my bf was the one to bring up how he doesnt believe people should watch porn while in relationships he loves me a lot and is obsessed with me and talks about how i am the love of his lifebut im addicted to pornwhat do i do?
>>85863187>tfw I will never have a porn addict gfNo point in being alive
>>85863187Sounds like me and my gf I fight with her over this a lot. you should kill yourself probably
>>85863187I easily give up porn for my girl I'd she asked
>>85863187You should tell him the truth, which is that most of the time porn for women isn't about the men in it at all
>>85863187Why not fuck while watching porn?
>>85863203So you think your gf should kill herself? she should leave you
>>85863213Not OP and actually in the exact opposite situation; my gf loses her shit if I ever mention anything porn adjacent or even just anything lewd or appreciation for anything cute or anything not her (sigh)People like my partner and OP's dont seem to understand exactly how desire works or what constitutes fantasy. Or something like that.I just get pissy because she ADORES lewd anime figures and tapestries (the more her tits and/or pussy are exposed, the better) but if I even look at something like picrel and express any sort of appreciation for the art, whether subject, composition, or style or whatever... She loses it. She has gotten better, but still expresses an ridiculous level of jealousy, while I'm supposed to remain stone faced and neutral about a loli figure spreading her pussy out on a couch
>>85863223she never will, she's mind broken obsessed with me and has zero self esteem
>>85863243You sound liked an insecure loser that she is leaving and you are desperate to lock the doors
>>85863335nope. she is an insecure loser with no self esteem and I'm an abusive narcissist. I've broken up with her twice already but she begged for me back both times. she could leave whenever but she won't because she worships me
>>85863187How does one get a girlfriend? I feel like I got nothing in common with most women and I can't really read them well
>>85863237You are choosing porn over her. You decided porn means more to you than her. She should leave you and choose someone who actually loves her and chooses her over porn
>>85863565Are you gonna ignore more than half of the content of my post?
Why can't two people be soulmates and only have eyes on each other? I understand engaging in porn because of solitude, but when you promise to be loyal, and you have a living being right next to you... porn and masturbation is then adultery and should be punished with death, or at least genital mutiliation.
>>85863659I agree. Its a simple choice to make. She means the world to me.
>>85863187Dont worry, theres no such thing as a man who doesnt watch porn. He just says that because he thinks it puts you at ease. Btw what kind of porn do you watch fembot?
>>85863346She will leave you at some point and regret everything about you.
>>85863726No true. If asked a actual man easily chooses his gf over porn
>>85863187Would you be accepting of him fucking another girl or a threesome with one?
>>85863659Because it's retarded I used to be like that but a body, body part, faceless, it's just organs and flesh and feeling aroused by it is not an interactive, emotional or intimate gesture. It's just brains finding the shape of a body arousing due to sexuality There are caveats like the guy or woman watching the porn for "variety" or looking for something their spouse doesn't have to compensate, and amount of time spent on it, I think attitude and circumstance matter. Overall porn is bad but I don't think it's because it's indiscernible from cheating
>>85863905well nothing's stopping her. all relationships can end. she's currently enthralled though
A lot of people in relationships, even thriving relationships, still watch porn. Its addictive and offers something that regular sex cant. It's fucked up when youd rather masturbate to it alone then fuck even when your gf/bf is hot. Worse yet it can cause erectile dysfunction and the female equivalent
>>85863187>he loves me a lot and is obsessed with me and talks about how i am the love of his lifehe sounds like a massive fucking loser, sorry I think you should leave him dont ban me
>>85863187he sounds performative or gay
>>85864029Do you think she's with you because of your looks, pp, you give her gifts etc?
>>85864321Kek narc colton lashing out because he was called out for being performative
>>85864372None. i didnt understand until now what a loser he is until recently. Already i was disapointed because he has a really small dick.
>>85864372my looks and our shared kinks help but also she's just a socially stunted shut in virgin(before me) so she's just grown really dependent on me and is still capable of love and pair bonding since she was a virgin and not a roastie whore
>>85863187Wanna chat on discord about hentai and porn and share our favourites and masturbate together?>>85863237You're a human being with free will, if she can't accept your automony and free will then she's got a screw lose and needs to stop being such a controlling freak.Be a good partner, be loyal, but don't be a bitch. You can compromise, be considerate but don't be her bitch. It's her problem, not yours.
>>85864668Literally done with you and talking with someone who actually makes me happy
>>85864671>be a good partner, be loyal>by adding me a random perv from 4chan to discord so we can dm porn back and forth behind your boyfriend's back after he already expressed this is a boundary for himkek this is why you shouldn't trust people
>>85864671He chose Porn over me. He is not worth my effort and time anymore
>>85864693am I supposed to know who you are? are you trying to larp as my gf or something?
>>85864696Read who I replied to.>>85864699It's not one or the other.
>>85864708I did. You replied to the OP who said they have boyfriend and asked her to dm porn back and forth and masturbate together while simultaneously telling someone to be a good partner and be loyal
>>85864716I can't give different advice to different people?
>>85864721when the advice is directly contradicting polar opposites it's called being a hypocrite or double standards
>>85864732Both should keep watching porn. And the girl should do it with me.
>>85864745but only one should be a good and loyal partner, the other should be the opposite because if benefits you. you're the reason why you should never let your gf talk to other guys even as "friends"
>>85864777Of course it benefits me.What are you on about?
>>85864708It is. He chose and now I know my choice
>>85864703The day will be a tuesday and i look forward to you finding out.
>>85864808I'm talking to my gf on mic right now and she doesn't use 4chan so bizarre larp
>>85863187I thought foids liked smut
>>85863187Well? What are your into?
>>85865292>>85863726i like to watch women using sybians/fuck machines, lesbian stuff/yuri, women with big boobs and jav (silk labo)and i do believe he's telling the truth because hes an honest person>>85864140>>85864321nah i think hes a good boyfriend. i do appreciate that he doesnt lust over other women its just that i cant shake off this bad habit of mine>>85863928no
>>85866242You have good taste. Wife material
>>85863187watch with him
>>85863659Does the written word count as porn, or only video?
>>85864668How did you meet? How can I get the same? Please give me advice anon, I would really appreciate it
>>85866242>find literal angel of a guy, a true rarity>describe him as merely a "good boyfriend"women dont know how easy they have it
>>85868125"not lusting over other women" makes a guy an angel?
>>85863187dude wtf is wrong with you im a degenerate pervert who watches a shit ton of porn and even i dont watch porn whenever im in a relationship/in love or even whenever im just in a talking stage, if i have to get off i do it to the thought of the person im with even if we havent done anything sexual yetyoure disgusting and if my partner was like you id throw up, either better yourself for him if you love him or stop wasting his time
>>85868270i would if i could stop, not making any excuses but its an addiction for me. and also i have a weird need to look at porn where i can visually self-insert as another woman whos enjoying herself as strange as that sounds
>>85868340there's no such thing as a porn "addiction", there is such a thing as people who aren't willing to let go of vices and make excuses to make themselves look weak and helpless and unable to do it. you should work on yourself or leave him. you don't sound like you love him or want to work through things and better yourself with him.
