Does anyone have any tips for getting motivated to tidy up? I take any advice !!
the shame of being a scumbag normally does itYour fortune: Reply hazy, try again
think of the shame when you bring someone home
>>13254650Don't commit to cleaning everything. Just tell yourself to do the tiniest thing possible, like pick up a single piece of trash or something. And then after that, you've at least started and you can decide if you want to keep going.
>>13254655Thanks for the tip ! What's more, last time a man came to the house for maintenance, he hadn't warned me beforehand, it was a good lesson learned.. Yet I still need everything to be clean, but depression doesn't make it easy :')
>>13254652I've been ashamed for a long time, don't worry about it lol
>>13254657Thank you very much, I will try that rn ! It's true that we feel less overwhelmed if we plan to tidy up less than we'd like to
>>13254650Post room
>>13254668I'm really ashamed :') (Yes, my room is dreary and needs decorating :')
>>13254677>time to clean>ooh there's a keyboard>play music for 45 minuteshappens every time
Someone said most women are losers they're just good looking and I laughedYour fortune: Bad Luck
>>13254681Every time I want to put on some music, I end up drifting onto YouTube or TikTok and in the end I do nothing :')
>>13254684If only they knew :') Personally I'm mid but In my boyfriend's eyes I'm beautiful, so it's fine with me lol
>>13254677Dubs ofYou don't seem fully unpacked. Are you going to be staying there for a while?
>>13254743I've had my apartment since February, the boxes came from packages I received ! It's just a mess :')
>>13254766 (guess what)xristians getting promoted for evangelical work ...spread the burro around the edges
Your space ends up like this because your mind is not organized. Even if you tidy up, which you have done before, your room will become messy again, which has happened before.Step one, understand that you're an adult, you don't need toys. Give them away.
>>13254781But It's the only thing that brings me comfort, and I'm a fan of vintage toys/objects :')
>>13254781kys adultfig
>>13254788Then don't complain about your room being messy.
>>13254862It's just that it's unrelated, my plushies and toys are put away, it's everything else that's a mess :')
>>13254896Your space is a reflection of your inner world.You're mentally unorganized.
>>13255061I live in chaotic garbage but that's also how my mind is organuzed. It all works out though
>>13255061Oh I know that, I have depression and anxiety and I'm not able to work, but before that I didn't tolerate any mess :')
>>13255083Yes it depend of the person ! :›
>>13255083i miss chaotic
>>13255125We all do
listen to some youtube drama video while you do itYour fortune: Very Bad Luck
>>13255127Okay I'll try thank you !! <3
Do a shitload of meth or ritalin
>>13255129Lmaoo
maybe think about how other people would judge you?or maybe you're just exaggerating, i know a lot of ppl who would complain about having a messy living space and it's just a few piles of clothes you could put away in a few minutes, meanwhile others see no issue with having weeks of dirty dishes piling up in their neet cave
>>13255129i wasn't going to say it but yeah this works perfectly
>>13255132It's been like this for months, and it was my mother who insisted on coming to help tidy the rest of the apartment; I wasn't mentally capable, I have very little mental energy to the point where after going outside for 30 minutes, I can't do anything else for the rest of the day :') I don't cook because I don't have the energy, and even less so do the dishes, even though I always tryIt's been so long since I've eaten a normal meal that even pasta suddenly tastes amazing
>>13255145Shouldn't coffee help you get some energy if you don't have it? Unless what your lack of energy is is depression, then you just needs meds. My anti-depressants remove the Blah feeling that weighs on me. It's so los helpful~