>a) stay with your current, insanely boring girlfriend that you trust will never fuck you over, but you don't truly love her and spending time with her is just fighting sleep all the time>b) take the risk, throw it all away, have fun and embark into the unknown, looking for the treasure that you may die searching forMost of people will say "leave her man, you're hurting both of you!" but the cons of option b are just as bad. What if "you don't know what you have until you lose it" hits me? What if I never find any better since and become a loser that's single into his 30s? I'm lost.Did anyone ever have to choose like this?
>>35039143I will pick a because I'm not a stupid bitchslave of the jews and the "love" is just nothing but a short sighted dopamine high that is not real love, a bond that strengthens over decades.
>>35039153Your schizobabble is greatly appreciated
>>35039143I think you're scared of being alone, just leave her if you're unhappy
>>35039143You are retarded. There is no treasure. Every single woman starts with butterflies and ends with boredom.
>>35039317>I think you're scared of being aloneNot at all, I crave the freedom that comes with it. Im more concerned about not meeting my societal duty in terms of famiky and all
>>35039143True love only. Thats my choice
>>35039143Think from an an outside perspective. How would you feel if your girlfriend was asking these questions about you and you guys's relationship? You have cold feet bro.
>>35039143I'm pretty much in the exact same predicament. The urge to cheat is increasing by the day. My resentment towards women also doesn't help
>>35039698Gross. Get lost or get a grip on what REAL relationship you might have. Whore.
>>35039143Keep her around until you find a hotter/interesting one and then just cheat/leave her when you're "in", so to speak. Foids do it all the time. You don't owe foids anything.
>>35039143It all depends on how old you are, how attractive you are and how much charisma you have.
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>>35039143I respect and value my gf, I dont plan on cheating but I do think breaking up is best to do since I simply want to roam free. And also being single is best to keep your edge as a man. Relationships kinda make you into cozy shmozy weakling.Single and in attack mode, lifting, no cute messages with anyone, no emojis, not nothing. Just solitude and attacking mode and occasional new girl. I kinda cant wait to finally end it. Its also funny how girls become more into you like they fucking sense it. I should probably become ultra lovey dovey so she leaves me hahahha but fr shes one of the good ones for real, I think it would just make her really happy if I became like that. Jokes aside and bravado aside, shes a good woman to me. I simply want more. Im not made to just nut in one woman and be happy. I need to nut in all women and still be unhappy. Thats my crux. And heavily I bear it. I gotta end it soon but its hard to find a proper way and I still get horny whenever I see her tho, shes not boring to me. I simply want more women. I can fuck around forever for all I care. Guys in my crew are in their 50s still laying steady pussy. never been easier than now. Especially with zoomers being bitches of supreme level and obsessed with looks and other bs hahhaha But dont tell anyone. hahahahha Let them looksmaxx XD
>>35039143Breaking up with a long term gf to go out and fuck strange trim almost never ever works out for the guy. If you really had options like that you'd have already left. And even then, when you're in a relationship pre-selection does a TON of heavy lifting for making women notice you. You're not gonna carry yourself the same or even smell the same to foids as a single man who isn't fucking regularly.In all likelihood you will become a single loser in his 30s and the pickings will be very slim indeed. The "younger women prefer older men" thing is a cope unless you are actively planning to be an oofy doofy betabux for a younger woman who will fuck fitter guys her age on the side.
>>35040099Stupid compulsive liar schizo nigger babble
>>35039782>how old you are, how attractive you are and how much charisma you have.im in early 20s and im confident in both charisma and looks. I guess I should've worded it differently, its not really that im afraid of never getting pussy again, im afraid the karma will hit me and i'll never be able to find a reliable loyal woman while being hot enough and interesting. That's usually how it is in relationships, nobody treats you better than the woman you dont want, but also, nobody treats you worse than the one you do want.
>>35040146>If you really had options like that you'd have already left.That's a literal fallacy, your whole post is midwit drivel.
>>35039143I mean what kind of guy are you truly? I enjoy random strange pussy and as I get older it's just becoming more clear that a typical relationship may not be for me because I always want a new flavor. So now I just tell women that I only want to fuck, if we somehow end up being serious then it is what it is, but overall I just enjoy different pussy so I prefer being single atm. I know it's new pussy and not just sex cause my ex was a sex pest and half the time I just preferred jerking off, but whenever I'm hitting for the first few times? I'm excited like a puppy.
>>35040146You're kinda right but it's mostly from a crabs in a bucket type view. Yeah getting ass when you're completely solo is much harder than when you have a woman, but to say you're automatically out the game is bullshit and you know it. You honestly sound like your last sentence is about you because most guys who say it's a cope are either guys who never had a chance to begin with so sour grapes or they got their bitch taken by a older man and now think older men are somehow losers or pathetic simply cause the girl he likes wants to fuck on a guy 10+yrs her senior.
>>35040493I did ponder on that question, whether it's a genuine "hardware" defect or is it just because my gf isn't grinding my gears enough. I do hope I'm not the type that you are but the forecast is looking grim.
Just did option b but you gotta communicate how you feel if you've felt like this a while it's important to trust your gut. There's not much you can do about it both people including you have to be satisfied most of the time
>>35040769>Just didhow is it so far, or is it too recent to tellalso how long have you been together and how was she?
What is the opposite of a boring girlfriend, because to me that feels like you're dreaming about a chick with BPD.Chicks are boring man. They're only not boring if they're causing trouble
>>35040848>What is the opposite of a boring girlfriend, because to me that feels like you're dreaming about a chick with BPD.this may be asking for too much but... intelligent, curious chicks aren't. Mine is decently intelligent but she's cardboard that doesn't care about anything. I want a bitch that has an interest in something cool that isn't exclusively female bullshit like nails or cosmetics. At some point gossip will start being a bore and unless she sucks like a vacuum I honestly can't care to keep a woman like that for long
>>35040848Eh not really? I've seen some normal fun women in relationships. The problem is the majors just go on auto pilot and stop thinking so now it comes down to you make fun happen or nothing is happening at all. Shit gets old real quick cause her "wyd?" Is really "what can you do right now to not make me bored?". Imo your girl has to be fun loving in general if you don't want to be the only side planning and doing shit.
>>35040540Yeah I don't really like that I can't settle but some guys are just meant to chase cars. So long as I'm not getting caught up, I dont see sport fucking as that bad.
>>35040861Yeah that shit sucks. My ex was all intentionally in whatever back when we were just testing the waters, fast forward and im trying to play interesting videos on YouTube and she just zones out, or wants to listen to some bullshit lukewarm comedian, and funny enough wanted to blame for being stale cause I no longer talked about stuff. Bitch you don't care about the density of a black hole or the concept of afterlife so why the fuck would I speak about it?
>>35039143It doesn't matter what you choose, in 5 years nothing will probably turn out the way you think it will now, so do what you want and live.
>>35040906>only side planning and doing shit.This may not mean much but whenever we meet she never knows what she wants and always asks me where are we gonna go. And then the process of elimination ensues, I recommend something and she doesnt like the cafe or whatever, so I always pick things off one by one.>>35040917>and funny enough wanted to blame for being stale cause I no longer talked about stuff. Bitch you don't care about the density of a black hole or the concept of afterlife so why the fuck would I speak about it?This is exactly what ensued about a year into our relationship. When we started I was eager, speaking about everything I knew, scouting what she may respond to but every time I was met with nothing but a dry wall. And now that she warmed up and wants to yap with me, Its I who doesn't care to bring up anything to her now and she blames me for it. Like, bitch, do you not realize my head is a library of alexandria compared to yours but why should I care to hold a monologue with someone that doesn't have 100 megabytes of data in total stored in their brain? I can yap too but I expect to be answered and not just met with 2 shallow questions from someone that's a complete outsider to that (or any other) subject.
>>35040827Honestly it's a lil too recent to tell but I'm optimistic. We were together a month so nothing super serious and she was despondent and I felt horrible but that's how breakups always pm will be. Also, she wasn't super boring, just incompatible with what I wanted. Its not selfish to prioritize how you feel.
>>35039153fpbp unironically. OP sounds insufferable and I feel bad for his gf.
>>35040975>We were together a monthlmao gtfoh kid there are situationships longer than that
>>35040991Khhvs like you and that schizo are so easy to spot in the wild it's hilarious
>>35040229It's not selfish to want out of a relationship you no longer enjoy. Your young and attractive enough to seek for greener pastures. You should definitely do it. You don't want to be stuck with someone you don't love.
you shouldnt leave her, love will grow, most people in the past got married before they loved each other
>>35041715Eh, those people werent daitin before marriage
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I have a similar predicament, when I met my wife things were so exciting and romantic. Then after having 2 kids she is not affectionate like she used to be, the sex drive is gone. She still looks so good and I want her all the time but she doesn't reciprocate. I know if I went to any other woman things would go the same way, exciting at first and then the boredom and emptiness. I dont know why all women are like this. Its truly making me miserable
>>35048543First check her phone. If she isn't sexting/fucking someone on the side then she needs to check her thyroid and start eating healthy.
>>35048543that sucks man, you should pick a woman who is sexually on same level or leave her. Sex is important for men to bond with their parnters, not once but regularly.No sex = no bonding = drifting apart.Children cant save it just by existing. Shit man that sucks. At least u got your genes to the next round.
>>35039143Gonna avoid typing schizo shit, and just straight up say yeah, I'm with you man
>>35039325Ugly boring wife is a treasure in the home, ancient chinese wisdom. If you want a family then stay with this girl. If you don't care about family then go have fun.
>>35049286>Ugly boring wife is a treasure in the homeYes but you gotta fight demons day and night in order to be able to resist cheating, especially in young age where "treasure in the home" part doesn't bear much relevance.
>>35049781If you feel like you have to "fight demons" to do what is objectively morally correct, you're a severely fucked up person. You need religion. People like you are WHY societies without religion collapse. There are people who will be good without religion structuring their lives, but you aren't one of them.Mindless hedonism is self-destructive and worthless behavior, and mindless hedonism that hurts people around you is outright evil. Frankly, you shouldn't get married because you don't value marriage, and you clearly don't value whoever you're with.
>>35049945being with a person you aren't completely attracted to will always inevitably lead to cheating temptations, that situation doesn't care if you're religious or not. Source: my life.
