Hi, so recently I started e-dating a guy, and we get along quite nicely. We share a lot in common, we have great chemistry, and he treats me well, but a few days ago he sent me a picture of his face and I don't think I expected him to look this bad?>Thinning hair>Unkempt, patchy beard>Room is a genuine mess>A literal piss bottle visible in the far cornerNot to mention he's a decent bit older than me. I know this is shallow as fuck but how should I address these? I don't want to break his autistic heart but the fact that I've gotten the ick is undeniable.
>>35049379You are under no obligation to date anyone. Even if anons think your reasons are baffling, stupid, or downright evil, it is still your absolute right to choose. And in your case, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s just trolling you with the most comically unattractive pictures possible. Also, for what it’s worth, I am far more put off if I learn a woman has dated repulsive gremlins than I am if past dates were conventionally attractive. She doesn’t get brownie points for not being “shallow”. It just makes it look like she has no standards, and those low standards rarely stay confined to looks.
what a shitty era we live in
>>35049379>e-datingJust ghost>>35049405Buttmad piss bottle user
>>35049379The piss bottle is waiting for you.It is lovingly fermenting and maturing in the dark corner, producing delectable bacterial cultures and pressurized gasses. When the time is right, you will be sat down on the professional gamer chair...and then you will drink it.
>>35049390>I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s just trolling you No, I don't think he is. We've been e-dating for a month already, and the amount of time we spent together is genuinely too high for this to be anything but serious...>>35049414I can't just ghost him, anon. Not only do we share a friend circle, but I also would feel really bad for doing so. He's a good man, but I just didn't expect him to be an unkempt gremlin... Which is why I asked how I should address this all in the first place. I don't want to be rude or mean to him.
>>35049479Tell him to change for you.He will.
