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How do I deal with the fact that everyone is judging me for having an Asian (Chinese) gf?
I feel self conscious every time I'm in public with her
I know people are judging me because even I judge other white guys when I see them with Asian gfs
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>even I judge other white guys when I see them with Asian gfs
It's normal to

>how
Live on the west coast. 1/3 of the children are hapas.
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>I know people are judging me because even I judge other white guys when I see them with Asian gfs
Sounds suspiciously like projection. Most people don't even know you exist, and most of the ones who do know, don't care that much about you. People have got their own shit to worry about.
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>>35032464
It's probably projection. Though I'm the same way because I'm jealous.

The problem is you need to be with a really attractive Asian for me to be jealous though because average looking Asian women just makes it look like you were desperate.
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>>35032464
>How do I deal with the fact that everyone is judging me for having an Asian (Chinese) gf?
Dump her and get a white gf???
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how do you know they're not judging her for hooking up with a loser?
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>>35032983
Kek could you imagine?
>Shit. I know she's an ugly Asian girl and everything, but surely she could aim higher than that.
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>>35032464
Everyone judges everyone about everything. Do not let it bother you. They likely judge you as wise. Fight all day then gives you food. Does not want to have sex so she gives head. Will not let you help with chores because you cannot do them right. Not a bad way to live.
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>>35032464
You don't deal with it, it's their problem to deal with.
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>>35033229
This anon is right.
Look at every WMAF thread on 4chan. Hell, look at literally any WMAF rage anywhere on the internet. Every single time it's borne of someone mad because you're happy and they're not. Without exception. It's more their problem than yours.
If the two of you are happy then fuck everybody else.
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>>35032464
Stop racemixing would be my suggestion

>>35032545
I see and judge people for this. Being with someone not White will make me notice you.
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>>35033246
>I see and judge people for this. Being with someone not White will make me notice you.
Okay, but why should anyone care what you think?
>Oh no, that funny-shaped incel doesn't approve of me dating outside my race. Guess it's over for me now.
That's basically all it boils down to.
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>>35033241
100% of the time the rage is from either Asian men or white women as well.
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>>35032464
Look at it this way, you've got a gf. A lot of guys don't.
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Where I live the majority (not like supermajority but like 60%) of couples with a with a non-Hispanic white person are with someone who is not non-Hispanic white. It’s just the demographics.

I really don’t get this “white women get mad when you date Asians” thing. Those are probably just girlfailures on social media. If anything I feel like most women IRL are happy when guys they know are in a relationship outside of obvious future trainwrecks.
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>>35032464
You are afraid of being judged because you do it yourself, so it appears as something everyone does. Thats completely normal human behavior and the fix is to change whatever makes you think white dudes having Asian GF is a reason to be judged on.

Reality is : some people will judge you for that. Most people won't. Some will think it's cool (I do, and I think it's so funny the heigh difference). The ones that will judge you would think otherwise if they knew you guys personally. And everyone else will have completely forgotten about you in 24 hours.

You have a beautiful GF, keep her if you love her
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>>35032464
The worst they may think is you are a libertarian
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>>35032464
Is she SEA or east asian, if former yes people might judge you, if latter then the only ones malding are the asian guys
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>>35033787
The rage always is, the derision not necessarily. But again, same phenomenon: more to do with what's going on in their own life and their own mind than anything to actually do with you or your partner.
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>>35032464
they're not. normies don't really care unless you live in some conservative shithole. also, pretty much 100% of the anger is just sexual jealously/insecurity
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I am white with a white wife but I respect Asian women for being traditional wives and also like half of them are devout Christians which I also respect. They are also weirdly based and right wing politically, even if they're self-proclaimed communists (because of coming from a communist homeland).
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JD Vance before the politics
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I get along great with my lovely Thai wife in part because we're both white supremacists.
Nobody is judging you for having an Asian wife. Even if they are, who cares, you are happy.
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>>35037057
And the couch fucking
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>>35032464
>5 years of owning this yellow beast
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>>35032464
Man... I wish I was the guy in that pic with the asian wife. Except I'm fucking black.
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>>35032545
Shutup bitch, everyone judges everyone.
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>>35039308
lol
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