>>35053430
Virginity is not really relevant at all.

If you're hot, women won't care and most will want to get with you.

If you're somewhat presentable, normal and provide money and stability, women won't care and some will want to get with you after they pass a certain age.

If you're neither, women are going to reject you no matter what.

life of celibacy it is

>>35053514
I am obese so game over I guess?

>>35053596
You could always lose weight.

>>35053430
if you're not ugly and/or socially inept, for every woman that thinks virginity is an ick, there are two that would kill to be your first.

>>35053430

it really doesn't fucking matter anymore, if you've improved yourself to the point of being massively desired. As long as you hold the frame - u could literally just play with her in bed like "oo what does this do" and she'll bend over backwards.

The old virgin thing implies you've failed on a wider macro level in life or are undesirable, but if u were legitimately busy , depressed traumatized etc and u worked to get yourself out , never think u are worth any less on the market. If anything u would have a higher value if u were such a character.

But I doubt u are if u are obese.

>>35053430
You need to understand your psychology and subconscious (karma) patterns. That victim mentality (fear) is stronger than your love of self and other at the moment. Build some confidence in the way natural for you. If that fails be as vulnerable as possible to let out the trapped energy even if it leads to failure initially.

Or try some psychedelics and realise other people are just a mirror of your beliefs.

>>35053430
Locally? Pretty much yeah. Your only hope is geomaxxing and you have to do it at least once before you turn 35 to get the momentum going.