How do I get my gf to be normal about her lips?She has regular white girl lips which I think look great but she's self conscious about it and insists that she needs bigger lips because it's what she sees on instagram or whatever.Currently what she does is she'll overpaint her top lip to make it look bigger. See pic. I'll post a couple others. I've told her I think it looks dumb and looks like she doesn't know how to apply makeup. She think's it's a subtle way to make her lips look bigger.But even on top of that she is insisting on getting lip injections to make her lips bigger and I don't want her to start down that rabbit hole.I've tried telling her I love her lips, I kiss her all the time, she's beautiful, etc etc but she says I'm her boyfriend so I have to say that stuff and everyone else is judging her for having thin lips.I genuinely love her and don't want her to start doing all this plastic surgery bullshit but she is insisting.
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Last pic.At this point I'm almost starting to think she's insisting on looking better despite what I say because she's looking for attention from other men. I know this is probably just me being paranoid but what the fuck am I supposed to do after I've fawned over her and she still says that's not enough.Am i supposed to go all dark triad and start shitting on her for her thin lips and emotionally abuse her into seeking my approval?
>>35049142seeing it as just "looking attention from other men" is a simplistic way to look at female insecurity and you know it, even though i get your annoyance that she doesn't want to listen to you especially if you give her validation that you like her lips. but women are instilled with the information that how attractive is her whole value. it's wanting to be attractive for attractiveness itself. and seems like she's 100% been made to believe bigger lips are absolutely more beautiful, so for her there isn't even a question, her bf wants her to keep looking less worse and he wants her to have less beauty for his own reasons. she probably doesn't think in those words, but i bet her thinking regarding your stance goes back to these thoughts.i agree it seems like it doesn't look the best irl. maybe in pictures, but it seems like she has her lips like that all the time. she's insecure about them or just somehow fell in love with how this looks. if you want to go the good bf route, you could do something like offer for her to get her makeup done (especially if there's an event or something else coming up), and when they inevitably definitely won't draw her lips like that, really compliment them afterwards. i wouldn't shit on her for how she currently does her lips, that doesn't make sense bc you know it'll make her MORE insecure and be less reluctant to change it, even out of spite. i can't think of an evil version that could actually work, maybe watch a movie where the female lead has thin but nice-looking lips and then be a bit annoying and keep asking her why she can't keep hers like that since it looks so good lol.
>>35049275>her bf wants to keep her looking worse*opss
forbid it, if she does it dump her
>>35049132For some reason women are incredibly charmed by this ghoulishly weird dwarf and that weird mockery of a feminine expression she makes in every picture.Is she actually getting psyopped into wanting bigger lips or is she being psyopped into admiring a specific style? The first is probably more fixable.
>>35049132if words don’t move her and you don’t want her getting lip filler or injections try looking to those lip plumping glosses, they’re only temporary and last a few hours. obviously they’re gonna make her lips look bigger but it makes her happy and it won’t be that plastic surgery bullshit that you don’t want. they aren’t even that thin and honestly it looks bad because she’s overlining them. also consider hiding her lipliners from time to time bc that first and second pic looks crazybut keep reassuring her and telling her that she looks beautiful either way. she’s eventually going to stop obsessing over her lips (i hope) good luck anon
>she's looking for attention from other menShe's doing it to compete with other women. Instagram rewards a certain look. It makes sense because pictures are judged differently than a person.>>35049326If you do so she'll insist that she's doing it for herself- which she is.>being psyopped into admiring a specific styleIdeal male body type male perferred vs female perferredThe only realistic way out is if she stops seeking more likes
>>35050130>If you do so she'll insist that she's doing it for herself- which she is.She's knowingly doing something her boyfriend finds supremely unattractive. The relationship is already over.
>>35049132Yeah over lining beyond the Cupid's bow border only ever looks somewhat passible in photos and doing it daily seems silly. If she's that bothered by it lip filler might actually be a better alternative, on the condition it's done really well by an injector who isn't a retard and knows what they're doing, and your girlfriend is someone whose face can handle filler. The mistake most women make is getting too much too quickly rather than the tinest possible amounts gradually over time until the skin itself can expand and accommodate it. There's also the risk of filler migration. Most people falsely think filler "goes away/gets absorbed" but recent studies show it actually can migrate to other parts of the face and people become filler blind and keep getting more and more which is why you see that weird look on some women where they look bloated and uncanny. I agree with the other anon that she should probably just opt for plumping glosses with mint or something rather than make a drastic change that might just give her another thing to be insecure about in the end. It's a tricky situation to navigate but I wish you luck op. Ime white girls look best emphasizing their often large and pretty eyes with makeup and keeping the lips more soft and subtle. If that sentence describes her I would actually reverse it and rather than commenting on lips you should make a point to always compliment women or celebrities who are doe eyed but have smaller lips.
honestly us women are just insecure in general, some of us just kinda accepted it or decided that spending money on our insecurities isn't worth it. especially since beauty trends nowadays change very rapidly.with the overlined cupid's bow you could suggest she slightly smudges it out, it looks more natural irl, and makes the lips look slightly fuller but not as dramatic, she can also do the same thing with her bottom lip, but very slightly. you could get her a plumping gloss like another anon suggested, i'd say you should do some research tho as some hurt like hell without much result.overall try to steer her away from permanent procedures and fillers as she might regret getting things done later and its easy to overdo it or mess up your facial proportions with this stuff.
>>35049132convince her that frequently sucking your dick makes the lips swollen
and the bonus of this ^ is all you hear is GLUK GLUK GLUK not omg I want lip surgery buy me lip filler
>>35049132She's so fat holy shitI wish i had a gf
>>35049132>>35049135>>35049142You have the same bad taste in women that I do. Tell her it's cultural appropriation to want nigger lips
