I'm attracted to men in a sexual sense, but I really don't like men as friends or company. They aren't as developed mentally as most of my other friends, and they usually have a lot of weird unresolved shit going on that they refuse to address or think about bc admitting they have issues isn't "manly" or w/e.My feelings don't do much to keep them from trying to hang around me all the time. I just want a submissive bf who will let me peg him who leaves me alone when I don't want him for something, but for the small number of guys I've gotten to peg they all had an expectation they'd get to fuck me back.Am I going about this the wrong way, or should I just try to be a lesbian? I feel like I would have a more fulfilling relationship with a woman but I wouldn't be sexually happy.
>>35036974I was with you until the pegging shit. If you're this sex obsessed that you're into pegging you're not developed much mentally either and you need to stop coping. Go on /soc/ or something if you want to just have sexual fantasies with submissive men.
>>35036974Anon, are you baiting?> they usually have a lot of weird unresolved shit going on that they refuse to address or think Sure> I just want a submissive bf who will let me peg him who leaves me alone when I don't want him for something, but for the small number of guys I've gotten to peg they all had an expectation they'd get to fuck me backThis is exactly what you are complaining about lol, this is some weird shit. Its one thing to be into pegging but this is an extremely strange and unrealistic standard for a heterosexual relationship.
>>35037012Why is it "realistic" for a man to want to penetrate but for a woman to want to be the one doing the penetrating it's weird?
>>35037036I don't know, maybe because women don't have penises.
>>35037036You are phrasing this disengenously by leaving out the fact that you would not let a man you peg fuck you as well. You want a heterosexual relationship with a guy who only wants to get fucked in the ass and never wants to have actual sex. This is a very unrealistic expectation because the only men into that dynamic are gay. I dont think its that hard to understand.
>>35037066It doesn't seem fair or right that I'm automatically supposed to be okay with getting penetrated just because I'm a woman. Lots of relationships involve men never getting penetrated, why can't it be the other way around here?>>35037046I might not but I do have an 8 inch veiny dildo that vibrates if you push a button.
>>35037072"I'm subhuman filth who only wants men for sex, why do I attract men who only want me for sex?"The world would be better if sex pests like you didn't exist.
>>35037072Its not about being fair, its just how sex works. Straight men want to have sex with women. Some straight men are kinky degens and like being pegged; however because they are straight they still want to have actual sex. Idk what is hard about this to wrap your head around. You want to apply a gay type of relationship to heterosexuality which just doesnt work.
>>35037083I want a man who will be obedient to me since I know by their nature men are drawn to evil and have to be controlled to do otherwise. I just want a man who accepts that control. The pegging is more a side benefit.>>35037132Why is it kinky and degenerate for a man to submit to a woman?
>>35037146You can't even define evil lmao stay away from men and just live in an echo chamber with another fat lesbian bitter that she can't control even her own impulses.
>>35036974Keep looking, I know people like that exist. I wouldn't mind giving it up like that if I got a loving affectionate partner in return.>leaves me alone when I don't want himThat part might be an issue because I would probably get clingy.
>>35036974You know if we're equals that means we both should understand we don't get each other 100% all the time.
>>35036986Fpbp
>>35037561ur gay
My advice is to address your unresolved issues concerning your father
OP is a fat cunt
>>35037036It just doesn't belong there
>>35036974I mean you're really expecting a lot. Personally I could potentially be ok with that kind of sexual arrangement (though I'd hopefully get to eat the girl out too). I'm engaged to a woman who pegs me relatively often and PiV is somewhat rare compared to all kinds of other stuff we do. i'd have a hard time doing it outside of a relationship, though. Many people tie physical intimacy to emotional intimacy, and the odds of finding someone who doesn't AND is ok with a kind of sexual arrangement that's far from societal standards AND entirely on your terms are very slim. Not impossible, but definitely not easy. Plus I assume they'd have to be attractive for you as well. I mean what exactly do you offer in return?
>>35036974Also, to expand on >>35041829Girl, a bit of introspection wouldn't hurt. How old are you? I'm assuming early to mid 20s?I mostly agree with you, most men your age are probably more immature than most women your age. I don't think that makes women your age mature, just less immature, and honestly that seems include you. I don't know if you realize how egocentric you come off in your post. You basically want a man who has sex with you ENTIRELY on your terms and fucks off whenever you don't want to have sex. Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why someone would be into that? I'm not saying nobody would, but IMO you're not entirely registering that sex is something that happens between two people. It's about two people feeling good. It's fair for you to want something entirely specific and one-sided, but then you have to accept that the only people who'd wanna partake in that are the (very few) people who happen to feel good when they get to do that very specific thing for a person, and who are ok (or maybe even into it it) with it being entirely on the other person's terms. Again, it's not impossible, but it's obviously going to be very rare. It's your prerogative to decide you're only ever gonna be ok with that exact scenario, but if you take that decision then be aware of what you are actually asking, and be aware of how rare it's going to be. How can you be surprised?
>>35036974Grow them like children. One of them will bloom.
>>35036974If you think guys are bad women are 100 times worse. You should date one just to appreciate men more.
>>35037072Kill yourself
>>35036974Kill yourself immediately
>peggingHow is this fun for a woman exactly? Fucking a dude with your plastic penis?
>>35037072Read that sentence again and see if it makes sense even to youGo kill yourself you witch
>>35036974It seems you have never been told before but you have to know you're literally a stain on human kind and I hope you meet a painful end
>>35037036Men who want that are gay, hope this helps you.>>>/lgbt/
>>35036986You are childish
>>35052562You're the devil
>>35036974This is exactly how men feel about women.
>>35037072You are automatically supposed to be okay with being penetrated BECAUSE you are a woman. If you have a problem with that it's because of an ontological fuckup specific to YOU. Accept that your are a freak and grow or dont. Just dont try to pass your retarded defective condition off as normal or permissible.
