>met e-girl>chat 3 months or so>hang out IRL+(bad)sexy time>go back to our towns>now she's overwhelmed by stuff and mostly absent and offlineShould I send her a message stating that I won't text her more or call her asking for answers or let it go? I did call her one or two times last week but she said "she couldn't get it"...
>>35039953The more you send her unanswered messages, the lesser your value. No one ever got a woman by pestering her with spam.
>>35040073What about calling her, I'm not really sure if she would answer it or not (not trying to cope here, legitimately unsure about it and about the outcome)
>>35040082You already called her. She is aware. When humans want to talk to you, they typically would call back.
>>35039953Be happy for what you got, accept that its over and try to move on to the next girl Pro tip: you do not need to announce this strategy to "your" girl. Once you truly let go of worries and anxiety over something you can't control (her desire to love you) then you will see the truth revealed on its own. Day by day. And if it turns out, that somehow some way, by some miracle force, she comes back, just be very careful because usually long periods of absence means that they found someone else and if they come back then they are falling back to you as a safety net. No one wants to be a second choice to anybody, so. I would personally, truly accept that it's over and move on. But I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Unless... You're me when I was young and you can't let things go so you have to make a big deal out of it and you have to tell her that it's over between you two to make sure that everything is clear. Oh well, you got this.
If she wanted to put the time in, she would.This goes for most relationships.A slight imbalance is normal, but if you let it get too big, you are just wasting your time.
>>35040086True yet we talked before about me being more proactive (I doubt this is a "shit test" of some sort, rather it could be her way of being able to say it was me who stop talking or whatever)>>35040108Thanks, I'm not young but I lack experience. Yet, I can't help but feel sad about it ending at the same time I'm gratefulShe even initiated the courtship you could say, I guess she found out I wasn't for her
>>35040129ight, I appreciate your feedback, anons, stating what I though out loud even if I don't like it
>>35040108>somehow some way, by some miracle force, she comes back,Cool. Good to have the heads up from you
>>35040161>namefag has below room temp iq and is unable to read past the first part that makes him coomTypical>>35040135Of course you're sad, i would be too. And Im sorry you're going through that. I'll give you one extra useful piece of advice as someone who's been through this too many times - don't stop yourself from moving on. Don't close yourself up in your house and avoid responsibilities and avoid friends, this is the worst thing you could do. Simultaneously, don't press for getting a girlfriend super hard now as a result of her rejection and departure, because the comedown will be much worse for you mentally. Basically don't be like me, i take failures with girls really badly. I perceive them as the end of all things. I've worked throughout my life and still work to rectify this. Keep your head held high, brother. You got this.
>>35040207I am the one who says some how someway , miracle,my girlNot the only sign. 3-4 a day now plus the the things you are not aware ofSo esadn
>>35040240I'll continue waves, there is nothing you can do, miracle
>>35040285No idea what you are even on aboutBut i do know the miracle is in her and my favor together
>OPSo, she came back texting, doubling on her being overwhelmed by the routinary life. Might be true, might be her trying to keep me around. I should trust her but I'm naturally skeptic and would not like to be played
