>me 32, she 28>been dating for over 3 months and a half>finally ask for sex (I've only been in two relationships before and I never had to ask, I never brought this up to now because we both have time consuming careers and schedules) >she says "it's not like I don't want to be closer with you, I like you, but first there are some memories I need to forget before doing this together"What does she means by that? that she is trying to forget someone else? In that instance, if she holds someone else in her heart she should have never dated me to begin with, I'm seriously considering breaking up but I'm trying to not be impulsive, relationships are not easy to get for me, specially not with women I'm actually attracted to.And in truth we have only had like 8 real dates, most of our conversations are through calls and we are not really that emotionally close to each other, we are more like friends at this point. I think the dating system is a failure, we should bring back arranged marriages from an early age and fix this situation.
lol what a cuckwhat happens if you arrange marry an uggo?
>>35036880Please tell me this is a joke. If a woman likes you she will fuck you near instantly.
>>35036890>what happens if you arrange marry an uggo?As long she was a virgin before me I wouldn't mind, but since all women are used up in this generation I at least require basic looks>>35036899Well, it's like that. But if she doesn't likes me, I wonder why shes been dating me for so long.
>>35036918>i wonder why shes been dating me for so longBecause you're a social safety net.
>>35036880>What does she means by that?She was probably raped.
>>35036945Female rape doesn't exist, it's an excuse they say when after post nut clarity after having sex while drunk or any inconvenient state.
>>35037008Women don't get post nut clarity.
>>35036880She’s 28 that’s the issue. Date an 18-20 year old. They don’t have this problem
>>35036880Anon really? 99% of women if they like you will give you the opportunity to fuck on the first date. If you haven't gotten laid by the third, you're wasting your time. Most women are not virgins in 2026, ask yourself, "Did the last guy who fucked her have to hop through all these hoops?" I'm cheap asf, I'll never spend more than $20 total on a first date, because there are guys who fucked for free. ALL women, for the right man, are willing to have sex regardless if they're in a relationship or not. Relationships nowadays are all backwards, the unwritten rule is you fuck first then determine compatibility and stuff like that. The fact you had to wait so long proves that she is just tolerating you, not that she sees you as anything more than a friend. I say this as someone who's gone through his fair share of heartbreaks and disappointments. I've also fumbled girls who were interesting in me and down to fuck. Break up with this girl and work on yourself, I believe in you anon.
>>35036880>I like you, but first there are some memories I need to forget before doing this togetherI give her credit for being honest so use this honesty and stop your pursuit. She's not ready to move on yet with anyone and thinking you can wait this out is foolish.
>>35036880>but first there are some memories I need to forget before doing this together"Just an excuse for not really liking you. She most likely has another guy or two she want to fuck. You either ugly or dumb af for letting her keep you on a leash. Also, these "memories" might go on for years. Good job being her emotional tampon. Classic beta buck...
>>35036880>dating post wall women in 2026Grim
It's just trauma she needs to feel comfortable around your physical presence enough to allow that to happen. Make sure all parts of you smell and look nice and feel safe and romantic consistently in person. That'll do it
>>35040801Shut uuuupppp woman. Terrible advice. She doesn't find him sexually attractive and she's hung up on her ex Chad who may or may not still pound her out every week or two
>>35040805Not a woman generally women I'm talking with romantically are interested in me sexually so maybe my perception is skewed. Stop pushing gender war it's very telling of your status. It's not hard to get a woman to be with you
>>35036880You're not dating anon.I mean you think that's what's happening but she has you in her friend zone. You're just company.
>>35036918No wonder you're retarded enough to full on date a woman for a whole three months without even fucking , but then "asking" for sex holy shit lmaoShe correctly identified you as the type of jester who will give her the full affirmation and emotional satisfaction fo a relationship without ever having sex iwth her. Whcih she doesn't want to , either with you in particular or in general for some reason.You sir, are a prime Beta and certain to produce amazing bux for some lucky mid. Keep on keeping on because your type only reacts with seething and coping when asked to mend your ways anyways.Waste of time.
