If my only relationship experiences (2 total) were strictly online, were very unstable, and I never inteacted with women outside family since being in school (which was years ago), and dont go out or know where women go and want to talk to them to form all kinds of relationships with them, what do I do? How do I unlearn "online relationship" mode? I feel so weak and dull. Almost like someone needs to whip me into shape and get a grip.
>>35042310Irl is easy to get into. More important you get with someone who is compatible in Love and Lust. Online is Same as irl. If online then wait for summer break and she can fly to me. That was the plan. Like 3 weeks until she was in person and then we home.
>>35042310The first step is to become comfortable talking to strangers. Just chatting with strangers. Not trying to use words to get your penis inside an attractive woman. Chatting and talking casually with strangers irl.Then talk to women as if they're people. Shocking! Then women you want to date. Here, you have to look at them like they're the attractive woman they are. You can't be too eager with attention and you have to wait until they do or say something in particular before you express increased interest. You can't throw your dick at them just because they showed up with a vagina. That means your dick is as worthless as a free coupon for dollar off laundry detergent.Be warm and display competence. Then ask for contact information when the conversation dies down.It takes practice to break out of a previous mindset. Start by chatting with strangers. You can't learn to play basketball by trying to play a team. You gotta dribble first.
>>35042393Moids get stuck and dont understand shes just person, just like them.
>>35042444Women are people too! But I love them anyway.
>>35042310Step away from the computer.Go outside.Discover the real worldMeet people there
>>35042832What if I look and act weird?
>>35045533Plenty of people do.What will people think? People don't think. Those that so, don't think about you. Don't worry about it.https://youtu.be/8TRFtPiFZhA?is=YsM1r_KOgOtiyHl3
>>35042832Way, way easier said than done. This advice only works for people who don't need it.
