>take a girl out, show her a nice time, she says she wants to meet again>have to specifically request that she not go on dates with any other men>this is unusual and may be considered controlling behavior
>>85862548well just date multiple women too anon
>>85862548i mean it makes sense. no one is gonna be your gf or bf right away.
>>85862548>reddit screencapit's all so tiresome.
>>85862558Then why put in all of the effort for some mercenary whore
/lrn2/ internal locus of control. If you're feeling cucked that she might be dating other men then go date other women. Oh, that doesn't feel comfortable to you so you don't want to do it? Cool, problem solved and you don't actually have to change your behavior at all, but now you don't feel cucked because you've reframed it from "I'm being taken advantage of" to "I have options that I'm choosing not to exercise"
>>85862548Humiliation ritual for someone's used fleshlight.Dropped the whore who did this to me after she confessed her "love" and said I was the "winner" among two other guys I didn't even know about.
>>85862622that's the thing. if you have to put in 'effort' you're just an option and not a choice.
>>85863053aren't you ashamed of being such an unwanted incel?even if she was sleeping with them (that's normal before you settle down), she chose YOU at the end.YOU are the one she chose to be vulnerable with and confessing her love only for it to trampled by an incel fucker.
>>85863147your post is ironic but deserves an honest answer. nobody should have to put with up with soulless HR lady procedures while looking for a partner. women that treat dating as a cynical weed out selection process instead of with intent of finding a life partner only deserve the most CTE addled normgroid thats as safe to be with as a toddler with a pitbull.
>>85863147>at the endThis is the important part.
>>85862784everything you said applies just as well inside a marriage.>>85862558it's not asking much to keep from sucking dick for a week.
>>85862548This is the single biggest reason that society as we know it is declining. It's just normal now to fuck around for years and years, drop people like they mean nothing, and play around with people's feelings. We wonder why we have a loneliness epidemic and the highest suicide rates ever seen in the history of humanity, but the answer is obvious. People NEED relational stability, and that mainly comes from genuine, serious, and monogamous connection. If I say you're disgusting for being in an open relationship or cheating or being in a polycule or whatever, that's not a judgement based on nothing. You hold a fundamentally toxic view of love that degrades the foundation of society, and the very concept of love itself.
>>85862548You dont get it. They want YOU to be exclusive but they want to fuck around too. I took a screenshot this week of a landwhale who was on dating apps demanding for a second boyfriend. She called it "polyamorous on V", meaning SHE gets to fuck two dudes while the dudes only fuck her. She also was ugly and a single mom, which only adds hurt to the wound. My last serious gf from one day to another showed signs of wanting to have a hoe phase and i left her, she spent a month chasing me and apologising after that and begging me to come back but i was smelling the stench of her "wanting an open relationship" but i knew her enough to know she would burst in anger if i fucked someone else. After that, i fucked for a while the gf of a guy i hate and she was balls deep into leaving the dude and literally marrying me. She has a past of cheating and doing drugs and fucking randoms, so when i got bored of fucking her i just dumped her and blocked her on everything. As i said, thats the new normal, you better wake up and adapt. Nothing lasts forever anymore, not even your butter knives. Keep your money for yourself, i know its shitty to accept you wont live a happy life with a happy family, but it is what it is. The devil won.
>>85862548>his rigid thinkingsaid the harpy who absolutely cannot peacefully disagree with anyone about anything.
>>85863925Cheating is not a big deal tho
>>85863147foid - you're a slut.Kill yourself.Today.
>>85864102>Cheating is not a big deal thoThis is b8
>>85862548>this is unusual and may be considered controlling behaviorFuuuck no. These people are just reacting emotionally to OP, who's frustrated to begin with, calling them gross. They're shitflinging. You're free to have whatever standards you want.
When I was a child I enjoyed eating candy. Sometimes I took money from my parents dresser without their permission and I went to the corner store and bought candy. As an adult I look back on that behaviour with some shame but I also have fond memories of buying and eating the candy.
