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I've been drinking so parts here might not be coherent. I got married two months ago to a guy who I like as a friend enough that I figured I'd rather be with him than the losers who aren't interested in anything but fucking.

Ever since we got married the air has felt different, like I'm a "favorite pet" or something more than a partner or equal. He's also been acting like we have to start having kids right away and I'm just not sure why we need to immediately focus on that when we only JUST got married especially when I'm not sure if I am really meant to be a mom?

I post here a lot on /y/ and I'm sure everyone's gonna call me a whore or something for liking dudes kissing dudes but w/e just tell me if I'm the crazy one here or not so I can relax
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>>35043783
>He's also been acting like we have to start having kids right away
But trans women (You) can't have kids?
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>>35043857
I'm not a trans woman but I've kinda wondered what being a guy would be like often enough that I wonder if I'm a trans guy or not but I figure I'm a cis woman because I do like parts of being a woman too much to quit
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If you married someone as a business arrangement, which it sounds like you did, then having kids is one of the purposes of that business arrangement. If you DIDN'T tell this guy that you don't love him, and this is a convenience marriage, then he probably thinks you actually love him, which is a lie that you should come clean about.
>I'm not sure if I am really meant to be a mom?
This shit never came up prior to GETTING MARRIED?
This sounds like woman brain telling you that you aren't getting led effectively, and you not actually being attracted to the guy. You are either a troll post or a secret nightmare scenario.
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>>35043783
Sounds like he is not who you thought he is and now trying to knock you up to trap you.
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>>35043968
Sounds like you are the guy and are trying to guilt trip her into it.

She should run. Like now.
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>>35043983
Lmao, retarded post
We both agree that this sounds like a bullshit relationship from two different perspectives
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>>35043783
You obviously made a mistake. Get a divorce. And next time, have the conversation about kids before getting engaged, not after.
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>>35043783
I don't understand why you got married at all.
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>>35043783
What the fuck is your dumbass even talking about man
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