My girlfriend is bisexual, and she hadn't slept with a woman since we started dating a year ago. A while back, she suggested a threesome with a female co worker of hers to "get it out of her system." honestly, it's not something I wanted to do at all. I've never liked open relationships but she was set on it, so I figured I'd rather do it together than sit around wondering if she'd just do it behind my back anyway. So fine, I went along with it since the other person was a woman too, even though I felt pushed into the situation.at some point, I honestly felt cucked. I had to watch the two of them doing things together, and even though I was technically part of it, I felt more like a prop or a sex toy than an actual participant.after we finished, the other girl asked me if we could cuddle, maybe she noticed I wasn't comfortable and I agreed. We cuddled, exchanged a few kisses, and fell asleep holding each other. She even kissed me on her way out.then this morning, once the girl had left, my girlfriend sat down with me and was furious. She said what I did was "horrible," that I'd cuddled with her friend and left her out as she could only see my back while I was holding her. But let's be real I spent the entire threesome feeling like a bystander and a human dildo when they did incluide me. After watching her basically have sex with someone else right in front of me even if it was a woman, I wasn't exactly in the mood to hug and kiss her or even touching her at all. And doing it with the other girl helped me to cope and salvage some of my wounded ego as a man. I heard she had a fight with the other girl over the phone about this too. And she said she won't incluide her into our personal space anymore. But I sort of feel like something broke permanently and nothing can be done. I don't know how to fix this situation.
You need to realize lesbian sex is not real sex, so no NTR is involved here. Just enjoy the show.
>>35038680>lesbian sex is not real sex, so no NTR is involved hereCOPE
Yeah, homie, bro, dude, hello, that's DEGENERATE behavior. Might be relatively lower on the scale but it is ALWAYS gonna deteriorate your relationship to bring someone else in. 2 random chicks while you're on vacation is one thing, bringing another pussy into your "relationship" is a whole different situation. Just be glad you feel this way and hopefully learned your lesson. You may get over this or maybe the relationship is cooked. Not a good idea man. Porn and smut media is not really meant to be imitated. The shit isn't normal despite what anybody tells you.
>>35038669Your girl is a liability for being this committed to the "bisexual" bit. Many girls will say they're bi but most are not truly into it like that. Get a new one
>>35038669This is a blatant larp, but as it's a little more entertaining than some, I'll try to play along. The key problem here is that both OP and his girlfriend are, in various ways, failing to understand what a threesome actually is: it's three people having sex together because each of the three wants to have sex with the other two simultaneously, and is cool with each of the other two doing the same thing. So, OP shouldn't have agreed to this unless he was strongly attracted to the co-worker, and wanted to have sex with his gf and the co-worker simultaneously, which he clearly wasn't and didn't; and the girlfriend shouldn't have proposed it unless she was comfortable with her boyfriend having sex with the co-worker, which she clearly wasn't. A good threesome is a simply amazing experience, but this (fictional) scenario is not a threesome: it's the girlfriend wanting to cuck her boyfriend with another woman while he watches, which is not the same thing at all.
>>35038669Writing to a panel of teenage dweebs who have never actuallty spoken to a real live girl, OP has the balls to complain about getting too much sex
>>35038669This is larp but for the sake of giving opinion on a story here is the only sentence that matter in the whole post:>I went along with [my gf having sex with someone else] [...] even though I felt pushed into the situation.The rest is noise.
>>35039180This is your first mistake. Second, what's up with this hoe of yours>yes i want to have a threesome with you and another girl>NO NOT LIKE THAT (proceeds to give shit to both other parties)but for now, don't bring that up. your only hope to save this situation is to tell her what you told us, that you did not want to do this in the first place and never want to do it again, that you felt cucked and left out, and that you feel like the other girl only gave you attention because she thought you felt left out. I'm sorry anon. I do also think lesbian sex or homosex does not threaten the heterosexual sex (as long as everyone is healthy and transparent about it), so a lesser evil would be to let the scrissor sisters scissor it out without you next time, if you think you're ok with that, otherwise she will need to pick between you and "getting it out of her system" with her sistas.
>>35038669Wow that sounds fuckin’ awful, anon. Pretty based friend, though, to have noticed you didn’t have a good time and tried to help you out. As fucking hilarious and ironic as this is, your gf will probably never get over the feeling she has right now. Might as well leave her and call her friend who cared about your feelings.
>>35039205>your only hope to save this situation is to tell her what you told us, that you did not want to do this in the first place and never want to do it againIn an ideal world yes but in a relationship where the other party think is OK to berate their partner for not acting the way you're supposed to in a threesome instead of taking responsability there is nothing to save.
>>35039284>berate their partner for not acting the way you're supposed to in a threesomeshe berated the other girl too. crazy. Got what she wanted, mad at literally everyone else.
>>35038669Isn't that the whole point of threesomes?: To invent stupid drama and trauma bond through it.Seriously though, having a threesome with your monogamous partner AND a coworker is a recipe for retardation. And none of you actually enjoy watching other people have sex and instead feel left out. It's supposed to be hot to see real flesh and blood 3d people getting in on right in front of you.tl:dr: Group sex should be with strangers or hookers. Or only involve people who have totally deconstructed their pair bonding instinct.Anyway, this fake situation is incredibly fresh, your relationship can survive. Just shrug and say you felt left out at moments too, oh well threesomes aren't for you as a couple. If she didn't want you kissing and cuddling should've set some ground rules beforehand.Feel good that your gfs main problem is the other girl found you attractive and it made her jealous, in the grand scheme of things it just makes her value you more.
