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>pull women
>sometimes they even ask me for my number
>still get ghosted
What do modern woman mean by this?
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>>35025145
it means you're attractive but your text game is lacking
work on it, try different techniques
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Ive only ever had issues with one girl but shes retarded
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>>35025145
Some girls just want the attention. It's like real life dating app right swipes for them.
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>>35025145
The more young and attractive a woman is the more options she has. That's all there is to it.
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>>35025190
This. If you're double texting or you're acting needy when they pull away then you lose! Good day, sir!
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>>35025213
Nah, in my case specifically she is retarded and she knows this.
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Also, The majority of her day is spent attention seeking writing to me here , so im still far lesser communicative toward her than she is toward me.
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>>35025145
It means you seen interesting but once they talk to you they find out that you’re not or that your personality or interests aren’t interesting to them
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>>35025145
On second thought you are not as attractive a proposition as you seemed on first thought.
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>>35025289
>>35025337
You are projecting your own inadequacies
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>>35025190
Give me an example of what to say after procuring the number or snapchat.
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>>35025289
>>35025337
Most likely these
>>35025340
You're advertising your stupidity and insecurity
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>>35025145
Do you meet them partying? If yes, then they are often just in the mood due ot the general party vibe or being drunk or whatever, and once real life rears its ugly head on monday you're just a distant blurred memory.
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>>35025440
And now you are projecting your insecurity. Damn. You should get therapy
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>>35025483
I've met them various places; in public, in shops, stores, bars, and at the beach.
Friends have told me that I might be "too good-looking" and it scares them.
I'm not trying to be a jerk-off or anything, in fact, I was a chud most of my life and was afraid of girls thanks to my abusive mother.
I've just recently in the past year started cold-approaching and talking to girls in person. I've found out that I'm attractive, though not conventionally.
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>>35025694
>in public, in shops, stores, bars, and at the beach.
Same thing then. Its just a quick, superficial connection, and girls may have second thoughts after the moment has passed. Also if you pressure in any way or persist despite her not being attracted to you from second one, you likely got a fake number just so you fuck off.
Codl approaching is great to get rid of anxiety fast, but other than that its just a timesink. Learn to read womens signs of attraction, and also shift your approaching to bars/clubs/events etc. where theres some room to actually get to know each other and women are more open to flirting.
If you want to stick with daygame, accept tha tit has a success rate of maybe 5% at the very very best as its mostly just a game of hit the pot while being blindfolded.
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at least you "pull" women, must be nice.
they just stare in disbelief at me, like theyd seen a unicorn or ghost or something or sometimes just looking away biting their lips or twirling their hair.
never talking or taking the first step anymore
but even if they did, i wouldnt give them my number. i need to know you for at least 6-12 months before ill have a decent judgement/discernment/comprehension of you to give you my number and even then im not going to text or answer your texts, i mean cmon whats basic opsec. one time i did the mistake of giving it out more freely and they just text bombed me and stalked me all the time.
either call or dont, im not reading all that crap, sticking up with that like some zoomie cuck. fuckno i aint bitchmade and you shouldnt either.
>>35025694
>I've found out that I'm attractive, though not conventionally.
yea same probably. i look like a skinnier version of leon s kennedy w green eyes.
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>>35025694
anon females have always approached me since I was in jr high. Never had to try. Over simplified...I learned that they want to fuck me but they do not want a relationship because they believe they cannot keep other women away. Any time I actually liked one of them, put off fucking immediately, they ran. Really cannot blame them since I would likely fuck the next woman that want it.

So since you are desirable enough these women want you without much effort just fuck them and move to the next. If you want a gf >>35028081
makes some great points and you must be more discerning about whom you approach, where and your real intent.
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>>35025145
Even if you are the top 1-5% in looks, you ain't the only guy she got in her DMs. Competition doesn't stop at the top you are still competing other men on the same level or even a bit better, maybe your texting sucks, maybe your interests are boring, etc looks aren't enough to keep a woman just enough to easily get your foot in the door.
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>>35028180
Thats a load of cope. I'm the same way, but never had a problem getting relationships. 90% certainty you're blaming the women for your own inability to keep relationships, its definitely not you being attractive that causes them to move on. I know friends who are literal male models and shit and have no problem having steady long term realtionships.
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>>35028596
stfu blackpiller
Go spread your faggotry among your fellow pajeets and brown manlets, it doesn't work on men who are visible to women.
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>>35025206
>>35025145
>get off dating apps and talk to women in real life its better
>talking to women in real life is just like dating apps its not easier
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>>35025145
she got the ick because your text was android
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Why'd they ask for your numbe tho
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>>35029344
I don't know dude. I was walking on the beach and one of the girls in a group of three complimented my hair, so I stopped and complimented her; I struck up a conversation, she asked me to sit down next to them, and they sort of conducted an interview with some mixed-in shit tests. One of the girls asked for my number after I passed, and the second wanted me to take pics and send it to her. So I got two numbers out of three girls. The one who complimented me seemed most interested. When I texted her, I asked if she wanted to hang soon. She said something like "I'm 100% certain we will run into each other again", and then left me on opened on Snapchat lmao.
Some have argued that it's another shit test to see if I'm pushy, abusive, or needy. I'm so tired of the games, bros.
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>>35029589
>pushy, abusive, or needy
I am who I am. Those negative assumptions and judgements do not reflect me. That is simply the wind, to shut outside of us

This is what I weather to keep our candle lit on our shore. To guide you home into my arms, to hold you, safe and secure. Home.
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>>35028662
The mog never stops retard. There's always someone better than you out there and women will always keep cock hopping until their own value is at bottom of the barrel. Just ask your own whore mommy how many cocks she took in before settling down with your sissy, desperate, cuckoldry loving daddy
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>>35029916
Not my parents.

GL with that life, I choose mine
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>>35025595
You are a tremendous faggot sissy. You should transition.
>>35028662
>>35028663
More sissy faggot cockslut talk. Take estrogen.
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>>35030165
Be kind.
Rewind.
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>>35030008
>my boomer whoremer mom was never a ran through whore broooooooooooooooooo
Ok brooooooooooooooooo
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>>35030184
It's true. My parents have only been with each other since middle school. I am blessed having a great family.
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>>35028663
>doesn't work on men who are visible to women
The thing is you aren't the only one visible to women, you have to compete with all the other visible ones ALWAYS she'll possibly cheat on your ass if one guy is even slightly better than you. Chads get cheated on, you aren't immune.
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>>35030758
Just read that only 12% of girls cheat. Your narrative is trash and belongs there.
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I think that's the current dilemma with social media. If she's even mildly attractive and you get her number you're thrown on a roster of dicks for her to maybe choose you down the line.
Is there a solution?
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>>35030792
Newsflash, men have always been interested in attractive women.
You need to be remarkably socially retarded to think this is dependent on muh social media.
The solution is very simple: Stop giving a fuck whether things work out with an individual women or not and build your own roster. There you go, you are not going about this like an adult.
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>>35030192
Why do incel tards always present this as some cool and desirable thing?
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>>35030810
Because it is. Shows commitment, loyalty, care, true love.

I agree it doesn't support your narc manipulation tactics and convincing others of being worse people to be more like you and have more leeway for your shit traits
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>>35030803
Your pair-bonding is absolutely fried if you're jumping from bed to bed. I'd also strongly argue that polygamy has undoubtedly increased with the advent of social media and dating apps; you're daft if you think otherwise. It's disgusting and unhygienic.
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>>35030852
>if you're jumping from bed to bed.
Only few people do that though.
>I'd also strongly argue that polygamy has undoubtedly increased with the advent of social media
And I'd argue thatyou're full of shit since the source of that is your ass. Next to no one practices actual polygamy except a few reddit tier "polys".Your feelings are not facts and all that.
>It's disgusting and unhygienic.
I can already hear you nasal nerd voice yapping about muh allergies and how going to the gym is for meatheads and all that. Just snip off your balls if you hate sex so much and stfu
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>>35031008
Polyamory, not polyagmy, I apologize. It absolutely is disgusting to have multiple partners. You can catch all kinds of fucking diseases, and I'm not talking about just the ones they look for on a blood or urine test.
People are fucking filthy. It is not a virtue to have multiple partners. I don't know if you're a woman, or just a blue-pilled guy that drank the kool-aid, but you've been lied to bud.
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>>35030776
Only 12% get caught.
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>>35025289
100000% this
If you’re not engaging enough or showing interest or knowledge in their interests and just yours the conversation will be dull and fall off.
Sounds like you can’t keep their interest, not saying that in a rude way, it’s just part of the art of conversation
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>>35031196
>bird peck hand
I don't get this one
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>>35033989
They fem-splain with their hands. It's a cringey social media trend that foids believe is charming.
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>>35034806
Oh. That's gay
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>>35025145
Just bust a nut and go bust a nut elsewhere. It's all about busting nuts.
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>>35033942
Wouldn't matter if he was hot enough.
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>>35028669
I cold approached a 10/10 this summer and we talked for like an hour. In the end she ghosted me but it was an amazing experience and a big confidence boost. This is not something you can feel on dating apps. As sad as it is, there is a reason why in Japan and South Korea men pay good money just to talk to girls.
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>>35037029
There's more to life than shooting cum
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>>35041265
That's difficult to relate to. I sometimes have fun text exchanges with women but meeting them irl and hearing their voices ruins it.
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>>35030852
That image is me.
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>>35025145
>>35025433
>>35025694
>>35029589
>>35030792
Women dont like you because you post undersized thumbnails for some reason
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