i made a thread about this girl before. so me and her hung out one time. i have feelings for her, and she knows this. she told me "i'm willing to see where things go" over a bunch of other stuff like she doesn't know what she wants, etc, because i asked her what it meant when she said she doesn't want to lead me on at the bar. fast forward a bit, we have been chatting normally. she would say "morning" sometimes in the morning. we were supposed to go to a pumpkin patch maze, and she told me she couldnt go that day and said she was sick. she specifically said she loves going there and doesnt like to miss it instead of hinting that she wanted to hang with me. i asked her in person "were you really nauseous". and just continued it like a normal conversation.so after some time, i believe right after that, i noticed her not initiating as much, or at all. so i literally bluntly asked her " i dont even know if you like me any more. what is it?" and it kinda spurred this argument where I ended up defending myself most of the time. she said she likes me as a friend but doesnt like how i talk to her sometimes. (asking if she was nauseous, asking her why she has to move and get a river job).there is too much we said but she basically said she values me as a friend and hopes that we feel more comfortable communicating moving forward. well right after this, she still hasn't initiated or sent me a text or anything. it feels the exact same. (we text on discord)should i even bother initiating with her anymore? i really don't understand because i didn't do a damn thing to her and treated her so nicely and we have a lot in common. what should i do?
and also right after she said she was sick, she was seemingly "disconnecting" herself from everyone because of personal reasons. just the timing was weird. idk women are fucking retarded
>>35053357>i really don't understand because i didn't do a damn thing to her and treated her so nicely and we have a lot in common.Maybe you should try being a little less entitled? But no, I wouldn't bother chasing after her any more.
>>35053400well its just annoying because she didn't remove me as a friend and i was trying to make more friends. i ended up having feelings for her yes but she made it clear and i'm fine with that. why not just remove me altogether then why drag me around thinking nothings wrong?
>>35053357Once she made it clear that she no longer had any insight into the relationship going in the direction you thought was possible, I don't think there's anything else you can do about it. She's no longer interested in using you as an orbiter, and she's probably setting increasingly strict criteria for the kind of man she's looking for. I suggest you look for other women with whom you can build a deeper relationship, because if you're hoping something will come out of it, then it's not going to happen. Don't waste your time.
>>35053357as a girl, i’ll admit that we like having someone to talk to that we know have feelings for us even if we don’t like them back.i’d say that she doesn’t really like you romantically and just doesn’t want to break off ur friendship by directly admitting that she doesn’t like you in that sense and just wants be friends. (essentially friendzoning) so she’s keeping it vague to make you confused whether if she likes you or not. >we were supposed to go to a pumpkin patch maze, and she told me she couldnt go that day and said she was sick. she specifically said she loves going there and doesnt like to miss it instead of hinting that she wanted to hang with me. she definitely just made up an excuse saying that she was sick. and how she said she was disconnecting herself from everyone else, she just said it in a general way to not make you feel like you were the only she’s disconnecting herself from. >she said she likes me as a friend but doesnt like how i talk to her sometimes. (asking if she was nauseousthis is something you would hear from a boyfriend rather than a friend so she probably thought you were being too concerned about her and didn’t want you acting that way.i agree with the others, you should stop wasting your time trying to expect a relationship or anything else from her. i hope you find someone else good luck
>>35053357Don't do this half-assed stuff. Either go full willful and stop at nothing mode or just disengage.
