There is this girl I like and she has been very depressed and dealing with suicidal thoughts. I was worried all night last night because of what she told me. I don't want her to go, too many people I have known have died on my watch. Should I just tell her that I love her and to not go, even if it is selfish for me to assert it?
Dude, don't miss this opportunity and tell her you love her
>>35038525I did, thanks anon.
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>>35038490Yes.
>>35038490>>35038603Tell us how it went. I generally think it’s a waste of time acting as an emotional outlet or a personal therapist for a girl with a mental health condition if you’re not actually looking for sex or a romantic relationship. I cut off all contact with a girl who suffered from depression as soon as I realized I wasn’t going to get a blowjob from her. Treat them with care, but don’t get caught up in an endless spiral of simping if she doesn’t reciprocate.
>>35038816I am looking to eventually spend time with her, but we live on separate continents (still I only need to take two flights to see her). My goal is to really just hold someone's hand, maybe kiss her too.I am not really in it for sex... I have enough reason to believe that I am impotent. I never got erections in puberty and cannot say I have had them in my life. Unfortunately I am known to have some genetic defects one of which physically ruins my face, especially when exposed to common household chemicals or even sunlight, so the likelihood of this is elevated, I believe, even if they are unrelated.I will let you know, but she does not respond every day.
>>35038816Still unread. I hope I am not too late. Not to turn this into a blogpost, but how do I comfort myself in case she took her life?
>>35042605She didnt. Go have a good day.
>>35038490>Should I just tell her that I love her and to not go, even if it is selfish for me to assert it?No. She sounds awful. She complains about her life now and she'll complain about it if you date her, she will probably blame you as well.
>>35038490Don't fucking form an attachment to a girl who is genuinely depressed/suicidal, ESPECIALLY if it's within in a romantic context, you retard. You will regret it.>t. have gf with depression
>>35042728Thanks.>>35042771>>35042794Too late. Honestly this is the best I can get. Last girl I tried to date would complain about me nonstop and hated the fact that I was caretaker for my (80 year old) father and hated the elderly and children and was just not a nice person. The girl before that pointed a loaded rifle at my head point blank (shame because she had a modelling gig and was otherwise perfect).
