as dude how do you answer the "do you want kids" question? Seems like yes, lots can scare a girl off
You answer truthfully. Do you want to live with someone who differs on something so important?
You don’t just say “yes”, you make it more girl friendly.“Do you want kids?”“Oh yes, I can’t wait to be a Dad, I’m going to love raising and playing with my kids.”
Depends on context, is it someone you just met or have been on a few dates with?
transition the conversation to how our babies would be cute or whatever which is just an easy transition to talking about having unprotected sex
>>35049695Well with longer term you know how to handle it. It just sucks when it comes up early and you can ruin a date by giving the answer you both want because it is a red flag
>>35047882I would answer...>Someday, with the right person.>Raising kids is an immense responsibility.>Being monogamous, married, and having long lasting stability (emotionally and financially) would be an absolute must. >It isn't something one should ever approach casually or without a lot of forethought and planning.The reason you need to be this explicit is because most women that want kids just want a baby daddy, child support (sexist extortion), and don't want to be married or have actual responsibilities.As a man, you absolutely must protect yourself from abusive, gaslighting, greedy, manipulative sluts. ...and most women are all those horrible things, yet will absolutely deny it.
