i want to date a very specific kind of man. basically my male version. i can't see myself being happy or understanding anyone else, and i don't think i would be attracted to them. >dont care about height/good looks as long as you arent fuck ugly. would prefer dark hair but its not a nonnegotiable. >fellow misanthropic reclusive loner who gave up on fitting in. someone in the same position of being too spergy for normal people but not spergy or sensitive enough for most autists.>likes nerdy otaku stuff and has some weird kinks>wants a long term serious relationship>lives within an hour or so because i want to meet and date, so while i probably could find this guy online edating just wont work for meive tried hinge and bumble but virtually every person ive seen has had pictures of them at the gym or drinking at parties. obviously youre supposed to put a good front on for potential dates but its offputting. is my account too new and still showing me all the 'good' and 'normal' people? made this thread before but i didnt actually have experience on any apps and now im realising how hopeless it really is, i thought there had to be at least one out there. i have also tried hiki (neurodivergent) but it is very us-centric and i live in the uk. i feel like a lot of these men have become trans women. maybe i should look out for that? but im only attracted to male presentation. i have tried to widen my standards but i feel nothing, i have a very narrow view of what i want and i don't think i can change that. so, are there any alternate apps i can look for with this in mind? any places i can go irl? maybe cons? but ive never been so i dont know what goes on there and if theyre anything like me they don't go outside. i just dont know.
>>35045510I expect people that you describe not sitting on dating sites for normies. At least I wouldn't. Being shizo enough to not enjoy normies stuff and not shizo enough to be able to interact with them and act like one puts quite big constraints on you. They also wouldn't go to all those parties and stuff unless someone invited them and there is actual reason to go there (other than hang around). You will never meet what you want neither online no irl unless you do the same stuff irl as they do.I could think of one I way where you legitimately could meet such people - university. Specifically more technical/engineering degrees since they attract such people. So either you gotta enroll yourself into local uni and try to meet people there or have a friend who is enrolled who can help you out.
>>35045510i fit all of your requirements but i really really want a extroverted normal girl. i want this cycle of trauma and loneliness to end with me. if i ever have kids, i want them to be the exact opposite of me
>>35045538unfortunately my parents wont let me enroll at uni and i dont really want to either. its money i dont have and they just want me to be in the workforce instead of studying when i already didnt do well at school.>>35045540thats fair. i do want my potential partner would be someone who doesnt care about what others think or to be normal. if kids ever came down the line i just assume they would be autistic by default no matter who i had kids with.
>>35045549.if kids ever came down the line i just assume they would be autistic by default no matter who i had kids withwell i gotta give them the best chance at having a neurotypical brain by getting with a normal woman. i was once like you, didnt give a fuck and shit but as i've grown into my mid 20s i've realised being a misfit ruins your life. you miss out on sooooooo many things it's insane honestly
>>35045580in my experience it doesn't change much marrying a normal person. autism runs on my dads side, both him and his brother are spergs and they both married very normal extroverted women but it didn't stop either my uncle's nor my dad's kids from being spergs too. however in fairness i think my mum did save my brother a bit because he's still autistic but has decent social skills and a lot of friends, didn't help me though. >i was once like you, didnt give a fuck and shit but as i've grown into my mid 20s i've realised being a misfit ruins your life. you miss out on sooooooo many things it's insane honestlyin my opinion being a misfit only enhances the things i like about life and myself. i like unapologetically being me and not caring for others approval, i want small things in life like going for walks and having dinner with a boyfriend.
>>35045510You are looking in the wrong places and for the wrong people. You will not find high functioning autist nerds in "the apps" which are just degenerate congregation areas. High functioning nerds also do not end up left wing, so if you're finding troons you're DEFINITELY in the wrong area.
>>35045658well yeah thats why im asking.>High functioning nerds also do not end up left wing, so if you're finding troons you're DEFINITELY in the wrong area.oh yeah definitely, im pretty moderate on most things but i dislike the immigration in my country and think biological women need our own spaces so i would probably be called right wing. but its not wrong to say that a lot of former autistic chuds have become trans women. like i said i do believe in biological sex which puts me at odds with most of them but if one were to be like the kind of guy i want i could look past that if he were nuanced about it.
>>35045671>former autistic chudsDegenerates, not really sane humans. Troonerism is mostly a condition developed from the inability to distinguish fiction from reality and severe overexposure to weird porn on the internet. It's a disease that targets low IQ / damaged retards. It can also come from grooming.>if he were nuanced about itThey never are. That's as big of a red flag as facial peircings and severe drug addiction, or worse. Men troon out for different reasons than women do. Women do it out of social pressures and anxiety, men do it as a fetish, and they get off on forcing society to participate in their fetish roleplay. Trans"women" are almost without exception severely predatory degenerates who should be kept far from children, and they will make your life hell to deal with.Easiest way to find what you're looking for is to go to church and ask the older men and women about their relatives, and look in hobby spaces. The kind of dude you're looking for is hard to find in the wild, and older church ladies are always trying to meddle / play matchmaker because they're bored. Certain hobby spaces can have a lot of these dudes too, but you'd have to sort through them yourself and there's a wide range there, from the type you're looking for to the more severely damaged to the degenerates.
>>35045510Yes to all plus my pp is a bit longer than a can of monster energy. Does your hymen still intact? Otherwise im not interested.
>describe common 4chan user in romantic context>guaranteed replies
>>35045510You already made this thread a few months ago. Anyway I think I fit this description except the kinks. I live in Melbourne Australia though. Regardless people like you've described do exist they're not that rare. In your first post I remember you had a longer list of demands, but that was still attainable I pretty much fit that one too. The dating apps won't work because only normalfags use them. Honestly if you keep spamming this thread some British guy might reply eventually.
>>35045654>Ruins your lifeSuch a stupid thing to care about. Please read Adam Lanza's writings. And start to agree with them if you haven't already, he was right about everything.
>>35047834>Adam LanzaThe school shooter? The retarded teenager on a bunch of psych meds that shot up a fucking elementary school? The most subhuman vermin of the last decade? Or is there a different adam lanza?
>>35045510try duolicious to find other losers
>>35048054No, that's the Adam Lanza I meant. He was a hero though not whatever you called him. Biological life is what's evil.
>>35045510hes dead
>>35048223Kill yourself right now, you illiterate, subhuman retard.
>>35045510>where to find this kind of man?wait, lemme check on the ">dont care about height/good looks as long as you arent fuck ugly. would prefer dark hair but its not a nonnegotiable. >fellow misanthropic reclusive loner who gave up on fitting in. someone in the same position of being too spergy for normal people but not spergy or sensitive enough for most autists.>likes nerdy otaku stuff and has some weird kinks >wants a long term serious relationship >lives within an hour or so because i want to meet and date, so while i probably could find this guy online edating just wont work for me" male forum, maybe they got an answer
>>35045510>>dont care about height/good looks as long as you arent fuck ugly. would prefer dark hair but its not a nonnegotiable. yes, plus I can confidently say I am decently attractive and tall>>fellow misanthropic reclusive loner who gave up on fitting in. someone in the same position of being too spergy for normal people but not spergy or sensitive enough for most autists.yes, my own little brother hates me for being a bit spergy and never understands my dry sarcasm>>likes nerdy otaku stuff and has some weird kinkskinda yes and definitely yes, I have some hoe-scaring kinks, nothing extreme tho>>wants a long term serious relationshipsure>>lives within an hour or soI think there's a greater chance I win a lottery. Your list is too damn narrow to expect to find someone like that in a small radius.
>>35045697>They never arewrong, plenty of genderbenders out there have respect for social norms.
>>35049996Depends on where she lives, the bigger city it is the higher her chances get. So yeah the chances are low if she lives in Nebraska like you seem to think, but in the UK the chances are she lives in an urban or suburban environment and there'll be a few around.
>>35045510>lives within an hour or so because i want to meet and date, so while i probably could find this guy online edating just wont work for meYou have a misconception about distance. Someone is 2 hours away with a plane ride. They are right there if you move in. Edate with someone who you love and is the person you seek and go to them. Distance closes and once you visit.
I fit that description, yes. I am very depressed at the moment and I've lost all interest in dating, however. I decided to be celibate, until the day I die. I only search for a female friend to talk to frequently, because women are more compassionate and easier to talk to for me than men. I do not know, if you're interested in that. I am from Munich, by the way. Reply and I'll give you my contact, if I see it and do not forget about this post.
>>35050494But the catch will be that the man stands 50% chance of being paki or afghan, and another 50% chance that he's a briish man.
>>35045510>misanthropic reclusive loner who gave up on fitting inif someone genuinely hates interacting with other people, why would they bother interacting with you? you would just be another obstacle in the pursuit of misery.i think you like the fantasy of a jaded reculse but want to magically be let into his inner world.
>>35045510Got everything except weird kinks.You're very unlikely to find someone who is both a degenerate gooner and wants a long term relationship.> a lot of these men have become trans women. maybe i should look out for that?lol
>>35045510I am all these things except I don't live near you. I don't want to date though and being close to people makes me nervous. I would have to talk to a girl a really long time online before I'd be willing to meet
So what exactly DO YOU want
>>35045510>maybe i should look out for that?Good god no. Have you tried looking at an anime convention? I might have fit most of this but i'm not any kind of super weeb and in USA
>>35045510That fits me pretty accurate OPwe can talk and play some vidya gamesMy discord is sand_canyon
If you're in the north east let's get married i guess
no offense but I hope you die alone
