I hate parties, hate socializing, hate talking to people (am autistic) dont really want friends or a gf, just want to get rid of this crushing feeling of loneliness any solutions that dont involve talking to ai chatbots?
anon, you gotta change your attitude into liking socializing, but it doesn't have to take shape in a loud obnoxious party, that can be stressful if you have autism. we are social animals at heart, so don't suffer unnecessarily just because you have autism. Find an autism group or something, join a book club, goto church, find a niche group or something is my recommendation. and get some company
>>85870107>Just fix your attitude broYou don't know what you're talking about.
>>85869814How do you not want to socialize but feel lonely?
>>85870122okay maybe i'm wrong but OP is saying that he doesn't want to be lonely, yet hates socializing. so it makes me wonder if it's just a problem of what type of socializing. maybe theres a way for OP to like socializing, i think he needs it if he's to not end up lonely forever.
>>85870128I want to be social but fail miserably due to my stutter and autism, i try to socialize at uni but I think people just think I'm weird. Ive had one friend for the last 3-4 years but we rarely talk anymore cus he has a lot of other friends, while I have basically none so its hard not to feel lonely
>>85870148What do you think is the reason for that? I know there's autism but if you were witnessing your conversations as an outsider would you think anything was wrong with them? That you've never gotten close enough to relay your thoughts like you're doing now?
>>85870349I'm kind of assuming your stutter is due to nervousness so what you should address more is maybe the social anxiety
>>85870349I think from an outsider's perspective my conversations seem normal, again hard to tell bc I have difficulty with social cues. i feel like I try too hard to be normal and avoid talking about things Im actually interested in fear of coming off as weird. One time I talked to this girl about anime and manga for 30 minutes straight, and she was into the conversation as well, but I replayed the conversation in my head for days after and convinced myself that I was coming off like some socially inept freak. This happens basically any time I have a conversation that involves anything more than basic small talk.
>>85870353I definitely have severe social anxiety, made worse bc I was bullied a lot growing up. I have improved a lot tho, but I still find it impossible to approach people and start a conversation.
stop masturbating so much. it ruins self esteem
>>85870487>heckin nofap will fix your lifelong mental issues dood why is all male advice like this
