My older sister has an obsession with a died-young rocker. He was obscure enough that saying who it is might be a privacy issue.This is obviously not healthy. She can't form real relationships as a result. I'm pretty sure she's a virgin and she has never had a relationship. She is 30.I had the misfortune of snooping through her phone. She has saved hundreds of pics of this man, pictures of zines & articles mentioning him, and spent money on vinyl records, CDs and more. But worst of all, she uses AI chat bots to roleplay talking to him. Some of the chats have supernatural or sci-fi aspects, such as time travel, and some are more grounded. It looks like she spends hours a day, maybe even most of her time roleplaying in that app (Chai).She's private about it and I wouldn't know how bad it was if I didn't guess her pin on her phone.What the fuck do you do about that?
>>35049725>how do I get my sister to lose her virginity
>>35049725>She is 30.throw the whole bitch away
>>35050082The problem is more so that she's a loser who won't move out and her genuine femceldom is a big factor in that.
>>35050097Are you showing her how its done by having a hot gf, a job and a plan to move out soon?
Thread themehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UE8CjwQK3-4
>>35050110I do have a gf, a job, and she has a job too. Anyway we don't live with parents. It's a roommate situation but I don't want to be tied to her for the rest of my life. She stinks
>>35050097>>35050127so you're basically mad at your sister for no reasonlet her have her fantasy boy there's genuinely nothing wrong with thatit's the same as playing video games or watching porn
I don't know much of this applies to her, or really how much you could do to help her, but I went through a similar phase for about a year. Was seeing someone who didn't get me at all and made me feel more alienated than anything. Around that time I fell hard for an unattainable figure. This lasted a year. For me it symbolized a part of me that was once repressed and so I had a void there that I tried to fill with someone else as I was told I couldn't. I integrated what I yearned for in this person in my life and the void went away. Or re-integrated rather, as those things were always there. I also by miracle met a group of people who were just like me, and by extension similar to that figure and I forgot about them the instant I felt at home again, both internally and externally.For others, perhaps they fall for this kind of thing because they think they don't deserve to actually be with someone they relate to so they doom themselves to this as that's what they think they deserve, or they are some flavor of avoidant and so they favor one sided waifuism/husbandoism "relationships" as it's nothing more than mental masturbation and they don't have to risk getting hurt or having to cope with the imperfections of a real person, just replaying the ideal honeymoon phase in their head and projecting their ideal partner onto this person who they'll never meetEither way, if she was to somehow date around and find someone who at least somewhat remotely represents her void, she might catch up, either way it's something she should seek professional help for as I don't know how much you can do.
>>35049725Hi anon. This makes me feel better about my own weird habits. I masturbate to stories about people who have the stomach bug and can't stop farting, but at least I don't obsess over anyone real.
>>35050204Please tell us a bit about your childhood.
>>35049725Who is it though?
>>35050131This. Who cares. She's functional and celibate, better than being a hoe and getting std's or being found in a ditch. Just leave her alone, you don't accidently click on apps whilst on someone elses phone either. Respect her autism and make the move to live alone with your gf if it bothers you so much
>>35050224Thank you for asking. For sake of politeness, should I make my own thread? I don't want to derail OP from receiving help. I would like help redirecting my focus to kinks that aren't as nasty and unsustainable. I feel like such a freak being like "I have a stomach bug fetish" because.... who the hell wants that?? I told my therapist I like vomit, but she thinks I'm just into the idea of eating too much with someone, then puking on each other. She has no idea how depraved it is and how it's causing me distress to engage in this behavior. This isn't how I want to navigate my day. I am Catholic.
>>35051097I wanna know more about this too, wtf. Make ur thread or stn
>>35050204>>35051097please make a thread on this
>>35049725OP why are you stalking your sis? what sort of moral ground do you have over family? i understand if you’d go this far to snap her back into reality, but people eventually have their limits. she’ll grow tired then move onto the next obsession to invest in. it’s best to leave her be than to force her out of it, and by doing so you’ll avoid the worse than can happen towards your relationship and herself entirely. once it manifests into an /actual/ problem that affects your life, then consider intervention & help her find the right therapy she needs.
