Does the idea of your wife being in labor turn you on sexually?
>>85861408No. The miracle of life is gross.
>>85861408Yes, but first I'd need a wife. I keep remembering my last ex, dreams of us together and building a future together instead of it crumbling away years ago as she monkeybranched and gave her virginity away in college. Ah, I wish to return to that dream instead of this lonely forsaken reality.
>>85861408Not really sexually but the idea of knocking up my wife and getting a kid from her makes me all warm and mushy inside. I just want a family
Childbirth is a bit like paying tens of thousands of dollars to watch a bunch of people tear apart your house
>>85861408No, I imagine it would be an incredibly scary and intense moment.
>>85861408Not really. It turns me on paternally. Preggo bellies is mix of sexual and paternal. Impregnation is fully sexual.
Yeah, I have a pregnancy fetish.
>>85861417>>85861448>>85861456Do any of you plan to have kids?>>85861431That sucks anon. I hope you find a new love snd get a family>>85861437>>85861574I hope you guys get families too
>>85861600I hope too but it looks bleak. I'm already mid 30s. Recently I found really nice girl but nothing came out of it because differences in 2 important matters were too big.
>>85861600Thanks, anon. I hope you find what you desire, too.
>>85861408Not at all, no. All feelings of wonder that I previously had for women are gone. They're just biomass, a hostile one at that.
>>85861600>Do any of you plan to have kids?Plan? No. Requires two people.
>>85861408Yeah, it's kind of the point of fucking
It freaking does
>>85861408Not anymore. I did it before, but now it just seems like betabuxxing and creating kids with a woman who will just settle for you and will leave you in 8 years max
>>85861408Yes :|But I also feel bad cause labor hurts like shitAlso I don't have a wife or a gf, been wishing I have one and the people my friends set me up with treat me like shit and I end up alone.
>>85861408it's not sexoooo but it turns me on spiritually
>>85861600>Do any of you plan to have kids?It's a choice that I wish I had.
>>85861611What were the 2 matters?>>85861621Brutal>>85861823I think there's something to be said for planning even while single. I can see that there's risk in that emotionally though
>>85862118>I think there's something to be said for planning even while single.Yeah, you'd want to be sure someone had good health insurance and you didn't end up on welfare. Still tho, comes down to it taking two people. Haven't met anyone who was mother material.
>>85861825>>85861843This is great news honestly>>85861896I'm sorry that happened to you anon. Sounds like there's a lot the that story.>>85861977Unfortunately some people judge men for this, but I think it's completely backwards. It's a plus if a guy is into it (not that he's a bad option if he's not).As a woman I would be happy if it my husband liked it
>>85862188>I'm sorry that happened to you anon. Sounds like there's a lot the that story.But nothing happened. I'm just an aspie, and I'm using such privilege to larp on r9k.I did just achieved mediocre social skills now on my 25s. I didn't got anything, and the only thing people pester me about relationships is responsibilities and duties. Basically I worked all my life to gain more work as reward. I think it is too late to be worth it. It doesn't seem convincing and it is a complete 180 from when I was young. Literally:>15-20s- Hahaha have sex>20s-Now - Why don't you have sex and start a family?Now that I'm thinking it didn't changed much kek
>>85861585Sorry I missed this one. This is a green flag and good news.>>85861981I can see that being a potential perspective
>>85861996That sucks, man. I'm sorry.>>85862169Sounds like strict standards. I've met guys that were father material, but it didn't work out for various reasons
>>85863211Wait, what? Are you supposed to be a woman or something? I forgot. By mother material, I mean knowing when to wipe the child's ass and not abusing or neglecting them. You obviously can't judge that accurately because people change after children. However, you would be surprised by the amount people who have no urgency when it comes to wiping their own ass and not abusing themselves.I hope this helps.
>>85861408The process of labor doesn't really turn me on or make me feel anything other than extreme protectiveness since it would be super one sided for me to be aroused by it anyways.I do however FUCKING LOVE pregnant women and when they bend over with their huge asses, swollen milky tits and hanging round bellies, it's fucking over. It's on sight.
>>85862118>What were the 2 matters?She couldn't get comfortable with my sexual past and we had different idea of upbringing children.
>>85862228Oh I see. When you said you did it, I thought you meant you had a kid.>>85863235That doesn't sound like a high bar. I mean I don't think most young women have issues with those things.>>85863651Labor is supposed to be erotic, but modern medicine and bad media strip it of that. Some women still orgasm giving birth though
>>85863678The majority of women aren't gonna orgasm giving birth so I wouldn't try to bet on that if I was with my hypothetical wife or anything.I wouldn't be opposed to teasing and messing with my wife during labor if she hopefully also had a pregnancy/breeding kink but it also wouldn't really be a priority either.
>>85863668Did you call it off or did she? I would think those are things that could be worked through
>>85861437age and location? would you like to friends to lovers with me?
>>85863745She did. She said she has been hurt too many times to not be scared that I'd grow bored and cheat, even though I never did, I was just degen and every time I tried for actual relationship I was putting degen lifestyle on hold. Firstly, because I refuse to be martyr on altair of purity and deny myself intimacy and pleasure everyone else who has better social skills than me gets, secondly because I hate hypocrites and I wouldn't want girl I'm trying to date or dating fuck around behind my back.That was main reason because I saw possible compromises in the other one. I can't change my past though, it was trust issue, trust requires time to build, but how can you develop trust if other person starts to be disgusted with you and simply doesn't want further contact? Trust is simply biological mechanism to filter out people to not get screwed over, it's important part of us and I know how it works.Shame because there were bunch of other things we agreed on and had shared interests. She was a bit too chubby but I could work with her on that as I too need to start exercising to not slide into skinnyfat further.
