how does one even begin to socialize and form connections with people, it seems rather impossible because everyone already knows eachother, the opportunities to get to know new people In real life do not present themselves. oh so im gonna go out to a bar or something, guess what, they're all there with their friends they already knew previously, i cant just hit on them and stuff, and i dont know what to say to them anyway. "nice ass" doesnt really cut it it. if i were to talk to a woman, or asking her about her name or whatever. or saying "whats up" ... what do you say next to get the ball rolling? I'm forever doomed to loneliness
>>85859925Don't worry right now about women you need male friends to begin with otherwise if you do supposedly get a match at a pub or some shit if she finds out you're alone 100% you're kinda fucked depending on how much of a norman the woman is. There's plenty of activities and groups you can join to find them, I even recall dating apps having a 'friends' section instead of hook ups. I'm kinda in the same boat, I'm God's lonely man
>>85859925>find hobby you like>find other people with same hobby>get used to talk to people that way>3-6 months later you have friendsIt is literally that simple, that hard part is finding the hobby after that its smooth sailing.
>>85859925>how does one even begin to socialize and form connections with peopleYou said this, and then you talked about picking up women in bars for sex. Be clear and honest with yourself about what you're actually looking for.
>>85859925OP you cant start with trying to get a gf bro, you need friends first. For women a guy with 0 friends is the ultimate red flag.
>white guy pretending that there isn't dozens of like minded white guys to befriendyou don't suffer
>>85860181Consider this: bitter incels don't find the company of other bitter incels to be enjoyable outside the context of shitposting on this board.
>>85860260shockingly accurate this be
>>85860260Fun facts: shyzos dont enjoy the company of other shyzos. Weird coincidence dont you think?
>>85859925There are always other people looking for friends from book clubs to sex parties. You can find meetups online. If you don't live in a city that makes it harder. You talk about whatever interests you. If nice ass is the only thing that comes to mind, that won't work in most situations. You can learn socializing like you can learn math. This will probably include some heavy introspection and maybe some therapy type stuff
>>85859925Normies don't have to strategize. Their advice is always vague because they don't know how they did it. They don't know how they say hello or how it leads to sex, shit happens. Any advice people give you here will be a way to mask, if you have to think up a game plan for saying hello then you will have to come up with increasingly intricate plans throughout the relationship, it's a lot of effort to stay above water when others can just float on by. I never had the "instinct" either, shit never came natural. I had to mask, I had to anticipate conversations and prepare responses. I tried these canned response plans but they fall apart when something spontaneous happens, normies adapt well to that social spontaneity, they always have some appropriate shit to say, it's like breathing for them. I don't understand it.
