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    >woman
    >"I'm so lonely!"
    >look a little closer
    >has had multiple boyfriends and one night stands with strangers, has a supportive family and has a friend group she regularly meets up with
    Why is this so common. Is loneliness for women different than loneliness for men?
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    >>85869005
    Loneliness for men doesn't really exist.
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    >>85869080
    Why? We have zero options.
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    Uncreative faggot who posts this same shit multiple times a day, everyday. Get some new material, faggot.
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    >>85869085
    Because what you call "loneliness" is entirely self inflicted.
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    >>85869108
    Its not self inflicted if no woman wants us.
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    No, we're not going for your bottom barrel asses. We should nkt have to mame our standards abyssmal.

    Inb4 le Chad boogeyman
    Inb4 that shitty comment with the shitty image of shitty men trying to break down the door into tbe woman's home and thinking she should date their bottom barrel criminal asses trying to breaking and entering, and trespassing on the woman.
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    >>85869155
    Reddit anon you replied to copes with just world theory
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    >buy gf
    >buy gf you want
    >buy whatever you want
    >see someone else do it, stop them from doing it
    >change your primary motivation
    >now only exist to measure yourself against every other penis
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    >>85869155
    It's self inflicted if you chose this outcome.
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    >>85869178
    Those are the guys actual woman go with as long as they're good looking. You would know this if you weren't a man pretending to be a woman, who will in fact never be a woman.
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    >>85869155
    Not op. Just stating the obvious. Men loneliness is real
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    >>85869188
    do you think the ugliest person on earth is good looking? or is it just about aura?
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    >>85869187
    Didnt choose this outcome though
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    >>85869193
    That's debatable. Men don't really experience loneliness.
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    >>85869213
    Its not. Men experience loneliness women dont. We have no options
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    >>85869200
    what did you do for halloween weekend? how many parties/hangouts?
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    >>85869226
    2, just came out of a halloween party .
    Doesnt change anything to loneliness and me having zero options.
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    >>85869108
    >>85869080
    >a self inflicted thing isnt real
    I suppose if i chop my finger off im not really missing a finger
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    >>85869221
    Men most likely never experience loneliness. Just look at how they describe what they think it means.
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    >>85869236
    Men experience loneliness and women dont because women have unlimited options and men asking them out
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    >>85869230
    you had plenty of options there.
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    >>85869005
    Because if you're a woman, you have to associate with higher status people to boost your own status and those people are cunts, even the guys, whereas 80% of guys are low status so you can always find a game group or someone to talk shit about society with.
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    these threads always make me really sad. i get testosterone makes guys really aggressive and stuff, and angry, but i always always think about how different being alone would feel if people didn't lash out so much. i could argue and shout 'no, i am lonely, you have to believe me!' but to you it sounds like me making your lonely not matter, and now we're both feeing smaller and more invisible and miserable than ever. if we didn't point fingers and shout and fight we could be lonely and all be in it together. i don't know why we have to push each other away and drag each other down all the time.
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    >>85869005
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    That woman is into diapers
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    >>85869005
    Um I do have a good family and a set of childhood friends but I also a knowledge how bad my social skills are. I haven't made new friends since 12 and struggle to hold conversations at work though I manage to stay employed. I wouldn't say I want to cry like her because ,again, for now it's alright and the consequences will catch up later. I am trying to prevent it though. But, if there was a girl with autism like me who lost contact with her childhood friends or had a bad family, and they 100% exist ,why wouldn't she be the right lonely
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    >>85869347
    We're pissed off by you because you talk about your "loneliness" and "struggles" when you've had loads of people in the past and likely even the present care for you and try to help you in some way.

    Meanwhile, guys like us? Nothing. Shitty family, no friends, no one ever romantically interested in us, likely bullied as well, and we deal with all this shit and never speak up about it because when we do we get demonised, get told it is OUR fault or some shit. That is the reason why incel spaces are growing bigger and bigger each day- they are one of the only places where men won't be fucking shunned for being honest about their struggles.

    And the hatred and resentment associated with us originates from the combination of seeing others who have it better acting like they have it bad, getting supported, and then us being spat on. This is obviously some strawman post and you're not an actual woman but fuck you anyway.
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    >>85869080
    True
    using incel logic it's because they don't really want male friends and don't want to contribute into weaving their own support systems. They want selfish one sided efforts that benefits them therefore do not crave connection or can be "lonely".
    Most the time you see a male complain that nobody wishes him a happy birthday you know he doesn't either. That's how groups of male friends don't have anyone wishing them a happy birthday, it's all reciprocatory low effort interactions.
    They also don't like women as people and would be completely fine to have arranged brides who don't really like them as well as long as a role is performed. They want a cushy existence made of other people's selflessness and sacrifice
    Male loneliness is a myth and misattribution
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    >>85869234
    btfo that fat bitch
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    >>85869005
    Because they're attention whores who need every personal relationship to revolve around them. Anything less is misogynistic abuse in the foid mind
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    >>85869005
    >Is loneliness for women different than loneliness for men?
    Loneliness for women = "omg its been like 4 days since i had a bf, i miss chad dick so bad omg my cum cavern feels so empty and my dad's dick just isn't making me feel better wtf i wish i was dead ugh only 5000 matches on tinder today i may as well fucking die"
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    >>85869005
    im a woman and i have none of those things
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    >/r9k/ - the board for OC
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    >>85869005
    There are many women that alone and not sexually active or successful in relationship. But its for different reasons and is actually more normal than for men to be alone and not sexually active. Women want love and to be in a committed relationship. If they try to have sex or go on dates it is usually because they have a goal of having a more serious relationship. However, men that are sexually active or are seen as desirable are often already in a relationship. If they aren't in a relationship they have many options and may not commit to a relationship until they are older. This is why 2/3 of young women are in a relationship while only 1/3 of young men are. Women date up several years or more as older men are more willing to commit. Not all women can form relationships with men they are attracted to. These women still have options, but they would rather wait until a better guy comes along. Men who are incels would not be seen as desirable by women who are themselves romantically unsuccessful. This is the cause of a lot of the animosity. When women talk about their loneliness it is extremely grating and taken to be self-imposed. The rise in male virginity has been extreme and has quickly outpaced women (who are historically more likely to be virgins and are less sexually active). What women need to understand is that male loneliness is different and more destructive because men who are virgins can't even get anything. They have no choice to wait for someone better because there is nobody there in the first place. Women do have higher standards and they want men who are above-average. That means that a lot of men, and a part of the male population which is growing, cannot even find hookups - let alone real relationships. Future generations will have even less sexual activity and this will be most pronounced among men. I don't think it is crazy to think 35-40% of Gen Alpha will be adult virgins between 18-24.
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    >>85870286
    Loneliness is the emotional reaction to being alone. That's all it is. We could sit here and navel gaze all day trying to paint men's feeling as cynical and psychopathic. It'd be a unproductive, shit day. Even you would get tired of it.
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    Reminder that "female autism" was basically invented from wholecloth

    >It manifests differently from male autism
    So it's a different thing
    >Women actually mask to hide it
    So they're socially aware enough to know what is required to mask properly, meaning it's a different thing

    I don't know if coopting is worse than just completely pulling something out of their ass like fibromyalgia or the other fake women's diseases
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    >>85870584
    What's so hard about it? You can't crave sex if you are asexual and you can't be lonely if you can't be half arsed to build an interaction into intimacy
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    >>85869275
    Wrong.I did not have any options there.
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    >>85870616
    Why don't you take some fucking responsibility?
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    >>85870622
    I am not responsible for women not wanting me
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    >>85869226
    Hang out with who? I have no friends.
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    >>85870648
    Would you make a good friend for anyone?
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    >>85870662
    For someone, who exists somewhere, that I will never meet.
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    >>85870603
    Avoidance is a form of a defense. Asexuality is commonly adopted as a defense against the pain of sexual trauma or because of feelings of not being able to obtain a sexual partner. This does not mean they don't have a repressed desire for sexual intimacy. Just because men might engage in socially avoidant behavior does not mean they do not have a desire for social connection.
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    >>85869005
    well I don't have any of those things, as a lonely foid
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    >>85869005
    Yeah it's different. For them, getting a good friend group that doesn't implode is hard, getting a boyfriend who wants to fuck you is piss easy. Opposite for men.
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    >>85870882
    They can have both extremely easily and without doing any effort though
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