Looking for something? You'll find it here...You should drop an e-mail account, a small description of yourself and what you want, if you want to keep it e-mail only or want to swap addresses, and get to writing.. This is something very anti-ethic to the low-effort nature of /soc/ these days, so please try and actually write, reply and be thoughtful and honest.Here's a rough template:>You?>What Do You Want?>What Kind of PenPal?>Contact!
>>35510390May as well give it a shot.>About me25, Male, Ireland. Very much into technology (not AI or crypto) but lately I've been trying to get more into practical hobbies like art, metal working, scrapping. I'm currently a NEET but have a degree, I'm just mentally ill and they're trying to figure out what's wrong with me. I ramble a lot, I give way too enthusiastic replies because I'm afraid of boring people into leaving. I have unpopular opinions regarding morals and society which has led to me losing a lot of friends. I'm an animal lover (spiders creep me out but I really respect them as a species), I want to travel the world and I care pretty deeply about the world as a whole.>what do you want?A friend, ideally someone who can initiate a conversation and won't ghost after a day leaving me thinking what did I do wrong. We don't need to have the same interests or hobbies, I like learning and experiencing things outside of my current peripheral. Just be kind, I don't find being rude or nonchalant or pretending you're above loneliness to be attractive.>what kind of penpal?When it comes to being friends I'm good with men or women. If you're looking to develop a relationship, I'm only into women and I prefer we take it slow.>Contact[email protected]
>>35510390>Basics about me24M Argentina, into learning about the nature of the world and meeting people, may have ADD, and i hate ghosting. Ponderer, and a little argumentative.>What do i wantDeep, slow conversations if possible>What kinda penpal am iSlow, preferably email-only>My contact[email protected]
I hope this thread becomes more active
>>35511777I like your name Mr Meow. I hope u find friends
>>35512866Thank you! It's because I love cats
>>35511777I'm glad you posted, the trips will make sure of it... 777 is a lucky number!
>>35510390Thanks for making the post, I find it refreshing, to take time to respond in a slower manner and put more thought into an actual conversation.>About me26, Male, Europe, good natured, recently more uncovering the darker/shadow aspects of myself, trying to find meaning>What am I looking for?Someone to form a connection with, sharing about what matters to us. Someone that values a friendship and is able and wanting to care about someone else. >What kind of penpal?Can start over email slowly, but don't mind to switch over to discord/vc at some point. Also happy to write emails at our own pace, doesn't have to be daily or even weekly. >Contact[email protected]
>>35510390Why did you never post yourself OP?
>>35518020I don't know if my ID is going to change when I post after all this time, but I am here, that has not changed in a long time. I also don't know if I should post because I hardly know what to tell people about myself anymore. It's not that I feel hollow, but more so, so full that I'd need a whole lifetime to show and explain it all. I don't know if anyone would stick around for that. Frankly, I don't know a lot of things. I know what I want, I know what I like. I don't know what kind of person I am, really.I think I'll post myself.
>>35518652It's ok anon, people are complex, it can be difficult to put our personalities into words
>>35518652if I cracked your hollow shell open would all your sins fall out?
>>35518652Pick something that may matter in the short term, call it incomplete, add your ASL and contact, hit send. Try it anon! :)
>You?24M US>What Do You Want?Let’s journal to each other about what’s happening in our lives. What is going well and what’s bringing you down. What goals are you working towards?>What Kind of PenPal?Someone who is flexible regarding when to send emails. Maybe once to a few times a week? And it would be nice to respond to each other’s entries>Contact![email protected]
>>35519188I just want something that will give me something to look forward to in the future, I have everything I could ever want in the short term.. I'm a 29 year old guy from a small country called Luxembourg.>>35518946I don't know, that and a lot more.When the sun goes down on my side of town,That lonesome feeling comes to my door and the whole world turns blue.There's a rundown bar 'cross the railroad tracks,I got a table for two way in the back where I sit alone and think of losing you.Now if you lose your one and only there's always room here for the lonely.I feel an angel's kiss graze my cheek every day before I leave the door to my home, and I feel a gentle breeze when that angel waves goodbye.I've got green eyes, I'm thin and I've got long brown hair. I'm outside every day. I go to church sometimes. I have a lot of cars, a lot of tools, a lot of trinkets, a lot of computers. I have a lot of things, I use them so I have something to work on, most of the time I spend is spent maintaining things. I do that for work too, although in a slightly different way.. I enjoy writing letters, I enjoy art, film & photography, architecture, every now and then I'll read a book too. I cook, I garden.. I'll sew some pants together, adjust the fit of clothes. I am a very handy person, somewhat less so with people. I'm a lonesome person, a gentle person, a loving one.. maybe a little too different, too weird, too gross, too strange, too.. out there. I travel far too much, mostly to see people, never has anyone come to see me.I use e-mails to write people now.. I don't like being online very much anymore, I like things that are thoughtful or physical in a sense, sometimes both..Why don't you tie that knot?[email protected]
It's unfortunate that these threads get so little traction despite being top notch
>>35524402You should post anon!
>>35524402I totally agree, so far I only had very thoughtful and kind interactions, If anyone is considering posting, I want to encourage you. To me it is a totally different experience, to think about what to write and not being in a rush compared to discord for example
>>35510390>You?21/M/USA (Florida)>AboutI am a European studying in the United States, completing his degree and flight training next spring. I am white, have brown eyes, and brown hair. I am far away from home here, with my family living halfway across the globe, but I have plenty of wonderful friends who keep me company!I go to church on Sunday and I have a prayer life. My church community is my home away from home, and I love engaging in church activities (outside of regular worship) like cooking for food festivals, going on prayer walks and group trips.When I am alone, I enjoy playing piano and creating music, videos and art.My aspiration in life is to be a commercial pilot and be a loving husband to my future wife, and a great father to my future kids.I am a virgin, but I do not care if you are, and I do not shame people for not being so. I also believe there is no sin too grave for God's mercy; what matters is that someone genuinely grows and changes from an experience.>What are you looking for?A woman to spend the rest of my life with. A woman to exchange handmade letters with, make handmade gifts for, to fix things around the house while she looks after the kids... A woman to come home to and embrace after a long day at work flying. A woman to pray every day with, to stick by me no matter which country my career takes me. In short, a woman to marry.>Not looking forI do not want to speak to women who care about carnal/physical stuff, because I do not want to have any intimacy before marriage. Please be someone who respects that. I am also not a big consumer of media, that being movies, video games, music, etc... so I'd prefer someone who isn't deeply entrenched in social media and online spaces.>ContactPlease tell me about your day at:[email protected]
>About me28 year old britbong. Working and living life. I go out walking in the warm months and sit inside reading or playing piano in the colder ones. Why write a buncha details here when we can talk about it later?>What do you want?Someone who wants to write about whatever, no set topics or interests from the get go. Say what's been on your mind.>What kind of penpal?If email then once or twice a week depending on how much you have to say, slower if we move to written letters. Disappear for a while then send a message out of nowhere, whatever floats your boat.>Contact[email protected]
>>35510390>About me28F MéxicoI like games, art, music, daydreaming, journaling, some animes, psychological horror, attracted to urban exploration (never done one) abbandoned builings eaten by nature, watching movies and movie reviews, weird things? And more?... Ive always wanted to have a pen pal. Emotionally in shambles, introvert, shy, depressed and have anxiety. Ive lost a lot of passion on the things I like, hopefully it comes back. I have a thing for angels, i wish I could be one. May have some personality illnes idk i know its cringe to just call yourself autistic. You can ask about more specific things about me, i dont have anything to lose really. >What Do You Want?Someone to talk to and form a conection, not really interested in romance. Sending pics of what you are doing, i like seeing life from other peoples view. >What Kind of PenPal?Someone patient, i can get overwhelmed but I always reply back. Once a week is fine>Contact[email protected]
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