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how to guilt free breakup 10/28/26(Wed)15:20:13 No.35043118

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how to guilt free breakup Anonymous 10/28/26(Wed)15:20:13 No.35043118 Archived

>>35043241

gf and i have had a really volatile relationship and i have broken up a number of times but keep getting talked into trying again before separating. i cant take any more of this, i cant live with this miserable feeling ever again, and yet to leave her would knock her flat on her ass so to speak and completely destroy and complicate her entire life. and i dont know if i could live with myself knowing i left her to deal with the consequences herself. what should i do?

Anonymous
10/28/26(Wed)15:21:33 No.35043121

Anonymous 10/28/26(Wed)15:21:33 No.35043121

Tell her its not you its me and block her.
At some point having the on and off really is more damaging

Anonymous
10/28/26(Wed)15:24:36 No.35043129

Anonymous 10/28/26(Wed)15:24:36 No.35043129

you're not responsible for someone else's problems. if it's bad for you it's bad for you, it's not on you to carry her through life and if anything that's yet another reason to break up with her.

Anonymous
10/28/26(Wed)16:28:38 No.35043241

Anonymous 10/28/26(Wed)16:28:38 No.35043241

>>35043118
>what should i do?
You need to leave her. Leaving her will break her heart. Accept that breaking her heart is inevitable, that there is nothing you can do to prevent it, and that anything you do to try is guaranteed to make things worse. Do it, and move on. There's no other choice.