Hello /adv/, im an autistic black girl that struggles with femininity. When I was a kid all the way towards high school I dressed like a boy (wearing baggy clothes, no makeup, etc) and I noticed throughout my current adulthood people label me as male or transgender and I want to change that. I also feel like I'm not as feminine as my peers in my college. Any advice and tips regarding makeup, clothes, etc?
Femininity is a dumb social norm, what you want is to be beautiful which is achieved through skin/hair routines and working out, but i am a male so take my words with a grain of salt.
>>35049665I understand thank you
>>35049654Fix your posture, learn how to do makeup, learn how to use clothes to accentuate your figure (if you're going to wear baggy pants wear a tight top with a lower neckline; pull your waistband up to the dip in your waist not sagging at the hips). Wear jewelry. If they mistake you for a man, you might have a more masculine face. The only way to fix this is makeup and washing your face often (smooth skin makes you look more feminine) If you have acne, clear that first. Watch videos on doing your hair, since it's probably the most effective way to improve your appearance
>>35049903NTA but in addition to this, grow out your hair. I've seen cute black women but they all have long or fluffy hair, the ones with short hair look like teenage boys.
