Do you guys have any tips to heal angry people?What is in an angry person's heart? Do they need to learn something, or do we keep pushing their boundaries in ways that make them upset? Are they too impatient to listen, or have they been ignored for too long?Do you guys know any angry people? An angry person erased some of my boundaries, so I can't feel upset, even though deep down I have been violated and I will never forget this. My heart will never change and they cannot erase my entire life no matter how hard they try.Genies cannot grant love potions. Control and domination will not win true love. And true love is a thing that is so valuable that it cannot be bought with money.I can't even describe true love because of the boundaries they have erased. It was never a game to me. It was their game that wasted years of my life, a sickening indulgence, and they have the gall to spread rumors to people that call me a parasite about it, every day.It's not down to earth or "reality" to have loveless sex, although an angry person will not know. They excommunicate themselves with their anger. Maybe one day they will calm down and let go of their grudges and anger, to play with people who don't tolerate such abuse. With people who can give them what they need.
>>35050309>to spread rumors to people that call me a parasite about it, every dayYour thread sounds like a narc larping
>>35050422What does this mean?
>>35050520pop psychology enjoyed by foids and bpd men (99% fags). They can't say "shit person" because that's too edgy and mean so they use a castrated euphemism.
>>35050528No just who they are. You can narc out and make posts to try to push dismissal but it is easily seen through.
>>35050581You must be over 18 to post here, nigger.
The term narcissist and bpd (borderline personality disorder) are thrown around wildly. It's quite more accurate to use the term 'asshole' but they've fallen out of favor.Possibly because the assholes that use narcissist think their smarter than everyone else. Best to just ignore them. I think really the only way to deal with angry people is to not let their behavior bother you. Easier said than done.
>>35050528It's both pop psychology and serious. They are trying to describe a concept when people are socially selfish. It can be dangerous at worst, or just draining at best.I wasn't sure if that person was calling me a police officer. But lol, i just realised what it looked like through that lense. I am really focused on the difference between control and love.I am not BPD. When people complain, that's one thing, but BPD has something to do with actions too, and I am only a little bit impatient....people who get abused and blow up, that's not BPD, but a person with BPD probably feel like that every day. and it sucks that people who have complaints get called bpd when their needs are never met.
>>35050309I am wrath incarnate. I hate everyone and everything, except...my hedgehog. He is my little one. My son. He is more kind and decent than any human I've ever known. He has no fear of me at all. If anyone harmed him, they would suffer an absolute Hell for doing so. I would destroy them for harming my little ally against the darkness of this hideous world.I guess...in my case...having someone to care about other than myself has kept my darkness at bay.
>>35050309I've known angry people and they've all been just pieces of shit who aren't worth the time. They are usually very arrogant and controlling and their anger comes from people around them not acting subservient to them.
>>35050758>All angry people are just arrogamt control freaks. It couldn't possibly be that worthless, gaslighting pieces of shit have become so common.Kys, retard.
>>35050808sentient individual
>>35050808Yeah, you're not mad, people are just gaslighting you. This is exactly what I'm talking about.
>>35050850Fuck you, moron.
>>35050758So bruised narc ego. That's the kind of person to block and ghost. Hate narcs.
>>35050850Yep, narc larping op gaslighting whoever they are targeting
>>35050758A manipulative person would say a victim who is held hostage, who asks to be set free, is a narc that needs people to be subservient to them.
>>35051434cuz every time I ask for them to let people breathe, doesnt work. Maybe i should ask, "let me breathe. Give me space."
>>35051472Give a timeline and come back at that time to go forward. Walls and anxiety create dissonance.
>>35050309if you want to heal angry people you have to question the root of it, some anger is justified but it isn't healthy to let it consume you when anger takes the steering wheel you tend to do stupid things.one thing that helped me be less angry is venting and letting go of grudges it's not good to get upset over stupid shit that happened years ago.
Realize who someone is and leave. Nothing to work out
