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I am 28, never had a gf, and zero friends or social life apart from work. I also have no hobbies of note, been meaning to attend church but can't decide on which church or denomination. I've been meaning to pick up some new activities, hobbies, or general reasons to get out of the house (only other places I go are the store and gym). Recommend me some cool hobbies/activities where I can also socialize and how to get into them please. I want to rebuild my social life and learn social skills before its too late
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>>35037259
I'm you but I'm 23. Tried the church thing but it's a bit tricky if you don't know anyone there to help you integrate into the community, so, it's just really fucking boring instead. For the record, I went to a Catholic church. It was mostly old people, then married couples, then children and teenagers.
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>>35037259
music is good, especially ug music scenes where you always see the same faces in every concert regardless of the town it's in. start learning an instrument too. girls also find being able to sing or play an instrument even on an elementary level pretty attractive.
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>>35037330
>>35037259
A suggestion: go to your city's subreddit (yes, I'm serious) and see if there's any event or group that you might be interested in. Prioritize outdoor activities to guarantee your safety since you're exposing yourself to random strangers.
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>>35037330
The idea is you join their community, fellowship with other believers. I feel drawn towards Orthodoxy after being a Baptist for years but haven't pulled the trigger and am unsure which to attend
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>>35037338
How does one get into their local music scene? I have no idea where to go or start with that, I've met a few musicians and usually it was when there is a lot of drama such as a band breakup
>>35037345
I went and looked mine up, my cities subreddit is full of fags and degenerates, most of the activities discussed are left wings politics, protests like no kings, and occasionally posts about news or local events.
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>>35037259
This is nice. I watch centre place online. They seem chill without a bunch of dogma.
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>>35037361
>How does one get into their local music scene? I have no idea where to go or start with that, I've met a few musicians and usually it was when there is a lot of drama such as a band breakup
there is but it's usually nothing serious and everyone just laughs that the lolcow got thrown out finally or stuff like that.
for me it's black metal but i guess it can work for any genre. start looking up local gigs and whether any of them look interesting to you.
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>>35037259
I'm this but 36 soon 37. Don't even know where to start
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>>35037769
They're Mormons anon, they deny the deity of Christ and the Trinity
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>>35037824
Not really sure where to look for local gigs, Google doesn't have much. Do you play any instruments or make any music?
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>>35038281
They broke off because Mormons are batty. They don’t deny the trinity so much as they call it the godhead. That’s what’s cool is they are realistic about the history of BS that brought us here.
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lutherans are the closest to the Bible i'd say
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>>35037259
>been meaning to attend church
>been meaning to pick up some new activities,


Stop meaning to. Do.
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>>35042867
Ok, where specifically should I be going and what should I be doing?
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>>35038033
Its never too late to change anon until you're six feet under
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