Should I be very neurotic or very relaxed? Should I be consistent or inconsistent? I just wanna bang then and keep at a romantic distance. But they’re all very good looking and I like BPD wrangling.Their bios are usually full of sex references but that’s clearly to farm attention and idk if they actually wants me to go full coomer
>>35042322Criticize then. Give them the opportunity to prove they have worth in some way. Tease then ignore them. Meet in person asap. Relationship is only built on targeting abandonment wounds and igniting physical traumas, inciting trauma bond. Its not real love but if you just want to hook up its easy. I know the game. My strength is i the phone dance push pull manipulation as a empty life. Not real. I choose real.
>>35042322All you have to do is:>truly care and listen >signal sexual availability>show some risk taking behaviour + non-clinginess + emotional regulation and they'll start love bombing you. Once they go BPD-insane they'll start playing hot-and-cold, then tell them to get therapy(i.e., genuine helpful advice for all bpdemons) and move on.Thank you for your service.
>>35042346*I know the game. My strength is in choosing not to do the phone dance push pull manipulation as its a empty life. Not real.I choose real.
>>35042346How so I introduce myself to one of these chicks? I have BPD myself and even the slightest amount if critique kills meI always respond better to someone who lovebombs me immediately
>>35042368Be attractive. Girls give me the eyes or approach me. Then I am myself and they swoon to my wit and flirting, physical closeness is good. Touch during conversation if shes receptive. Its easy for me.
>>35042322Be vulnerable and obsessed with them.
Be hot.Don't be ugly.
Give them what they want; drinks plus xyz and sleep overs.Just find out what they like during text conversation- go out on dates and do those things. Offer to do activities at your house/hotel Then on the 2nd or 3rd do it at your house.Or get a hotel room with a downstairs bar/restaurant(with some excuse of your apartment getting renovated/ plumbing/hvac issue)- dont offer to bring them to the room - (unless she asks then RUN up there)Because if she thinks it's her idea and wants to have sex then offer to do the (game, movie, concert, arcade, etc) near.Like of course it's easy to have fun and date and have sex - if they want to have sex - so be attractive/ hotWhat is point of having a romantic relationship with a bpd? Are you just doing that to get sex consistently/longer term? What does romantic distant mean?
>>35047981>Be vulnerable and obsessed with themAll women hate this btw
