I’m 19 and have a crush on a ~32 year old co-worker. At first I thought it was more of a “he’s in the same vicinity of me and he looks nice” casual crush but about a few months ago he just randomly started talking to me out of the blue.He’s very charming, funny and a bit of a goof-ball, he would tease me a lot about the shoes I wore (cause I always wore mary-janes or flats) but he recently stopped doing so cause apparently he didn’t want me thinking he was making fun of me. I gave no indication I was uncomfortable with his teasings but he double-downed on his apology, because I don’t have even talk to men often his apology felt really heart-felt and honestly just made my crush worse. We still talk sometimes now, but my schedule barely overlaps with his.The thing is I can’t gauge at all that he likes me, I act kinda retarded around him and I’m worried I’m too obvious about it, but he doesn’t seem to avoid me or anything. He talks to everyone and additionally he’s really liberal leaning so I wouldn’t be surprised if he thought a 13 year age gap was “creepy” or whatnot. I want to shoot my shot but I also don’t want to make him uncomfortable
>>35025377Common age gap. Have fun
>>35025377>32 y/o working with a 19 y/oContext? Are you amazing or is he a loser
>Consenting 19 year in modern year of 2026Um sorry sweetie, that’s rape. He’s literally grooming you.In all seriousness, he probably would only fuck you at most anyway. Socially it’s not a good look, especially in the work place
>>35025430lmao. it's in retail + he doesn't have a degree
>>35025438that is also another concern of mine, he seems like a nice guy and all but in the time i've known him he's already gone thru like two relationships (it's only been 8 months)
Yeah go ahead and be on your supervisor's dumb hoe pipeline lmao, enjoy getting dumped and dealing with herpes the rest of your life.
>>35025865yk what I needed to hear that, thanks anon
cool question, retard op
>>35025662>32m This guy entered the workforce at 18 when you were 5 years old. Retail is an entry-level field. Dude had 14 years to make something of himself before you started working there but he's still at your level lol. You can date him if you want but dont be retarded enough to expect an actual future for the 2 of you. That's more than likely the same epiphany the other women who dated him had before splitting on him.
19 yr old snizz is the best
>>35025377liberals support minor attracted people so
>>35025377Just fuck a few times and see how it is. Dick gets better with age and pussy better with youth.
>>35029065yeah you’re right. I’m looking for another job anyway now that’s closer to my major bc I only wanted to be at the retail for a year (and that’s soon) so I might just tell him I have a crush on him when I leave and he can do what he wants with that info ig
>>35025655Fuck, do they give him keys, and not you, at least?>>35025430Laconic of you.
>>35031009The only difference between me and him is he makes 50 more cents than me lmao
>>35031013401k?
>>35031024I don’t know what his situation is, I’ve contributed to my 401k a bit (10% of my paycheck) but because I haven’t hit the 1000 hour mark to get the match from my employer I haven’t gotten anything additional. But once I reach the 1000 they match the amount by 50%I live with my parents and they pay for everything so roughly ~95% of my paycheck goes straight to my ROTH
>>35029379you say that like it’s easy to get sex from someone
>>35029379>Dick gets better with ageTrust me, it doesn't. t. old dick-haver
>>35025377>I want to shoot my shot but I also don’t want to make him uncomfortableSo long as you don't come on too strong, you won't make him uncomfortable. He may not be interested, but even if he isn't, you asking him out won't disturb him. Don't say "I have a crush on you", just ask him if he wants to go for a drink some time, and if he does, take it from there.Having said that, I'm an older man who likes younger women myself, but I would be the first person to admit that most men like me are absolute trash. Most men in their 30s don't have anything in common with a girl who's barely out of high school. And if he does have a lot in common with you, that's actually a very bad sign, because it means he's still a teenager, emotionally speaking, and is never going to grow up. In a year or two, you will have moved past him, and the gap will just get wider and wider. So, if all you want is sex, go for it; but if you're thinking that he might be a candidate for long-term boyfriend, then he probably isn't: he'll either not be interested, or he's not boyfriend material.
>>35031118The point of snagging an older fag is that he would be more established and be a warp zone for you. 10% is for weaklings. Do 25. You can increase your take home pay by claiming a higher number on W4. The tax implications are offset by the exemptions. You comprende? It will cost you nothing to make more money.
Im no stacey or anything, but he's 13 years older than you, works an entry level retail job and somehow you havent gotten the ick yet?
>>35031275Buddy I’m not expert but claiming a higher number on W4 doesn’t “save” you money it just delays the timing of when you pay the tax. the allowance system on the W4 ended in 2020.
>>35031314I dunno he has shoulder length hair and around my height and not fat and is nice to me. that’s kinda all I like in a guy
>>35031366The point has been addressed. That money is not taxed and the annual income is reduced. Yes, there is a balance. You want to get a couple hundred back in return. Not like six grand.
>>35031439It’s taxed when you take it out in retirement, so how is that better than a Roth? I’m in the 10% bracket now and expect to earn more later, so paying tax now seems cheaper. Is there a reason pre-tax wins for me?
>he would tease me a lot about the shoes I wore (cause I always wore mary-janes or flats)That seems like a very eye specific thing to tease someone about. Are you sure he wasn’t already flirting? What exactly did he say?
>>35035295OP here. No I don’t think he was flirting. A grand majority of the people who work there wear tennis shoes. He would call me “church girl” because he related wearing flats with going to church, there really wasn’t much to it. He also one time saw me eating alone and came up to me and said I looked like “a sad lonely little girl” so he just did this often, I didn’t really see it as offensive though cause he seemed to be joking.
>>35036679yeah he wanted to fuck you right in the pusy
>>35037163If only, but I doubt it. He’s never hit on me, at most I’ve only gotten fist bumps from him lol
>>35025377what do you want? if sex then you can probably get it. If more than sex probably not.
>>35038380How exactly would I even approach him for just sex? That seems harder than asking him out. I’m not by any means that attractive
>>35031370>around my height How tall are you that this is a requirement
>>35038456I’m 5’3. He is probably a bit shorter than I am because he wears doc martens yet when we stand close to each other his eyebrows are like around my eyes. but also he stands really wide for some reason so I dunno maybe that’s also why
>>35025377A lot of lesbians doing their reddit part here I see. As a 34 man I dated 19 old still in highschool. Im a doctor, she was well, a student I approached outside of work (met her out n about like a real nigga does). (Im white but I like the word).Amazing sex, she was very mature for her age, like legit. Trust me I talk to women as a career ffs.Women and age are not related maturity wise. AT ALL. Also women's maturity and intelligence are not related at all. WOmen just kinda have their own stats unrelated to each other. Often a smart man might be more mature but for women no rule. I especially admired her emotional maturity. Funny enough she insisted on paying half of most bills, like furiously almost. Which for me is not a big deal to treat as I come from such traditional family where man provides. But I welcomed that behavior as it showed she didnt see me as a wallet just. Anyhow, she was amazing. I then had nice adventure with 18 year old who came onto me one evening out in clubs.My current gf is older and less deep character, but I appreciate her also for her virtues. Tho we might break up soon as Im restless and deep down a playa. Life is nice for man after 30 if you keep sane mentally and reduce internet consumption full of bots that want you to kill yourself or cut your balls off. Stay fit, stay smart, assume everyone online is borderline retarded and you are being optimistic.I shit on all of you in this thread except on OP, and OP good luck if you like him have a match or two. Life is to be lived.
>>35031175>>35040457OP here. These were probably the best advice I got lol, but I do think I am just going to go with my route to wait until I leave the job to ask him out.I'll just keep it low pressure, if he says yes; great, if not; at least I won't have to bear the awkwardness of running into him while working there. thanks for the advice :)
>>35031151Obviously homosexuality doesn't count.
>>35031137It will be for her, she's 19.all she has to do is offer and he'll jump at the chance, as long as he's a normal male.
>>35042123You don’t know that. She could be fucking ugly. She could be fat. She could be a nigger. Op what do u look like
>>35038489if he’s that short are you sure he isn’t a homo
>>35042198I’m *eh*. My BMI is currently 21.6 (5’3, 122lb) though I am trying to get down to 113lb and possibly lower if I don’t like how I look when I get there. My skin + face is probably the bigger problem. Lower thirds of my face is the longest part of my face + wide chin and have hyperpigmentation along the jawline and chin from old acne scars. Granted I ordered kojic acid soap a while ago to help with that but I can’t change my facial harmony. If I’m being honest I’m like a 3/10. Perhaps I’m just being biased because I like him but I consider the guy a like a 8/10 desu lol
