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>>224005447
Simping like this over a bitch doesn't work btw
I tried it and she ended up ghosting me and saying I was weird. She met some random fucking customer at her job and 2 weeks in she let him take her virginity. My entire perception on love and women has been completely broken since

>>224005638
That was me. She let me finish in her mouth btw

>>224005638
Many are saying this

>>224005638
>She met some random fucking customer at her job and 2 weeks in she let him take her virginity. My entire perception on love and women has been completely broken since
Hey man water over the bridge
I was friends and had a crush on this girl in school and she dated my other good friend instead
So yeah I lost two friends they went college together but im over that shit now lmao some times life punches down and you just got to move on like I did no matter how much it hurts haha ha

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>>224005638
is it really fair to call it a madonna-whore complex if it's all whores and no madonnas

>>224005638
Why are they like this? If you invest anything into these whores they end up resenting you, but they will suck the dick of a guy they met 5 minutes ago no questions asked

>>224005638
I think it's a phase most young men simply have to go through. You have to contract oneitis in order to gain immunity to it.

What you appreciate with experience is that women are either into you or they're not and that decision gets made in their heads very quickly. It's up to you to spot the signs and move accordingly. Once you realise how quickly women are willing to move when they're attracted to you, you realise that simping and crushing is a bit of a fool's game.

>>224005990
TRVKE^2

>>224006325
also a TRVKEEEEE

>>224006325
This is true. When I got over oneitis I never really fell “in love” with a woman again. I’m married and I wouldn’t say I’m “in love” with my wife. It’s better this way when you interact with women, you have more control and don’t act like a fag

>>224005674
>She let me finish in her mouth
then you didn't take her virginity

>have girl best friend when I was 11-12
>we kinda lose contact in high school
>now I'm 26 and she's 25
>add her on snapchat
>I say "hey there stranger, how ya been?"
>"Hey! Good to hear from you. I was cleaning around my room yesterday and actually found your picture day photo "
>i ask if she can send me the pic
>she sends the pic
>nothing else
what do, guys? conversations dead in the water now. i told her thanks for the pic, I look so dorky etc. she opened the message and no reply now.
i miss her so much
i've dreamt about her many times over the years

>>224006325
>Once you realise how quickly women are willing to move when they're attracted to you
Just found this out last year at age 27. Me and this girl would hang out and talk nonstop but we werent in a relationship yet I could tell she liked me. But I could also tell she was seeing someone else on the side and I fucking told her I liked her out of desperation. She told me that was weird to ask her out while pretending to be friends or whatever.

But this other dude, she turned into a complete fucking simp over and would be sad if she was left on read and shit. She never was like that with me

>>224006325
>You have to contract oneitis in order to gain immunity to it.
So it's emotional chicken pox that can kill you if you don't get it while your young
Fugg

>>224006823
>She never was like that with me
Do you ever leave her on read?

>>224006864
A couple times but it wasn't on purpose, I could tell she liked me cause she would always call me and text me constantly. If I didn't show up to class she'd text me where i was and shit like that. I guess I missed my window of opportunity to ask her out, but it always felt like she never minded if she lost me, yet this other faggot she "dated" for a month, she'd go visit him after school and shit even tho she was tired. She acted like a simp

>>224006773
Send a dick pic to her and write something like
>You sent me a pic now here's one for you
Make sure it's your morning wood so it looks as big as possible

This girl keeps facetiming me nonstop and texting me every fucking day, but she also mentions her ex bf all the time. WTF do I do? Is she interested or just using me? She said I have a "lethal face card" and we've smoked in my car together.

>>224006914
you don't understand girl-language:
> like
means "friend zone"
> talking to
means "romantically and sexually interested in"
> seeing
means "dating"
> with / together
means "having sex"

She "liked" you, my bro.

>>224005447
I think anyone who is such a faggot that a tv show makes them feel emotions deserves to be ruined, desu.

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>>224006773
You have two options...

>i've dreamt about you many times over the years
If I've learned anything from Hollywood its that you should tell her this.

>>224006974
This might also work though.

>>224007069
your options are to
1) dick her down so good and hard and see if she completely stops mentioning her ex after that
2) ignore her because she's using you for entertainment, attention, and validation (you already know this)
3) understand that a girl talking about her ex is a giant red flag regarding body count and cheating

>>224006325
Crushing isn’t a choice
That’s where you became a lousy feminist with this post

>>224005447
>girl texts me all the time/wants to hang out all the time
>ask her out since we get along really well
>ewww you're only nice to me for sex
jeez you stupid bitch why did you keep on bothering me????

>>224005798
It's "water under the bridge" kek

>>224005638
Did you try being yourself and having confidence?

>>224008209
Misquotes like that are a diamond dozen around here

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>>224008310
Doesn't work, I try to fake it and it works for a week max, then I start getting in over my head if I'm actually ugly or not and the confidence act goes away

>>224006914
She liked the ATTENTION you gave her. She didn't like you romantically.

Attention is like a drug to women. It makes them feel unique and special.

Every time you responded to her texts, every time you responded to her calls, and everytime you hung out with her just gave her the attention dopamine hit she needed that day. She never loved you.

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>>224008792
>She never loved you.

>>224008792
We call this being "The Emotional Tampon"

Everybody's gotta learn sometime

>>224005447
Absolute mongoloids in here not understanding that Pam and Jim already loved eachother at this point. Imagine thinking the show is saying "even if a woman is repulsed by you, keep at it".

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>>224009069
>Absolute mongoloids in here not understanding that Pam and Jim already loved eachother at this point. Imagine thinking the show is saying "even if a woman is repulsed by you, keep at it".

Nobody wants an easy person. That's why simps always lose the game

>>224006325
This is false. Maybe I'm some freak edge case. But I've had two oneitises over the course of my life. I know that kind of goes against the principal of it literally, but to say you gain immunity after the first time doesn't seem to apply universally.

>>224009301
how much soi do you intake? lots of miso soup?

>>224005990
He looks better than you, is taller than you, and is richer than you. Does that answer your question?

>>224007069
Foids are retarded and think constantly bringing up their exes will make you jealous and more attracted to them because that’s what works on them. They don’t comprehend that men and women look for different attributes in the opposite sex.

>>224007069
I knew a girl I liked that did that "my ex..." shit all the time too and I hated it. When I asked her out turns out she didn't even like me anyway so who knows wtf goes on in those minds.

I never watched Seinfeld, Friends, LOST, TBBT, HIMYM, House, or The Office.
I'm really good at avoiding druish psyops I guess.

>>224007069
women just say things. would you ask why a plant grows towards sunlight?

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>>224005447
It is true that being engaged is not married, that is why if you cancel the marriage it's not called a divorce or separation. Same thing if you went through the ceremony of marriage but never consumed it, that's called an annulment, a cancellation, because a marriage means union and the union occurs during sex, the ceremony of marriage is not the marriage itself, it's the ceremony that approves the couple's union and makes people know of it.

>>224005447
The fact that you have an entire generation of men and women who let sitcoms and media influence how they live their life is more worrying to me.

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>>224005638
I learned this hard truth about women recently aswell.
>Be friends with guy since university
>Meet his gf, very shy but shes cool
>Years later, we're a close knit group
>Suddenly last year her and I get closer
>She drops many hints she's into me despite being with her bf
>Confesses they never have sex and shes not attracted to him at all
>We're not american but hes a hardcore lefty and watches Hasan, she says that is gay and unattractive
>Straight up says she wants me and is attracted to me
>We continue to be very good friends but the sexual tension is palpable
>It all blows up when the bf confronts her for emotional cheating and she takes the opportunity to leave him and run
>He and his sycophantic friends turn on me because of it
>I try to continue being friends with her, but it was awkward/stilted and she blocked me earlier this year out of the blue

Never invest your emotions into fickle whores bros. I made the mistake of simping and supporting her throughout all of this dishonesty and I got my comeuppance

Women can do that
Women don't mind stealing other women's resources
When you do that, you are either a chad NTR bull or a simp retard

>>224006773
unironically trust your gut and be honest without your dick in your hand, theres nothing wrong with telling her you had a crush on her

>>224010148
Not him but some stupid bitch I worked with cheated on me with some balding skinny fucking faggot with glasses. He wasn't rich either cause we all worked at a target. It's like she performed some self humiliation ritual on herself

There was an apartment party today. The exact type that I felt like I needed to try and make some friends, and I didn't go. I was too nervous.

>>224010895
If you don't know anyone going it would have been a waste of time anyway. You'd be there not talking to anyone, I've tried that shit and it never works unless you got at least one friend to go wtih

>>224010895
dont beat yourself up over it too much, theres just as likely of a chance to invite negative shit into your life. but you should make yourself uncomfortable to a certain extent

Maybe you guys aren't getting with your oneitis because you're a bunch of faggots who cry and diary-post on /tv/, you ever think of that?
I look like a rat-faced weirdo with a bad hairline and crooked teeth and I still get laid regularly, I've even had girls way out of my league fall in love with me. How, you might ask? I'm just not a sniveling little faggot bitch ass nigga, it's really that simple.
Also the Office was kino and I'm tired of pretending it wasn't.

>>224010982
Most of the guys in here admit they aren’t what women want and you’re repeating it back in insult form as if it’s advice while also proving you didn’t get with your oneitis aka crush either
You’re coping

>>224010982
Zomg you're the most basedest of the secret little 4chan club!
You sounding like a fag desperate for approval aside, you are right in that you need to be aloof and lightly bully/grill women and they will lend you their pussy

>>224011154
>proving you didn’t get with your oneitis aka crush either
I've gotten with every girl I've wanted to lmao, except maybe some really hot girls at the clubs or bar when I was younger. I've never had a oneitis.

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>>224010979
Thanks anons. I will try better next time, but I shouldn't punish myself for this time. It really is hard to do these things without a friend.

>>224010715
You broke the code and deserved everything. Fag.

>>224009088
I like this image I'd like to save it

>>224010869
There could be a million reasons why she did it, such as just wanting to torment/hurt you, all reducible to "women". Ultimately they don't know what they want and do things based on their lack of inhibition, like niggers. I can relate though, is my point

>>224011228
Yeah I know. I was extremely naive and passive, put pussy on a pedestal and it was weak and gay, and women don't even find that attractive anyways. Lesson learned though

>>224006325
>Once you realise how quickly women are willing to move when they're attracted to you, you realise that simping and crushing is a bit of a fool's gam

Then why is it socially conditioned into young men from an early age? Why is this meta only explained to them after they get crushed for the first time?

>>224011174
nothing you say means anything
Might as well be saying your dad works at Nintendo lmao

>>224006773
>I found her
>I added her on snap
>I messaged her
>her responses have been polite but brief
>I've been left on read

She sees you as a distant friend, and nothing more.

>>224011268
no you just should have told her she’s being a whore
Stop talking like a feminist

>>224011311
>Why do women never want to stop free attention and affirmations from men?
Nobody really talks about the true nature of women in general bro

>>224011311
To keep the beta carousel going

>>224008788
Carmack for POTUS 2032

>>224011420
I can only really take responsibility for my own actions. Her ex and all his friends don't blame her for any of it

>>224011499
are they all libtards

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>>224010715
This is the pattern we see here. You and all the one-itis guys don't make the move expediently. In fact you don't make a move. Her move is the compliment, the texting you out of the blue, or even keeping the conversation going, not leaving, your move is the physical. Get with the program.

Another terrible part of one-itis is it's very difficult to make a move on your crush because you're ruining the dreams of her in that process, if she rejects you it's over, if you fuck her, a part of the dream dies too. You get used to longing after her and the hope but you must be ok with losing it to make a move and risk rejection. Maybe we are designed to be monogamous at least early on, but then, maybe we're not designed to live very long also.

>>224011542
Yes they're all Hasan Piker watchers and lefty types in general

>>224011612
none of this matters because none of our crushes will ever have reason to give us a real reason to think they like us back thanks to hoeflation and immigration and social media platforms inflating their options and ego
It’s actually 200% over

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>>224011612
I must admit I am very naive and stunted in regards to how to communicate with women. That is probably a huge portion of why oneitis exists and why oneitis-havers continue to suffer. Its the fantasy of how women are in our heads incongruent with how they are in reality, like you say. Idk what the solution is, but in general I am happier to not be actively seeking to date women

>>224006578
I had oneitis twice, as a teen and as an adult and for some reason the adult one hit harder but was fortunately about someone so far out of my reach there was never any chance of even pursuing her.

I do think the fact I just ignored my teen oneitis until it fizzled out let me have another, if I asked her out and she crushed me it would've probably changed things for the worse.

Threads like this are just sad. I'm glad I grew up in the late 90s/early 00s. You had to actually talk to girls. In person. Motherfuckers act like that's a super power now. It's not hard to find a hot chic to fuck. Just go out. I guarantee most the hot girls walking around that you THINK have some Chad bf, don't. A lot of hot bitches are single because dudes are too scared to talk to them. Nut the fuck up and go get yours. You can do it. Just takes a little effort. You're gonna get rejected. It's going to happen to everyone. Just keep at it anons

>>224011819
Holy boomer advice
>A lot of hot bitches are single because dudes are too scared to talk to them.
Smartphones exist now old man, every single woman is hit on by at least ten different new guys every day from the day she first makes a social media account, it's done insane things to their attention complexes and standards

>>224011857
Nah, that's just an excuse. I'm 39 now. I met my wife when she was 26 and I was 33. In person. At a bar. Go out.

>>224011918
They patched that method for anyone born into the social media era

>>224011918
No it’s reality you unbelievable moron

>>224011857
>>224011918
both of these people are simultaneously correct

>>224011966
Women are whores and need to be corrected
You’re probably one of them

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>>224011918
That age gap... Ewww....

>>224011612
I will add to this I think a lot of young guys don't get that most of the home you'll get push back from a girl you make known to her you want to fuck her. Persistence is critical you have to try again later, do something else, switch it up, just because she turns away when you first try to touch her shoulder doesn't mean it's over, within reason. Keep trying with a girl, don't be annoying about it and don't break the law, but keep trying because you need to warm her up a bit

>>224012022
Telling people to meet their wife at a bar in 2026 is not correct in any way

>>224012060
All this post does is enable women to maintain plausible deniability
If they were forced to be honest no guy would be in this thread talking about this shit

>meet cute girl that's a friend of a friend
>friend later tells me she likes me
>not my type so I just did nothing about it
>went out in a group context a couple more times afterwards
>I never treated her seriously and only talked to her about the girls I actually liked
>she still tried contacting me out of the blue a couple times years later when it risked coming across as awkward
Being negatively received just does something magical and insane to women, shame it's impossible to summon this at will

>>224012095
>being a rapist is being a man
>wanting women to be honest means you advocate simping (nobody said or implied this)
You are a woman

>>224012111
Yeah when you aren’t attracted to women it makes them like you which is why it’s impossible to get the ones you want
Having to fake disinterest is the worst part of our nightmare mode hypergamy run

>>224012045
Nah, it's pretty rad. Most young guys don't know how to fuck so when these girls meet a real man they melt. Nothing has done more to help guys in their 30/40s get laid than dudes in their 20s being autistic weirdos raised on anime and internet porn.
>>224012086
Replace bar with literally any real world interaction. You wanna live your lives behind a screen, right on but you don't get to whine when you're 40 and the last pussy you touched was on the way out of your moms blown out snatch

>>224012103
That is a key part of women you need to understand. They arent logical when it comes to sex, they don't want the responsibility, the burden of making it happen, they want you to shoulder it. A lot of ridiculous behaviour they do is because of this, they want to be able to blame the man for it happening, while also not being raped.

>>224005638
>Simping like this
It doesn't sound like your situation was similar at all, because this chick wasn't interested in you to begin with. Pam wanted Jim, but she was already in a relationship and she didn't know the feeling was mutual, or at least mutual enough to warrant leaving a comfortable (but numb) situation.

>>224012156
They want to plausibly pretend they have no agency regarding sex (while fully practicing agency)

>>224012135
incredibly cringe boomer

>>224012188
By doing what women want you are playing and endorsing the game
If we have to rape them then all men have lost

>>224012159
>>224011966
She wanted me from the first 3 months or so we were talking and hanging out. She had her friends prank call me and her friends would say shit like "is this anon... the cute guy with dark hair" shit like that. But I guess I fucked up cause I never made a move. Later one I could tell little by little she was losing interest looking back

>>224005447
Only the retards that watched it

>>224012543
If you never fucked she didn’t like you

If the office was out now jim would avoid pam knowing she’s taken and she would get mad that he’s not validating her by simping for her taken pussy

>>224012543
>But I guess I fucked up cause I never made a move. Later one I could tell little by little she was losing interest looking back
It's hard to say for sure. You'll never really know. Life's gay like that. If she was actually interested, it must have been a casual interest to be so fleeting. It sounds like you two were pretty young so I wouldn't say that's unreasonable, but I didn't have to experience it so I won't argue the fact.
I went through one of these scenarios, and it lasted the entirety of high school. It wasn't until an entire year later with almost no contact with her that it ended up working out and with us together. I'm not attempting to brag, my point being if she couldn't hand three months without making a move herself she probably wasn't seriously interested. I'm sorry something so stupid affected you so deeply from then on, man.

>>224012778
If she was interested it would have happened
Blaming the man is hoeflation

>>224012795
I wasn't blaming him but I edited my post so many times that I don't doubt my post is intelligible.

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>>224012135
I was delivered via C-section, i have literally never touched a pussy in my entire life, not even my mom's

>>224012911
Damn

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>>224005990
>Why are they like this? If you invest anything into these whores they end up resenting you, but they will suck the dick of a guy they met 5 minutes ago no questions asked
women were genetically selected to be rape victims of strong, powerful men
because strong men killed the women who put up too much fuss during the rapes

>>224013846
Which is why you have all men pretending to be “strong” which confuses women and filters out actually strong men who don’t want to play the performance game

>>224010688
>The fact that you have an entire generation of men and women who let sitcoms and media influence how they live their life is more worrying to me.
this

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>>224005447

In hindsight yeah

That’s a fucked message

>>224007231
With experience I've found that letting your crush fester very much is a choice. I'm 35. If I find a woman attractive I'm not befriending her, idolizing her, and longing for her touch for months on end while we hang out, text back-and-forth, etc. I simply don't have the patience for that. I work out if something is on or not relatively quickly and, if it isn't, I don't invest time and emotional energy in it. If it is, things move quickly. Women like the idea of a whirlwind romance. They view moving quickly as passionate. Your job is to work out if they're open to something and, if they are, to make your move quickly. It's that simple.

I'm not saying any of this from a judgmental place. I wasted a stupid amount of time on my own oneitis when I was younger as did several of my friends. It's a very common thing for young men to go through. I'm just trying to pass on my experience as an older Anon.

>>224009301
>but to say you gain immunity after the first time
That's not what I said.

>>224005447
>chick is engaged to another man
>she isn't owned go get her!!1!
Where the honor between men? I get some dudes are scumbags but If she is willing to break off a serious commitment like engagement then she can/will do it to you as well.

>>224012156
How does that square with the fact women will literally walk up to Chad in a club, take his hand, and cram it down her undies to show how wet he makes her and ask if he wants to go back to her place?

Women are perfectly capable of being straightforward and pursuing what they want when it comes to sex, the whole "burden of responsibility" thing is bullshit, they only put you through that process if they DON'T want to fuck you for the sake of it and are instead gauging your willingness to simp for a crumb of pussy.

If you want to "get women", there is exactly one process with three steps: get in shape(not gymbro-tier, just in shape), go and hang out in public with a group of people who will acknowledge your existence, and then be utterly dismissive of any "flirty" behaviour from women. Take care of yourself, demonstrate you have some social value, and don't fall for any simp manipulation tactics and eventually a woman in your league will literally start throwing herself at you. Fail in any of these aspects and you'll be a betabux for life - you might eventually get a crumb or even the chance to procreate(or at least a reasonable chance that her offspring are yours rather than whoever she leaves you for's), but the price will be your dignity and/or half of everything you own.

>>224011819
I grew up in the same time as you and you're completely full of shit. Quit lying to these younger anons, jackass.

>>224011918
a bar? during peak covid?

>>224006633
good morning sirs

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>>224006773
>hey there stranger, how ya been?