I feel like actually turning into a Chad might improve my chances in dating and becoming normal well adjusted man with his shit together. I'm 25 year old virgin that no one likes or respect, women don't want to talk to me or even look my way and always reject me, and i'm fucking tired of it. I'm too fucking average, short and unlikable. How can I be Chad? Does getting fit and doing the clavicular shit work? Or is it something you can only be born with?
>>35039092what is genetic determinism?
>>35039092>becoming normal well adjusted man with his shit togetherThat's a choice on your part OP.>I'm 25 year old virgin that no one likes or respectThen you've got some work to do. Become someone people will like and respect (including yourself).>doing the clavicular shit workNo, Clavicular is about as far from a chad as you can get.
>>35039188Quick question... How do I become someone people respect or like? I don't think I ever gotten much respect from anyone. Everyone always call me a whimp, overthinker and a loser and i'm tired of it. I wish to be a man but I don't know the steps to become on, shit is very vague and complicated.
>>35039092its not about being chad bro, being chad is genetics and rich family that spoils you so you never have cortisol fueled experiences and grow up hormonally regulated and chill, but quick to anger when things do not go your way, like a child that you deep down are, having faced no difficulties. But still forgiven the immaturity because your family's pull and your looks.Thats a chad aight?For anyone else, its about being best you can be in YOUR own eyes, by your own criteria. ANd shooting your shots. Eventually you may meet someone cool.Your two enemies are: pessimism and lack of actionIf you can beat those, you will find a gf soon enough but more than that - you will stop being desperate and find inner power that keeps you happy no matter what.Then right people will find you or you them by simply flow of life.Dont worry about others.
>>35040469You're right I do need confidence and to love myself more. It' just sucks how hard it is for me to form friends and find partners, I feel socially inept and didn't grow up with a good set of friends in my teens. My teens was spent being lonely and rejected by everybody, but I wanna try to join the world and show people who I am
>>35040466Say and do whatever the fuck you want. And don’t listen to people here, Clavicular is a god compared to most posters here. Idc about him but objectively he is getting what he wants out of life compared to 99% of people. First of all chill out, not being good with women is normal at your age. Perhaps you are worst off than others, but don’t fixate on that. Women like men who are real. A lot of the guys who do well with women are degenerates, drug addicts or dealers. Why? Because they are just doing what they want to, even if it’s something “bad”. So to become a man it’s about following your desires. It’s about getting what you want. Not listening to other losers and just going for what you want. Yes you will get rejected. Embarrassed. Etc. But you need to get to a place where you don’t care about other people’s responses to you. You just do what you want to and fuck what people think. When you do this your energy will be good and people will start liking you because you don’t care about their approval anymore
