I'm (25M) in a poly-ish relationship with a guy and a girl, we're all childhood friends who've been on and off for a couple years now. I've watched them having sex quite a few times and he (26M) always seems to be able to get her (25F) to orgasm, even during penetration, and often multiple times in a single session. I'm pretty sure I haven't managed it once despite trying more than a few times by now. Maybe some of that is because he usually fucks her harder and lasts longer than I do, but I refuse to believe that he's just more adept at using his hands and tongue than I can ever be.I've noticed that she's started to prefer him over me more and more openly lately, and I feel like she certainly enjoys the sex more with him too, so I want to change her mind because I'm worried about losing her.TL;DR What techniques can I use to get better at getting my gf off during foreplay? What's his secret sauce and what am I missing or doing wrong?
>>35039668>in a poly-ish relationship with a guy and a girl, we're all childhood friendskek that already tells me everything I need to know you LOSER
>>35039668>she's started to prefer him over me more and more openly lately, and I feel like she certainly enjoys the sex more with him tooit's over anon.
31 F here. Sometimes size is the hidden (or not-so-hidden) variable. Seems too obvious to be in plain sight but from my experience it's true, a bigger dick just feels better and gives me that full sensation as he stretches me out from inside and it hurts a little but it's that kind of thing where pain is pleasure for girls most of the time you know?What size are you anon, because it might not be fair if you're comparing yourself to him over something you can't control.
>>35039668>Why does he always make her cum but I never can?.. maybe you could, yknow, ASK her what turns her on? have you even TRIED communicating with them about it?
>>35039711>31 Fget out dickfag
You should suck his cock every morning so he's too drained to fuck her hard.
>>35039668>I've watched them having sexYou'd think you'd have learned a thing or two from them by now. Lmfao.
>>35039711yes, sadly he definitely does have a bigger and thicker dick that i assume goes much deeper into her vag but are you sure it really matters all that much?
>>35039714>what turns her onat this point i feel like it might legit just be BBC because she's calling him "daddy" all the time and stuff like that.
>>35039668>secret sauceThen just fuck her harder and last longer instead of posting on here like a dumb autist retard?
>>35039722>suck his cock every morning so he's too drained to fuck her hardExcept OP said it's too long to fit LOL!
>>35039734>are you sure it really matters all that much?It's different for every girl. Maybe she's just a super size queen and you'd be better off trying your luck with someone else.What's your relationship like with him out of curiosity as that might also affect how she sees both of you?
>>35039668>Why does he always make her cum but I never can?Well is she skinny or fat
>>35039668face it. you have malefailed and need to troon out. the goal is now to make him cum instead of her.
>>35039668>I'm (25M) in a poly-ish relationship with a guy and a girlStopped reading there, leave this situation immediately.
>>35039668>refuse to believe that he's just more adept at using his hands and tongue than I can ever be.Why do you refuse to believe that, when it's the most obvious explanation?
>>35039668Because you are a faggot, a huge queer. You were never meant to pleasure a woman. Your purpose is to suck dicks, eat semen and take dick in your ass.
>>35040126>leave this situationWhat's wrong with it anon?
>>35039668>>35039711>>35039738Obvious pajeet thread. You will never get a White woman, your responses on dating apps will always be non-existent, and it is because you are an Indian.
>>35039668>What's his secret sauce and what am I missing or doing wrong?It's impossible to answer that. Every woman needs something different. The only person who can tell you is her. Have you asked? But my guess is that it's more likely to be about the mental aspects than the physical. Maybe she simply finds him more attractive? Maybe he knows the right things to say? Maybe the way they relate to each other when they're not in bed together is important?
>>35040143>Why do you refuse to believe thatWhy should I give up on getting better at it?
>>35039668>I refuse to believe that he's just more adept at using his hands and tongue than I can ever bewhy do you think that given her behavior? and who gives a shit when he fucks the shit out of her better than you could ever eat her out? she needs dick and she's getting it.Are you bi? Are you into this guy too or are you both pining for the same chick? Cuz it's a weird competition at that point, and now you're the third wheel.
>>35040156>Maybe she simply finds him more attractive?I mean at first she seemed to really like me so I was hoping that wouldn't be the case, but realistically I feel like you're probably right. I'm afraid to ask her outright though, because I'm worried her answer won't be what I'm hoping for.>>35040180>he fucks the shit out of her better than you could ever eat her out? she needs dick and she's getting it.I don't think I understand your point. She's still getting dick from both of us right now, and I just want to make sure I satisfy her too, regardless of how I do it.>>35040180>Are you into this guy tooMeh. Sometimes I suck him off while she watches, and it's fun but I don't think I've ever actually *liked* him as a person.She's the one I'm really after, but he's probably into me too whereas my sense is that she only likes keeping us together for the dynamic between the three of us.And I figured I'd accept the arrangement because I want to be with her and at least I'm getting that now instead of nothing. In all honesty I'm just ambivalent about the three-way, it's not something I enthusiastically proposed or whatever.
>>35040340>I suck him off while she watchesThat's so weird, who usually initiates it? You? Him? HER? Does he ever reciprocate or are you always subbing for him?
>>35040345>Does he ever reciprocate or are you always subbing for him?Well I did try making him give me a blowjob once, he just laughed me off and that was the end of that. It's not like I particularly mind, getting sucked isn't my favorite thing in the world, I tend to cum super fast from oral anyway, and I'm not exactly attracted to him in the first place. Although I think she likes seeing him boss me around or something, idk but it's weird to me.
>>35040358Sucking off a 12ga might work for you
>>35039668>Maybe some of that is because he usually fucks her harder and lasts longer than I do,Every alpha was once a gooner. You need to learn how to goon before you can alpha. Next time when jerking it, learn to last for as long as possible without stopping. The easiest method is to periodically distract yourself, don't wait until your about to cum.Also, some prefer that the man humps slower and at a rythmic pace, you are probably humping her rapidly like a dog and she doesn't end up liking it as a result.
>>35040484100% I would rather die than be the unwanted third wheel in a relationship or in any poly relationship with another man.
>>35040340>Sometimes I suck him off while she watchesWell, that's probably why she's losing interest in you: she sees you as submissive to him, and wants to be with the more dominant of the two of you.
>>35040345>HER?Yeah honestly I feel like she likes it even more than either of us do lol. Although I'd say he definitely gets off on it too>>35040584>she sees you as submissive to himAny way I can change that then?
>>35041280Tie them up and rape his asshole, make her suck your bloody dick after. Alpha status achieved.
>>35041280>Any way I can change that then?Now that she's seen you suck his dick? No. No way at all.
>>35039668Here is a technique that will help you out OP. Open the door and just leave you are pretty much fucked, if you stay you will only get more jealous and hurt.
>>35041280>Any way I can change that then?You sucked a guy’s dick in front of her dude.
>>35041280>Any way I can change that then?No. Honestly, it's not even just the fact that you sucked his dick, it's this: >>35040358>Well I did try making him give me a blowjob once, he just laughed me off and that was the end of that.At that point he irrevocably established the fact that he is in charge and you serve him. The idea of him giving you pleasure isn't even just something he doesn't want to do, it's something ridiculous, something so absurd that it makes him laugh. From that point on she was inevitablybgoing to gravitate away from you and towards him.
To and >>35041966 and >>35041991 and >>35042197 or even >>35040584 you guys are all so fucking dumb. That girl is involved in a polyamorous relationship for Christ's sake (35040340) >she only likes keeping us together for the dynamic (35040358) >she likes seeing him boss me around she's clearly not a traditional straight lady who's strictly attracted to the most dominant guys out there. If she's with OP it has to be because she sees something in him, and she obviously likes his submissiveness (35041280) >she likes it even more than either of us otherwise she wouldn't be asking to see them fuck each other all the time!
>>35042977The fact that she enjoys watching the dominant man fuck the submissive man doesn't mean that she wants the submissive man to fuck *her*. OP makes it clear that >>35039668>I've noticed that she's started to prefer him over me more and more openly latelySomething must have triggered that change. I wouldn't be at all surprised if it's to do with the perceived shift in the balance of power.
>>35043029>it's to do with the perceived shift in the balance of powerOP also says they've known each other since they were kids, so he's probably always been subordinate to that other guy and yet she's still with both of them.
>>35043029>The fact that she enjoys watching the dominant man fuck the submissive man doesn't mean that she wants the submissive man to fuck *her*.Bingo.
>>35039912shouldve told him that ten years ago lmao. i mean her
>>35042977You are dumb for responding to this gay larp
>>35041280>she likes it even more than either of usYou didn't actually answer my question though. Is SHE really the one asking you to do it, or is it always you?
>>35046358>Is SHE really the one asking you to do itNo he usually just grabs me to show off to her and get himself warmed up for fucking her
Everyone involved in this is a subhuman
>>35048924You most of all anon.
>>35046560You are getting raped and cucked. Get out of there.
>>35043029It means she wants to fuck the submissive man. Most likely she will choose you to be with because you fit her needs.
>>35040358You can't possibly be this oblivious.Bait used to be believable
>>35051539>You can't possibly be this obliviousSounds like OP genuinely enjoys being a cuck, haha.
>>35051608I have a feeling you are the foid fantasizing
>>35039668>poly-ishThats your mistake, you faggot monkey.
He's the bull and you're the cuck
>>35040155>Obvious pajeet thread.I'm not OP but what makes you think so? I really doubt. This could be ragebait or simply true, I have seen many cases like this, it's demoralizing, for sure, but closing your eyes to it and calling everything and everyone "jew" or "jeet" won't change reality.
>>35046560>No he usually just grabs me to show off to her and get himself warmed up for fucking herHe is raping you while you are getting cucked and you're a homosexual, that's so sad. If that's true, repent from this homosexual act and this disgusting relationship with this vile woman. God can give you piece of mind, that's what you need.
>>35042977It's so sad that you think this way. Women will be women. It doesn't matter what she says, or tries to LARP as. I'm sorry buddy. The world is cruel.
This was some nice fanfiction
