How do I get my girlfriend to give me blowjobs again? When we started to see each other she'd do it on the regular but now we only have regular sex.I've tried asking her outright but then she gets upset and says it kills the mood when I ask...
Have you talked to her about it while not having sex?
>>35051812Yeah, I have to agree with the other anon. What you're asking is "How do I successfully pressure my girlfriend into performing sexual acts she doesn't enjoy and doesn't want to do?" In a healthy relationship, this is not something you should want to achieve. You should want sex to be something that both of you enjoy.You could perhaps choose a moment when you're not in bed together and there's no likelihood you will be in the next few hours, and ask her "It seemed like you used to like having me in your mouth, but we haven't done that for a long time - what changed?" Make sure you ask it sounding like you're curious, or perhaps like you want to make sure there isn't anything *you* did to put her off it - if you make it sound like you're complaining about her, you'll get nowhere. But brace yourself for the possibility that she simply never enjoyed it in the first place, did it for a while because she thought it was expected of her, and finally got sick of doing things she doesn't like.
>>35051861>>35051833Fuck off, being mutually sexually satisfied is part of a healthy relationship, including me. What I meant is how do I talk to her about it.I guess it's just hard leaving an otherwise good and valuable relationship because the sex is bad.
>>35051812Do you eat her out? Do you take your time to rub and feel out all the parts she likes? And don’t ever ask. That does kill the mood. It’s like asking for a kiss… “can I kiss you?” “Can you give me a blowjob?” Motion it to her. When she’s kissing your chest/body, gently bring her head to your dick. Make her think it was her idea to give you a blowjob.And you like blowjobs so much you’d post on 4chan about it? You should focus on fucking her so good she’ll do what you want anyway. Learn new positions. Idk man.
>>35051970>How can I control someone else's feelings Lol
>>35051812She doesn't like giving blowjobs and never did. She only performed them at the start to impress you and get you to love her. Now that she is cozy in the relationship with you she has dropped the performance, it's classic woman shit. She doesn't like blowjobs because semen tastes like gelatinous acidic bitter bile, it's spermatozoa from your hairy wrinkled testicles and the fluid comes from the prostate up your asshole. She does not enjoy having that in her mouth but she did enjoy pleasing you because it got you to like her more. She has the relationship and the steady income of affection now so her motivation to blow you is no longer required
>>35051907>being mutually sexually satisfied is part of a healthy relationshipNo one is denying that - except you. You think you enjoying sex is important, and her enjoying sex isn't. Sex can't be *mutually* satisfying if one person is constantly required to do something she hates.Lack of sexual compatibility is actually a legitimate reason to break up with someone. In the long term, the relationship probably won't survive if the sex doesn't work well. But yeah: MUTUALLY. Not just for you.>What I meant is how do I talk to her about it.And I answered that: >>35051861>You could perhaps choose a moment when you're not in bed together and there's no likelihood you will be in the next few hours, and ask her "It seemed like you used to like having me in your mouth, but we haven't done that for a long time - what changed?" Make sure you ask it sounding like you're curious, or perhaps like you want to make sure there isn't anything *you* did to put her off it - if you make it sound like you're complaining about her, you'll get nowhere. But brace yourself for the possibility that she simply never enjoyed it in the first place, did it for a while because she thought it was expected of her, and finally got sick of doing things she doesn't like.
>>35052053certified foid protector showoff performative male, kindly kill yourself
>>35052082respectful towards women and respect their boundaries =holy performative malesounds like you’re one of the misogynistic men of this generation. go kiss a man u fag since u hate women so much
