Do real dom mommy women actually exist? Not this pretend dom shit where they secretly like being choked and beaten up by Chads and Niggers behind closed doors. I mean 24/7 non-stop domination.
>>85852730Yes, but they're all findom. Technically all women are, but you get the point.
>>85852730look up the definition for 'exist' and realize you're just subjecting yourself to an undergraduate nerd game
>>85852730yes but they all have bpd
>>85852754You say that like it's a bad thing. BPD foids are angels to some, demons to others
>>85852730Yes but you can't afford it
>>85852730Bro that shit is like shiny pokemon rare.
>>85852746Yeah it depends on what the meaning of the word "is" is.
>>85853269classic victory lapper
>>85852730depends on how you define it, there are women who are selfish and spoiled even during sex i.e dont want to give blowjobs and such and expect men to serve them 24/7
>>85852730>Do real dom mommy women actually exist?no. statistical irrelevancy. any woman claiming to be one is larping or is a troon (and also larping)
>>85852730the answer is no but you can dream about it like the rest of us do
>>85852730Yes but the woman in your pic is a normie OF whore larping as a goth mommy domme to advertise her OF. Same with most famous dominant girls>>85852936Shiny pokemon have like a 1/4000 or 0.025% chance of encounter>>858537814% is still really low I guess I had no idea how lucky I was
>>85853781Best case scenario all dominant women date submissive guys 84% of submissive guys will never find a dominant woman.
Yes. Take a picture of yourself in maid outfit, put it as your pfp on a dating app, watch all the offers to be pegged pile up. The perverts are out there, they just need you to advertise yourself.
>>85852730Women mould themselves to whatever identity gives them the most attention from the type of guys they like. "Dommy mommies" usually attract weak betas, so big surprise, most women don't go for that unless they're doing it for money.
>>85855691Until someone at your work or friend group sees your profile and exposes you getting you fired, or at the very least bullied>>85855695The bdp ones though are genuinely crazy and unironically enjoy it, yandere crazies who will lock you in a dog cage so you can't leave them
>>85852730>Do real dom mommy women actually exist?No. Women find submissive men utterly repulsive.
>>85855794It's illegal to fire you for your sexuality and you would enjoy getting bullied.
They're unicorns. Most women are submissively-oriented in their sexual energy even when they do dom you. That's just submission through domination and they're only doing it because it's the will of the man "submitting." An actual sexually-dominant woman is like one in a hundred, if that, and they're not the trope. It's not even an S&M thing and they might not necessarily even prefer being on-top. They're just geared differently energetically if that makes any sense; the whole "dommy mommy" thing is there to please and serve male lust.
I've only run into one dommy mommy inrl and when I pressed her on it she admitted that basically she only fell into the role because she had a thing for nerdy guys. many of whom are submissive and want her to do the dommy mommy thing. so she learnt how to do it and eventually got into it somewhat but admitted she never really got off on it. i asked her if she wanted to try being submissive and she was open to the idea but admitted she had never been with a guy where she wasn't the dominant one. i have a strong suspicion if i went ahead with it she probably would have gotten off for the first time, and learnt she is actually probably wired just like 99% of other girls.however i didn't pursue her further because i was somewhat concerned she was totally messed up mentally from having done this for years and i myself literally have zero interest in dating a dominant girl. just her describing the stuff she wanted to do to me when we were flirting caused my dick to retract entirely inside my body.
>>85855681I'm one of the lucky few. I'm dating a woman who's naturally dominant. She's super outgoing, assertive, confident, extroverted, full of energy. She genuinely is a different breed of woman and I love and admire her. She's naturally authoritative and commanding and it helps her at work in her leadership position. She doesn't compromise either with me. We both know that she wears the pants in the relationship. The sex is incredible too. Her job can be stressful so after work sometimes she likes releasing the tension by pegging me. She told me putting me in my place helps her feel powerful and controlling which she loves. Or she rides my face and orders me to make her cum. I'm submissive so it makes me whimper and moan and makes me super desperate. I'm never letting her go if I can help it.
>>85852730they don't even exist in porn save a handful of anomalies
>>85856295>just her describing the stuff she wanted to do to me when we were flirting caused my dick to retract entirely inside my body.What did she want to do anon?
>>85856532She wanted to make his dick retract into his body so she could peg the hole
>>85856532I literally forgot because it made me nauseous. It wasn't even something physical like pegging, it was just like wanting to bully me and put me in my place or whatever. Like I said instant RIP status to my boner.
>>85856572I'm not describing it properly either. She had obviously done it to A LOT of shy submissive nerdy guys and they had obviously coached her a SHIT TON on what they wanted. It was weirdly menacing. The experience made me think this is probably how girls feel when some random guy they're not into starts hitting on them. That's what it felt like even though she was hot. I was just like get me out of here. I did genuinely think about trying to go through with it and uno reverse her but I've actually done some BDSM / Dom stuff in the past and it's a fucking lot of work. Like it almost takes away from the hotness cause it requires so much planning and prep. It's like DMing a mfing tabletop RPG. And that's WITH a willing partner that wants to be submissive. This girl was like I'm open to try but I've never been submissive before and I was just like this is way too much work to get laid with like 50% chance I end up with a psychopath who's going to drug and butt rape me.
>>85852730It's probably like one of those "if you have to ask, you can't afford it" situations.
super rare but you can convince a chick that isnt into it to still do dominent roleplay and if they like you enough they will start adopting dominement behavior when their honry and want to get you in the mood. When my ex found out how much I liked worshipping her feet especially when they were sweaty and smelt the strongest she would randomy put her feet in my face, asking if I could smell them after taking off her shoes in the carand asking me if I 'wanted them'. It was so hot. She couldnt bring herself to do face sitting (well a couple of times she but I guess it felt too unsexy for her) or talk about her asshole in the same way but once I convinced her to let me rim her it became a staple of our foreplay and she said it felt really good and that her friends agreed that having a bf that refused to do it would be disapoitning after experiencing it.
>>85852730Yeah, I used to live with the one that used to post here. I would say she has a mental illness that works in her favor.
>>85853781The brutal truth for sub guys is that it's even worse than this chart suggests. Most women don't just prefer being submissive, they find the idea of being dominant to be an active turn-off or even emotionally upsetting. Your best shot is bisexual women, they tend to be higher T, hornier, and generally more male-brained about sex stuff. Still, it's quite a rare trait.
>>85856450How did you meet her? And what if she keeps making decisions on what to do that you hate, I hope she at lets you tell her what you'd like before she makes a decision on it. You sound like you made it anon.Also it's a big difference between a girl you have to convince to do things compared to someone who actually gets excited about being dominant, its a totally different feeling when she's kinkier than you.
>>85852730I'm into the dommy mommy dynamic but I'm also into being beaten and choked by daddy. So, a switch.
>>85856784>Your best shot is bisexual womenCan confirm. Gf is bi and she's slightly dominant. Not a "domme", but she definitely enjoys blurring the lines between gender roles.
>>85852730>here's your (((goth))) mommy anon
>>85857821>>85852730God I hate pornstars
>>85856784>>85857797A woman's idea of "domme" is a dominant guy who tells her to get on top occasionally, not a full on sub
>>85856880At the gym. She's very muscular too. She also has a masculine face with sharp features but in such a hot way. I just noticed her from her energy and picked up on her heavily dominant vibes. She's super motivated. There are just certain things you can pick up on and I noticed she is much different than most women. She probably picked up on my more submissive vibes, and general attractiveness but that's another thing. I actually should ask her because I don't think I have yet.>And what if she keeps making decisions on what to do that you hateWith general decisions, it's more like we talk it out, both provide input.>You sound like you made it anon.Yup. She is special. I want give her a lot of kids so we can have more dominant women in the world like her.>Also it's a big difference between a girl you have to convince to do things compared to someone who actually gets excited about being dominant, its a totally different feeling when she's kinkier than you.Yeah. She couldn't imagine it any other way. That's just a natural part of her personality.
>>85855545>1/4000That's my point. You could meet 400 women and still not come close to finding a dommy mommy because how rare that shit is
>>85858337>I want give her a lot of kids so we can have more dominant women in the world like her.That's the dream. Honestly I wouldn't mind a matriarchy. Fetishes aside, I think letting women rule would be nice for a change.
>>85852730The ones that actually know how to be dominant and arent just doing a shitty job at larping have so many men lined up that youll never talk to them unless you shell out tens of thousands of dollars.I hate findom so much for what it does to BDSM
I don't understand the problem people here seem to have with performative dommes. If she sits on my face and pegs my bussy, why would I be upset if she is a sub who is doing it to make me happy?
>>85859142She's special. I've never met a woman like her before. She is amazing. I lament that there aren't more women like her.>Honestly I wouldn't mind a matriarchy. Fetishes aside, I think letting women rule would be nice for a changeIt would be nice having the burden of power be relinquished. Especially by hot bad bitches that know how to be dominant in a productive and non-toxic way.
>>85859361I don't have a problem with women who do it for a profession if they're actually good at it, but most women just watched the 50 Shades of Grey movies and think owning a pair of fuzzy handcuffs and a shitty $8 paddle makes them a dominatrixThey're just not really into it but pretend to be.
>>85860136Okay so she would just need more practice? It's like complaining about a virgin guy not being good at fucking.
>>85852730>Do real dom mommy women actually exist?Probably Find an actual BDSM club>>85857821>>85858021I hate her cause she spits on food and associates with Drake. I fucking hate Drake's music.
I enjoy doing soft mommy dommy stuff and I think I'm mostly submissive, almost certain I'm not a switch. It's because I view it as submitting to my partner's desire for me to act that way. I can't insult him or inflict pain on him, but I can take control and be caring and motherly. I still don't think I'm dominant or it goes against my nature/desire to submit. I think the key is knowing that domming is submitting to your sub's desire. So it makes sense for me to let my Dom rest a little while I take care of him.
>>85860007I feel the same way and I hate the expectation that men can't show a moment of weakness and must lead everything so in theory I'd love a dommy mommy society. But the thing is we kind of have matriarchy already but we got the super lame version where the women who are incompetent and don't take accountability, get pushed up into positions of authority, fuck something up then then get a pat on the back for it like most video game writers at big studios are women and the AAA games they produce are pretty miserable like the new gears of war, dragon age veilguard, etc.
>>85852768>BPD foids are angels to someyeah only incredibly naive people who have never had their life ruined by themit stops being cute when they are calling the police on you and lying saying you hit them
>>85856295>just her describing the stuff she wanted to do to me when we were flirting caused my dick to retract entirely inside my body.That's what she wants to happen. She will be the one who initiates to spend time together or fly to your place and go from there.
goth girls arent dommes
>>85852730Hm I was cursed with being like a 100% sub, but I was never into mommy-type stuff. Maybe it's because I have a good relationship with my parents so it's creepy or maybe I just don't like being taken care of and coddled in that way. If anything I'd prefer to be the one taking care of my partner like cooking for her and such.Similarly, I was also never into those bdsm latex bitch dommes. I met a few in online communities and they always seem to have made a whole personality of it and are just super annoying in general.I just want a gf who is assertive and posessive and enjoys being the one in control, teasing etc. Not that she likes larping in latex or playing a mommy. Like imagine someone who will pin you against the wall when you both come home from work because she missed you all day and kiss you with some teeth then tell you to go start with dinner while she relaxs. Then while you are cooking, she would sneak from behind and poke you or play with you for a bit for her own amusement before helping you finish it. Then later you eat while talking about your days and later cuddle in front of TV. And then before sleep you have some kinky times in bed where she goes slightly feral and bites you all over to mark you as hers before riding your face. Basically something intense, spontaneous, and fun. Not "kneel now, slave, and kiss my boot. Now I will spank you 10 times" and shit like that.
>>85852730The meme "please step on me mommy" type is exceedingly rare. However, there are probably a decent number of women who wouldn't mind taking control at least once in a while. The most obvious example that comes to mind are cougars who like to go after less experienced young men.The blackpill that all submissive guys have to accept is that the vast majority of heterosexual women are naturally submissive. Women are a lot less variable than men when it comes to personality traits, and that extends to sexual preferences.
>>85862946You need a repressed ftm. If she asks you if you are more submissive than dominant then stay the truth and say yes
>>85860007>that know how to be dominant in a productive and non-toxic way.Yeah, honestly lately I've grown so tired if the good ol' toxic competitive masculine rhetoric. As dumb as it sounds I'm kinda growing to resent traditional masculinity, it permeates so much of our lives, turning everything into a fight. Sometimes I think that women would have a better chance at running a society that achieves a better life for everyone, instead of everyone competing for a slightly better position than their neighbour. I think that my leaning more and more into submissive fetishes is a bit related to this resentment, like for a moment I don't just ignore the societal pressure to be masculine in THAT way, I actually go completely against it. It's pretty nice.
Kys muhmmy faggots.
>>85861391>Probably>Find an actual BDSM clubGoing to those as a single guy is a waste of time and money
