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Does anyone have any tips for getting motivated to tidy up? I take any advice !!
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the shame of being a scumbag normally does it

Your fortune: Reply hazy, try again
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think of the shame when you bring someone home
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>>13254650
Don't commit to cleaning everything. Just tell yourself to do the tiniest thing possible, like pick up a single piece of trash or something. And then after that, you've at least started and you can decide if you want to keep going.
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>>13254655
Thanks for the tip ! What's more, last time a man came to the house for maintenance, he hadn't warned me beforehand, it was a good lesson learned..
Yet I still need everything to be clean, but depression doesn't make it easy :')
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>>13254652
I've been ashamed for a long time, don't worry about it lol
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>>13254657
Thank you very much, I will try that rn ! It's true that we feel less overwhelmed if we plan to tidy up less than we'd like to
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>>13254650
Post room
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>>13254668
I'm really ashamed :')
(Yes, my room is dreary and needs decorating :')
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>>13254677
>time to clean
>ooh there's a keyboard
>play music for 45 minutes
happens every time
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Someone said most women are losers they're just good looking and I laughed

Your fortune: Bad Luck
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>>13254681
Every time I want to put on some music, I end up drifting onto YouTube or TikTok and in the end I do nothing :')
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>>13254684
If only they knew :')
Personally I'm mid but In my boyfriend's eyes I'm beautiful, so it's fine with me lol
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>>13254677
Dubs of
You don't seem fully unpacked. Are you going to be staying there for a while?
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>>13254743
I've had my apartment since February, the boxes came from packages I received ! It's just a mess :')
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>>13254766 (guess what)
xristians getting promoted for evangelical work ...spread the burro around the edges
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Your space ends up like this because your mind is not organized. Even if you tidy up, which you have done before, your room will become messy again, which has happened before.

Step one, understand that you're an adult, you don't need toys. Give them away.
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>>13254781
But It's the only thing that brings me comfort, and I'm a fan of vintage toys/objects :')
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>>13254781
kys adultfig
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>>13254788
Then don't complain about your room being messy.
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>>13254862
It's just that it's unrelated, my plushies and toys are put away, it's everything else that's a mess :')
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>>13254896
Your space is a reflection of your inner world.
You're mentally unorganized.
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>>13255061
I live in chaotic garbage but that's also how my mind is organuzed. It all works out though
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>>13255061
Oh I know that, I have depression and anxiety and I'm not able to work, but before that I didn't tolerate any mess :')
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>>13255083
Yes it depend of the person ! :›
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>>13255083
i miss chaotic
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>>13255125
We all do
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listen to some youtube drama video while you do it


Your fortune: Very Bad Luck
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>>13255127
Okay I'll try thank you !! <3
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Do a shitload of meth or ritalin
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>>13255129
Lmaoo
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maybe think about how other people would judge you?
or maybe you're just exaggerating, i know a lot of ppl who would complain about having a messy living space and it's just a few piles of clothes you could put away in a few minutes, meanwhile others see no issue with having weeks of dirty dishes piling up in their neet cave
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>>13255129
i wasn't going to say it but yeah this works perfectly
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>>13255132
It's been like this for months, and it was my mother who insisted on coming to help tidy the rest of the apartment; I wasn't mentally capable, I have very little mental energy to the point where after going outside for 30 minutes, I can't do anything else for the rest of the day :')
I don't cook because I don't have the energy, and even less so do the dishes, even though I always try
It's been so long since I've eaten a normal meal that even pasta suddenly tastes amazing
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>>13255145
Shouldn't coffee help you get some energy if you don't have it?
Unless what your lack of energy is is depression, then you just needs meds. My anti-depressants remove the Blah feeling that weighs on me. It's so los helpful~
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