This board is constantly talking about “how do I get this girl” and shit and I’m gonna keep it real.Be a flawed, selfish, and manipulative person. I was someone formerly diagnosed with ASPD. I don’t think I meet criteria anymore. I got tired of being where I was as a piece of shit taking advantage of everyone and I genuinely had no problem with getting a girlfriend or occasional fling. They never stayed though, and a lot of other social shit I was unhappy with so I seeked change. The issue is after therapy, for an entire year I had an extreme drought of girls by trying to be genuine, authentic, honest, and a truly deep romantic of pouring my heart out to my loves. They’ve never left quicker in my life. I was met repeatedly with disgust, aversion, ghosting, and just quick change ups to “I’d prefer we were friends.”!This year I finally gave up. I’m still prosocial in every other way in life, but with women I have returned to being a piece of shit and they all just clamor for my false behaviors of being an avoidant, abusive, deceptive, manipulative asshole. I have multiple girls (situationships and talking stages) but everytime I tried having only one they always lost interest and hated my romantic gestures and wholesome interests. It hurts me now to have to hide it and not be my real self. I used to be a misanthrope. Now I’m just misogynistic and I really, really, really don’t want to be because I love beautiful women. Or I thought I did. I’m not a Chad but I’m not ugly either so I’ve had failings before but never held it against them until I learned that prosocial behavior disgusts them. Women say they wonder where good men are but genuinely encourage men to be more evil or capable of evil so we can be for them and reward it.Just go study manipulation tactics. I’m sorry to any good hearted men out there who can’t do this. I’ve enough empathy now to feel bad for you and those of my friends who are just kind hearted men.
I hate to break it to you but ASPD isn't something you just stop meeting the criteria for and stop being. It's a personality disorder, it's not like fleeting like depression or anxiety might me. If you were diagnosed as ASPD, then you're ASPD and that doesn't change. A schizoid just doesn't stop being a schizoid because he made a friend. Perhaps you lied about your symptoms to your doctor and you weren't ASPD to begin with?
>>35057728>Women don’t like good hearted menWater is wet and the sky is blue
>>35057728From an evolutionary perspective, there is no need for romantic love to be wholesome. Women have evolved to operate on perceptions of social value. Anything that is common and easy to acquire is considered low-value, regardless of how noble your intentions are. So looking for the purity that you desire is a lost cause. You can only get what you want when you don't care about having it, and avoidance is the only way to communicate that.Or just get a dog, now that's wholesome.
