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How do I get a coworker who's gotten attached to me to back off?
It sounds a bit harsh but she's just been stuck to me since I trained her (she's not a new hire, fyi)

I want some peace and quiet when I work, she chats non-stop
At any work function she's following me around like a duckling
She's causing weird office-drama misunderstandings
I've told her off before but she just apologizes and continues anyway

I suppose it's because she's real pretty and is used to getting her way or having more social leeway, but I don't like it
At the same time I don't want to make things awkward at work
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>>35039645
Girls like this won’t back off until you’re direct with them but there’s at least a 75 percent chance that she’ll go tell everyone you’re an asshole if you are direct with her. They don’t get it.
Best bet is to tell other people you think she’s being weird. It can be for any reason. It will get back to her and she’ll fuck off immediately. If she tries to tell everyone you’re an asshole at that point she’ll just look even more weird.
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>>35039645
>How do I get a coworker who's gotten attached to me to back off?
By actually asking her to.
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>>35039645
>How do I get a coworker who's gotten attached to me to back off?
You don't. Live with it. She's nice.
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