn’t come naturally to me. If you were in my shoes, what would you do?

    This is probably the worst place ever to ask this, but does anybody have any tips whatsoever on how to go out and do things with people sober? Its literally impossible, i have audhd and i find myself so unbarable sober, to the point where ive distanced myself from everyone possible, i dont do school nor do i do anything and literalky everyone i know has no problem with this. No matter how much i want to hang out with people my social battery literally lasts 10 minutes unless im drunk ect.
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    >>35053583
    Just don’t tell anyone you’re drunk. Why you gotta be sober? Complicating the fuck outta things.
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    >>35053583
    Don't be sober.

    I'm a man in my early 30s, and I've recently started taking better care of myself. After spending a couple of years in the same dead-end job, I'm finally transitioning into a better-paying role.

    My ex broke up with me a couple of years ago, so I initially tried to meet as many women as possible. I failed miserably, so I eventually focused my attention on myself, including fitness, fashion, grooming, and all that kind of faggotry you get into when you're single, and no woman wants to talk to you.

    Lately, I've become less interested in dating. I've even started visiting restaurants alone and striking up conversations simply because I enjoy meeting people.

    That's how I met this 22-year-old woman working at a small restaurant. I initially thought she was around 28, and I was genuinely impressed to discover that she owns it along with another one. She's extremely fit, although her face isn't particularly attractive, if you know what I mean. A bit of a butterface. Anyways, I found myself imagining that she could potentially become my next partner, so I asked her out. We ended up kissing in the car.

    However, after exchanging a few messages, she made it clear that she wasn't interested in anything long-term. Fair enough. I wasn't particularly bothered, and we agreed to remain friends. Recently, she mentioned needing a small $400 loan to cover some small business expenses. She NEVER actually asked me for money, but I offered, and she accepted. While discussing repayment, I jokingly suggested she could pay me back with food, the money itself, or an entire day of sex.

    Her response? "Okay, anon, let's fuck and everyone's happy."

    Now I'm a little conflicted. I believe she's being genuine, but there's something strange about knowing she's coming downtown this Monday so we can sleep together. I'll also have to pay for the hotel, although that's not a financial concern.

    So, what the hell have I gotten myself into? What's your take, and what should I do?
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    >>35054277
    Enjoy

    By the way, how does she own a restaurant at 22?

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    I organically have a bunch of the hobbies women are supposed to like.

    I cook, read, go out doors, I am appropriately media literat, make things, like paper craft and general crafts. I am healthy. I also have some more macho hobbies but that's another point.

    Anyways this has done absolutely nothing for me in the dating market.

    Are healthy attractive hobbies just a smoke screen? I have a feeling they are meaningless.
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    >>35051842
    Thank you word police I don't know how any of us could have gone on without your help. Really it means so much to us that you pointed out ... Nothing of value.
    Hang yourself l, it will make your mom proud.
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    >>35051832
    I don't think anyone says "these are my hobbies" it's just shown through what you are able to talk about.
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    An artist is attractive. We have plenty of guy artists showing off their creations like peacocks and occasionally offering the "I'll paint/photograph you"

    >>35051842
    Ironic misspelling
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    >>35052859
    Fair. I have made offers to do similar but never in a pushy way.
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    Wants a date, doesn't want to do something scummy.

    Pick one anon, this is real life.

    Tell her you will give her the good news over dinner. Don't ask.

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    im not gonna act like ik everyone im 20 and i want the older generation to enlighten me, but i grew up thinking that men were abusers, women were oppressed yada yada
    now it sounds like women got all men in a chokehold, how come these animals (not all of them) has found a way to take control back?
    are the men in power "chads" letting this happen so they can reclaim power from weak avg normies like me and you?

    i cant really think of anything that men oppress women in anymore? you open then news and just get news of men getting raped in different ways everyday
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    >>35054437
    >im not gonna act like ik everyone
    everything*
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    ofc im not talking about a single fact but just a collective of events, for my fellow men in the usa i think women got 98% of the jobs in 2026 etc etc

    im just curious how cant men who are supposedly more evil and cutthroat fight back? is everyone cucked to oblivion in the us?
    am i just cherry picking? or maybe im echochambering idk
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    another example is mostly liberals actually fighting for fucked up rules and openly just being psychopathic, idk if its better to be a nice person or straight up evil

    but thats my point most of the men rights movements lack the oomph, they are being direct and mean enough and idk why?
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    cancel culture too, so its not just about being physically strong or wtv, but everyone of those dipshits actually fights however they can, on the contrary no one from the majority of spaces controlled by men go the distance to get what they want, its mostly women who now seek change

    and im curious why?
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    What do you need advice on?

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    My older sister has an obsession with a died-young rocker. He was obscure enough that saying who it is might be a privacy issue.

    This is obviously not healthy. She can't form real relationships as a result. I'm pretty sure she's a virgin and she has never had a relationship. She is 30.

    I had the misfortune of snooping through her phone. She has saved hundreds of pics of this man, pictures of zines & articles mentioning him, and spent money on vinyl records, CDs and more. But worst of all, she uses AI chat bots to roleplay talking to him. Some of the chats have supernatural or sci-fi aspects, such as time travel, and some are more grounded. It looks like she spends hours a day, maybe even most of her time roleplaying in that app (Chai).

    She's private about it and I wouldn't know how bad it was if I didn't guess her pin on her phone.

    What the fuck do you do about that?
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    >>35050131
    This. Who cares. She's functional and celibate, better than being a hoe and getting std's or being found in a ditch. Just leave her alone, you don't accidently click on apps whilst on someone elses phone either. Respect her autism and make the move to live alone with your gf if it bothers you so much
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    >>35050224

    Thank you for asking. For sake of politeness, should I make my own thread? I don't want to derail OP from receiving help. I would like help redirecting my focus to kinks that aren't as nasty and unsustainable. I feel like such a freak being like "I have a stomach bug fetish" because.... who the hell wants that?? I told my therapist I like vomit, but she thinks I'm just into the idea of eating too much with someone, then puking on each other. She has no idea how depraved it is and how it's causing me distress to engage in this behavior. This isn't how I want to navigate my day. I am Catholic.
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    >>35051097
    I wanna know more about this too, wtf. Make ur thread or stn
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    >>35050204
    >>35051097
    please make a thread on this
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    >>35049725
    OP why are you stalking your sis? what sort of moral ground do you have over family? i understand if you’d go this far to snap her back into reality, but people eventually have their limits. she’ll grow tired then move onto the next obsession to invest in. it’s best to leave her be than to force her out of it, and by doing so you’ll avoid the worse than can happen towards your relationship and herself entirely.

    once it manifests into an /actual/ problem that affects your life, then consider intervention & help her find the right therapy she needs.

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    How do I stop posting on 4chan/imageboards in general? I've been posting here every day since I was ~15, so about ten years.
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    >>35053221
    you just stop. dont be a faggot
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    >>35053221
    There is nothing better in this world right now than weed, vidya and shitposting.
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    It should be easier than ever to leave this dying website
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    >>35054456
    And yet I still post here every single day



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