I realized I am kinda just boring to be around. I don't drink, I don't smoke weed, I don't go clubbing/party, I know some sports because i like/played baseball but that's about it. I can hold a conversation if needed but it's not something i am really good at if i continue. I have friends but they are similar to me, but in normal conversation wit co-workers i just kinda freeze and or can't relate since they do all of what i mentioned. What can i do to fix this?
>>35057001Drinking, weed, and partying are all copes for hypersocialized people who don't have any fulfilling lives. Don't try to be like them.
>I don't drink, I don't smoke weed, I don't go clubbing/party,Neither do I. I've met a few people, including girls, who are the same. If those three things are who you truly are, don't compromise on your integrity and just wait to meet more people like you. As far as talking to those who do those things, just don't discuss those things. Don't expect to make deep connections with your coworkers unless they are really like you. That's normal. I've rarely had a problem.
>>35057001Drink, or be alone
>>35057303Just because you have given up doesn't mean others have to. You are factually incorrect
>>35057334Ok, then stay alone.