>>85847734
Why, /r9k/ of course

>>85847734
I'm fairly similar just more dominant in bed (still love giving head). Look in intellectual spaces. If you're university age that's the perfect place.

>>85847743
theres degenerate porn on here, fuck no

>>85847763
>Look in intellectual spaces. If you're university age that's the perfect place.
thats an interesting opinion, you might be right

>>85847734
Do you like east asian guys, they like to eat women out

>>85847792
I'm East Asian and I would never eat a woman out

>>85847792
my ex was ethnically eastern european, idk

>>85847822
So you were a euro fembot and your parents forced you to live in burgerland

>>85847734
Do you want to be treated like a princess

>>85847868
well, i mean i guess? isnt that kind of how he treated me?
>>85847840
youre spot-on. im willing to move back to europe in the near future though

>>85847881
do you like anything about burgerland, were you from europoor or eurorich country, do you like vidya?

>>85847890
people are friendlier in america, i love the natural parks and honestly its just beautiful and clean
from an eurorich country
and yeah, id even say i have an addiction to games desu. its awful and getting in the way of my studies

>>85847917
what vidyas do you like, do you like your field of studies, do you have burger citizenship

>>85847923
im a citizen, in dentistry and i mostly play jrpgs and yea why are you asking so many questions !!

>>85847933
would you ever talk to a guy on discord about jrpgs, do u like persona or ff

I would think it's pretty common. Isn't the number one complaint women have about men is that they are kind? You can cheat on her, beat her, be short, ugly, steal from her/her family, even rape her kids and all is forgiven. But hold the door open, tell her she looks pretty, or be needy(just want a fucking hug sometimes) and she looks at you the way she should look at the men she's attracted to. It's easy enough to fake for a little bit but eventually you slip up and accidentally kiss her forehead instead of choke her, or you're too tired and spoon her instead of assrape her without lube and she connects all the dots and like a fuse burning out she, gets the ick and all attraction, I love yous, and promises made instantly evaporate. She cheats and invents some reason to blame you for it. Paradoxically she hates you even more because it's hard to justify dumping you so she has to twist buying her stuff into financial manipulation or say you neglect her for legos or whatever when she shoots down every suggestion of going to the zoo, lake, winery tasting room, and even purposely stays up late on the couch when normally the routine was going to bed about the same time.
I guess look for subtle indicators that he's a, good man. Extensive arrest records, gang tattoos, sired multiple children with multiple women, drug abuse, unemployed but somehow always has money and a place to sleep. Watch how he handles anger or frustration too, yelling or throwing things is a greenflag. He should remind you of your father. If it doesn't work this time just keep doing the same thing with different men, tenth times the charm they say.

>we break up bc my family moves overseas
possible it's true but my foid senses are tingling

>>85847917
why have you not found any men in uni

>>85847942
im more into smt, but i love the persona games too. a bit wary of guys here, i hope youll understand... i have a strict filtering system and i still see crimes against animals, children and women every time i come on here
>>85847978
ive mostly been isolating myself and talking to other girls. and honestly i dont think its easy to come across men who are my type/like my ex

>>85847992
do u have a favorite persona game? do you have a favorite male and female social link?

>>85847822
eastern euro and east asian men are the only two ethnicities of men capable of this, the rest of men are either too busy hating women, marrying children or too arrogant

>>85847734
Why would a high quality guy like that want to date a used goods whore who's still hung up on her high school ex

>>85848009
i like the 3rd and 5th game i suppose. and my fave character is makoto. what about you?
>>85848053
ask my ex bc hes dating a woman 4 years older than him and told me he didnt have a virgin preference when we were together and didnt care i was one lol
>hung up
we all have types dont we?

>>85848074
i liked ann and ryuji, i reallu like p5 but been meaning to play p3 remaster, i thought the plot and themes of p5 were interesting when kasumi doesnt join the phantom thieves, how ppl need to solve their own problems and such

>>85848093
oh wow, most guys hate ann dont they :0 what do you like about her? ryuji is really silly and funny, i liked him too. i actually havent played royal yet, i played the original game when it first came out. is royal worth checking out?

>>85848115
idk i just liked the original trio a lot, but all the characters are great, royal basically adds another semester or chapter in the end game to the school year and has another storyline "bad guy" to defeat, its good if u want more from p5, can always wait for a steam sale to get it, do you have a favorite p3 character, what do you like about mokoto, do you have a "literally me" character in the persona franchise

>>85848150
ill definitely check it out someday then! im thinking of replaying silent hill 3 this week. i find makoto kind of autistic in a cute and naive way. shes very intelligent, stern, disciplined and hard on herself but completely naive when it comes to fitting in with her peers on a more personal level and is awkward. id say im a combo of haru and futaba, but i wish i was more makoto. do you have a character you relate to?

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>>85848203
yes, the fool tarot is literally me, in what ways are you like haru, do you have floofy hair or inheriting your fathers company

>>85847734
They're everywhere, but here's the thing: you're in love with a memory, but the modern reality now that you're older is that adult men who still act like that are betas that you simply aren't attracted to and don't even register as potential mates.

>>85847792
I slept with 4 japanese girls and 2 chinese girls on my recent trip over there, and for all 6 of them I was the first guy who had ever eaten them out. Like they tried to stop me at first because they didn't understand what I was doing. It's very uncommon in east asia. Honestly they're weird as hell over there about actually having sex irl despite being such a horny and degenerate-minded people, e.g. half the girls I was with kept trying to lick my nipples and expecting it to be some kind of erogenous zone that would make me cum. No idea what that was about.

>>85848229
id say im like haru because i come across as very feminine, gentle and timid. i also love plants. but im also a thrill seeker bc i enjoy things like skydiving or rollercoasters. and yeah i have a rich father too lmfao, but he only got rich recently. before that like in my teen years i was lower middle class
why are you like the fool tarot?

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>>85848279
i have messed up my life in errepairable ways and i am on a path of doom

>I want men to serve me!!!
>ME MEME !!!!!!!
Women are truly just narcissists. Anyway kill yourself cunt. All cucks will be killed as well, and you belong as property of a man.

>>85848302
how so? do you have specific examples of how youve ruined your life?
>>85848278
>is that adult men who still act like that are betas that you simply aren't attracted to and don't even register as potential mates.
i mean you wont believe me, but i wouldnt think that way, not at all. id be even more appreciative of those traits now because i know how rare they are and i know what i want. obv as a 16 yo or 18 yo i knew my ex was amazing and made me incredibly happy but i had no idea his personality was THAT rare. and i dont just mean "he was nice", he NEVER made mistakes. hes never been hypocritical, misogynistic, entitled, uncaring, unempethatic or really anything but the most devoted, loytal, passionate and fair boyfriend. i remember i once woke up crying bc of period pains and he ran outside at 2 am to buy me painkillers

>>85848013
>eastern euro and east asian men are the only two ethnicities of men capable of this
how does an american woman obtain an eastern euro bf? asking for a friend

>>85848336
>Anyway kill yourself cunt
why should i? my life is kind of amazing, im happy n doing well lol

>>85848329
i basically have a yusuke lvl of income and job prospects, so none and none, are you worried about dentistry job satisfaction, theres some concerning stats on their outcomes of mental health

>>85847765
you're on here dumb bitch

>>85848346
move to eastern europe, retard.

>>85848353
do you have a degree? you should invest in your education, you can turn your life around anon
>theres some concerning stats on their outcomes of mental health
it has crossed my mind but im fairly optimistic. worst case scenario i could just do something with my compsci undergrad degree or take over my dads business if my brother doesnt beat me to it

You likely wont find pure innocent golden retriever again. You're older, there's less of a chance just due to that like expecting girls to be virgins the older you get. Not that its impossible but the odds get worse every year

You could try poaching an autist from medical school. My aunt did that and married a virgin dude like 15yrs younger than her but while he's innocent in a million different ways (like almost getting scammed by some of the dumbest scam calls ever), he's also probably going to have developmental lapses (if not straight up disabilities) that will make it so he's not like your ex

You will likely never have that relationship ever again. Mourn the loss of what you had but remember how he treated you and made you feel because it sounds like that was a healthy relationship. If you focus too hard on recapturing a lost ex in another person, you may end up throwing away loving relationships you may have with another person because they dont match the specific mold

Another thing to consider is that even if you got back together with that ex, you would likely be disappointed because of how he changed over the years. You are likely still swooning over a memory of who he was and its likely not who he is today which is why I say to mourn what you had but use parts of those memories to inform yourself on what being loved feels like

>>85848336
They're just lying. She wants oral because if he thinks it's gross or not worth the trouble that's hot. If he does it or worse, actually wants to then it's creepy and he gets labeled as a niceguy. Generally women want the exact opposite of what they say, it's a test to filter the men stupid enough to listen to them. We're just going to die alone because we have an unconscious compulsion to be honest and believe what people say the same way women have an unconscious compulsion to lie and never believe anything a person says. It's kind of sad and I feel bad for myself about it.

>>85848338
Expecting a man to never make mistakes is an impossible metric that even your ex would have one day failed to meet. Everyone makes mistakes, no one is perfect

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>>85848384
no it did not work out for me and it seems even less worth it with this current job climate

>>85848406
why didnt it work out? was it because of mental health issues?
>>85848394
i knew him for 3 years and his mistakes were all minor stuff... like when we went to japan hed carry drinks around even when i told him it was risky and on the subway he actually managed to spill it all onto the floor. i guess theres some level of nuance here, even if trying to reach a 100% perfection is "impossible" he sure came exremely close to it

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>>85848459
i had a sudden realization it was all pointless when i never learn anything from classes or internship and get yelled on the job and than dropped out, now with ai and market crash coming soon there will be even more of a hiring freeze, the only jobs left for moids are warfodder military or suicide, for me im trying to be yusuke but with online art or i just kms

>>85848379
no sane person wants to move to eastern europe
need eastern euro mail order husband

>>85848386
this was quite insightful and filled with a lot of wisdom.
>Another thing to consider is that even if you got back together with that ex, you would likely be disappointed because of how he changed over the years. You are likely still swooning over a memory of who he was and its likely not who he is today which is why I say to mourn what you had but use parts of those memories to inform yourself on what being loved feels like
my friends tell me the same, what makes you feel like this would be the case? i feel like im very similar to how i was a teenager except ive worked on refucing a lot of my flaws

>You will likely never have that relationship ever again. Mourn the loss of what you had
im having a hard time coping with this because i still love him very intensely and i dream of him every night. im scared hes the love of my life lol

>>85848386
>it sounds like that was a healthy relationship.
Having your narcissist ego tickled while using another person for everything due to their innocence is a healthy relationship to you?

Feminists are fucked in the head. You just want a servant lol That's not a healthy relationships. It's effectively slavery you piece of shit. Kill yourself you piece of shit

>>85848500
im guessing you were in tech? i had the same realization (regarding AI) which is why im pivoting to dentistry, maybe you can do something similar? learn a skill that isnt as easily replaceable by AI
>i never learn anything
im sure you would through consistent practice

Feminist idea of a healthy perfect relationship is just a man slaving away for them.
Men just want a girlfriend that treats him like a human being.

Let that sink in, never be a cuck, never be this guy.
Total foid death.

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>>85848558
>>i never learn anything
as in the courses felt like legit scams, prof was 15-40 mins late to their lecture, slides from 1999, doing binary math by hand..meanwhile whitepapers on ai were out, if i am still incomeless in a year can you help me get a job or can i be your live in boymaid or something

>>85848555
the whole point is that i want a selfless and devoted bf whom i can love and be romantic and cute with. he enjoyed doing stuff for other people, he was extremely happy like a literal bundle of joy so clearly he didnt hate it lol
when i stalk him on social media i see that hes giving his new gf flowers, he has a pfp of them together, theyve been together for a longg time. its just his way of showing love

>>85848614
Hahaha holy shit, he will get cucked so hard. I feel sorry for naive guys like this. Just a matter of time.

BTW. Every guy is like this in a first relationship because they didn't get enough experience to see what women are yet.

>>85848624
if he gets cucked ill be here for him </3 im extremely obsessed with him, honestly id die for him. i would never cheat... though i know he does have a backbone, so the fact hes been wit his current gf for half a decade means that she most likely hasnt betrayed him

>>85848587
ahah i already have maids, they come every 2 weeks fkghjdf but you really should just look for niche fields that AI cant do well yet and that arent extremely competitive

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>>85848779
but can they provide loyal love and eat you out whenever you want

Men ask for this every day and they're told they're misogynistic. Welcome to our life nona, innocence is dead...

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my turn
>get first bf in highschool
>don't know him well, but sure
>cute in an anxious way
>think i'll feel it out for a couple dates
>and also practice having dates
>he's pretty funny, have good time
>always seems super tense
>end of second date, walking out of taco bell
>he pushes me against the wall, grabs my boob hard
>i'm kinda like, okay, whatever, this is happening
>grab his balls
>he gets pissed and yells at me
>mfw me being into it ruined it for him
>mfw if i hadn't been ok with it he would have raped me
>never talks to me again

>>85849021
hey, you dodged a bullet nona. that guy was going to rape you, what a retard. you sound cool and you should enjoy seggz

>>85849058
yeah, no kidding. never kissed me so i still have that at least. had zero luck with men since then but i'm planning to lose my virginity next summer and hopefully it'll be really fun if everything goes right.

>get vague interest from women here and there after a de-autism glow up in high school
>never go for any of them because im retarded and just want to play video games with the boys
>enter my mid 20s with zero experience
>start e-dating this girl because i was nice to her once when she was being abused and shes convinced that means im her soulmate
>she wants to sext and shit but i just want to do sweet nothings and pretend cuddle
>she had regular mental breakdowns that i try to talk her through but it weighs on me heavily
>shes high and in other guys' dms constantly, both e-cheats and irl-cheats multiple times
>keep getting reeled back in because she claims she needs me
>finally cut it off for good after half a decade of sleepless nights
>going into my 30s as a wizard who still just wants to cuddle, but now with trust issues
>at the point of making my first dating profile with some desperate plea for pathetically simple love that is completely unnatural of my age bracket
its probably already too late.

>>85847734
>Not a virgin
>I want an innocent guy
You have no right to drag a man into your game of trying to replace your first bf.

>>85849077
just find someone youre compatible with <3
>>85849096
again, my ex went on to date a woman older than us who most likely wasnt a virgin + he told me he doesnt care abt virginity as long as a woman doesnt sleep with men outside of a commited relationship. idk, id prefer to be with a guy who doesnt care that much since that might unironically be a green flag. not really looking for a right-leaning man

>>85849021
I don't know about that. I've performatively honked boobs aggressively before and it's kind of offputting when she goes straight for the balls. You already make us have to play the villain, at least stick to the script and place a hand on the chest since that's the most obvious equivalent to a honk. Smell his neck or turn away from a kiss so he bites your ear or something. It's not fun when things escalate too fast. He wasn't going to rape you, grabbing his genitals was as good as consent there. Men need foreplay too but you just made it feel gross.

>>85849110
Your ex isn't a virgin numpty.
>doesn't care about virginity
He took yours, it wasn't something he had to think about. He could be performative about it.
>id prefer to be with a guy who doesnt care that much since
Doesn't matter what you prefer, you gave it up to guy you're no longer with. He has that image of you forever, you other hand are alone trying to find another man to soothe your loneliness and replace him.
>right-leaning man
This crosses political ideology

>>85849137
> He could be performative about it.
so why would he go on to date a woman 4 years older than us, someone who isnt a virgin? he rlly didnt care lol
>soothe your loneliness
not really lonely, i have great family and friends

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>>85849151
>he rlly didnt care
He has yours, he's had the validation and experience. You don't even see it, he got his and he's happy about that. Happy enough to accept being with someone older. Not the same for you tho is it? You're still hung up on him, because you let him inside you. Him on the other hand is happy and jolly fucking other women, you were always just another way for him to bolster his ego and validation. You gave it to him like the naive sop you are.
>not really lonely, i have great family and friends
>Posting on /r9k/
Alright bitch

>>85849110
if i find someone like that before next summer, sure, but i can't spend my whole life waiting.

>>85849122
i kept it brief to greentext, but no dude, he squealed and stomped his feet and went red in the face and told me i was an ugly butch whore and i ruined it for him and he thought i would be perfect because i was quiet and i didn't have friends and i should have been scared of him and i ruined it, i ruined everything, he hates me, he hates me, and then he kicked someone's car and ran down the street. plus i was like, fifteen. cut me some slack.

>>85849165
>you let him inside you

>>85849165
we had oral sex and i gave him handjobs, never piv though because i have vaginismus and it wouldnt fit. but oral sex is still sex so i consider myself a non-virgin

>>85849172
That changes things, why the fuck are you posting here? As for finding another boy like that, it's luck of the draw. Most men just want to get their dick wets and conquer a woman, take what innocence they can.
> non-virgin
You're a virgin

>>85849168
how old was this retard??
>>85849184
i sucked his dick and im still considered a virgin? what lol

>>85849188
idk, the grade above me, so a year or two.

>>85849086
Autists either seem to get nothing or draw abuse women like moths to a lamp made out of crack. They claim to want sweet and gentle but they always do the most fucked up shit because le flashback or trauma or felt trapped or revenge for some shit a man who is the polar opposite of you did.
It fucking sucks, they treat you like shit while desperately clinging to some made up victim narrative when she's the only reason she's a victim in the first place. They just want a punching bag while licking their wounds before going out looking to cheat with someone who gives them the beatings, rapes, and drugs they actually want. I think deep down abused women are far more sadistic than the monsters they claim keep abusing them. She will go on an hour long monolog complimenting you for being safe, loving, a giant teddy bear, enormous faggot with no spine, toothless queer, pussy, retard, naive, safe, easy, safe, nondemanding, non-threatening, the whole time talking shit and making fun of you to your face knowing damn well she doesn't appreciate any of that shit other than you come change a tire or buy her delivery when she's too fucking lazy to even make a cup ramen for herself. But she's doing you the biggest favor in the world starfishing then being the little spoon after spending an hour licking her filthy cunt. She never hugs you on her own, won't tousle your hair or even give a kiss on the cheek unless you initiate and basically make her do it. They just want to take and take and take leaving you confused, starving, and questioning only to cry wups baby I fucked up again and cheated again did another gangbang and he didn't even buy me a mansion or pony afterwards please soothe my ego and tell me I'm pretty again.

>>85849195
he sounds like BPDemon, thats textbook bippie behavior. what a psycho and you can tell hes porn addicted too. theres no hope for him

>>85849188
Yeah you're a virgin. Virginity is that first experience of a cock going inside your vagina, once that happens it's gone. And no, men aren't virgins ever. Virginity is physical and emotional experience solely for women, and is important moment of pair bonding for them.

>>85849204
yeah something like that. some kinda manic shit. he was really unhinged the next year. i'm lucky i'm type C.

>>85849200
as bad as she was the one thing she didnt do (or at least didnt do more than once or twice) was actively berate me. shed usually start attacking herself which was arguably worse.
i dont really like thinking about that stuff though. i really just want everything to be simple.

>>85849213
huh... never thought of it that way. well im still hung up on him regardless but thats more because of his character and the way he treated me

>>85849168
Idk, that sounds kind of weird. I can't imagine myself doing all that so maybe he's not like me after all. It doesn't make much sense based on my limited experience. I just want lovey dovey shit. My natural tendency is to be creepy virgin energy, I get boner from flirting and she touches her shoe to mine. Thinly veiled "just a hug" and I will double down and bend down to sniff her armpit. I just want to be a pervert and slowly escalate until we make whoopy. Hump her leg and let her kind of lead. I absolutely resent the fuck out of having to push against a wall, hand under chin so she doesn't escape kiss, or choke during sex. But the alternative is dying alone. At least if I hit her sometimes she might let it slide when I run my fingers through her hair or tell her she's pretty. Balancing act.
If you really didn't want to get raped then how did you want it to go down? I probably have shit taste in women and am to blame for the kind of women I attract to some degree. But it's hard to believe the type of dynamics I crave actually exists. Real life is nothing like anime where two people can just like each other and be kind. It's always got to be some fucked up mind game.

>>85849258
okay well i can't unpack ALL of that for you, but like, professional life advice, next time someone describes another person as a rapist, maybe try to not let your first instinct be to identify and sympathize with that guy. bad moves.

i didn't really know how i wanted it to go down. i have a better idea now but at the time i just felt like okay this is the part where i guess i have sex behind the taco bell. i can live with that.

>>85847992
>i have a strict filtering system and i still see crimes against animals, children and women every time i come on here

goodness gracious, fucking DIE, roastbag. women with their concern trolling and tone policing are so fucking obnoxious. suck start a shotgun but take the faggots simping for you and trying to slide into your contacts with you first.

>>85848536
eastern europe is better maintained and more civilised than absolutely anywhere in the united states of fat mongrel retards, and i say this as a western european who has no reason to cape for or defend those people with their gobbledygook languages and stupid accents. you are another retarded whore roastie with stupid opinions who should stop visiting our quaint little board.

>>85849295
>i dont like seeing animal abuse
>NOOOOOOOOOOO I DONT LIKE BEING CRITICIZED
jump off a balcony and livestream it faggot

>>85849275
Rape and rapist has become so diluted it doesn't even mean anything any more, you can't really blame anyone for that. Words change meaning, kind of like how incel now means the same thing as misogynist fuccboi used to even though that's the exact opposite of incel.
Hopefully when you do pop your cherry it's in the back of a tahoe. Or next to a dumpster behind a classier joint like McDonald's and not a fucking taco bell. At least the women I raped I had the decency to get a nice hotel room for after I drove from one side of the country to the other so they didn't have to go to the trouble of thinking or wanting to put more effort in than driving fifteen minutes vs my 12 hours behind the wheel. Even took her to a fancy steakhouse with a dresscode.
Dating is fucked. Wish we had arranged marriages or something.

>>85847734
kys and find one in the next life, when you're not a filthy non-virgin

>>85849379
according to another anon >>85849213 im still a virgin desu. not killing myself when i LOVE life!
>>85849358
>At least the women I raped
you need to get institutionalized

>>85849391
He's just messing with you, you're a used up hole with a counterfeit seal of authenticity.

>>85847734
Have sex with his new girlfriend and post it here because I want to watch lesbians going at it

>>85847734
In me im kind like that

>>85849436
im okay being a non-virgin too cuz my ex didnt care either way, and is now in a long term relationship with someone who wasnt virgin to begin with

>>85849077
how do you plan that, are your friends gunna set you up with someone

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>>85847734
I think he is the one, you lost him and once that ship has sailed you'll never get it back. You might find another guy who treats you right, but you will always subconsciously compare him against your old bf, and even if he is flawless and you marry him for many years and have his children, there will always be a voice in the deep recess of your mind until the day you die asking you if you could have had a better life if you stayed with your old bf

>>85849391
Fuck off. She was more than happy to have been made a woman behind a taco bell after he splurged and spent $3.48 on a beefy five layer burrito, nachos grande , and medium baja blast for her. Not exactly a fucking princess.
I'm an autistic retard piece of shit but at least I buy flowers and chocolates then write cheesy ass poems until they lose interest and fuck some broke piece of shit with one of those hats with the flat bills and beg for forgiveness knowing full well they're jumping on the next cock of anyone who catcalls "ayy girl you shit with dat thing ooga booga that ass doe" .

>>85847734
You dont deserve such a virgin moid. Whore

>He's now obsessed with some old roast
Subhuman, performative, ooofy doofy cuck. Hope the whore cheats on him.
And you don't deserve a loving relationship with another man after being used up by your first. The best you can hope for is some cuck who "doesn't care" settling for you because you're the most readily available option like 90% of modern relationships.

You had a one in a billion golden ticket, wiped your ass with it and threw it away. How does that feel? Genuinely asking because I never got such a thing. I don't think I'd have let it go to waste so easily. Did you think you could just replace it later?

>>85849305
gonna keep posting on this board and taking the virginities of cute sad lonely khhv robots I meet from here just like I have for the past 10+ years
your catty homosexual whinging isn't going to change a single thing

>>85849877
>10+ years of being a filthy whore
You are the worthless participation badge of dating , the whore desperate men settle for when they've given up on ever finding someone who has value.
You're not taking anything, you're a communal fleshlight for those who have no standards whatsoever.

>>85850012
try not to pop a blood vessel there lil fella, I'll continue to keep having fun fooling around with cute virgin men plus I'll make plenty of posts about my sexual escapades on this very board for your enjoyment

>>85848536
>need eastern euro mail order husband
best i can do is listen to me jerk off in vc if you want

>>85849777
the decision to break up was mutual lol

>>85849534
if i find a guy whos is flawless and similar to my ex, and im just as happy with him... i wouldnt honestly. thats kind of redundant. dont think my old bf is going around and wondering if his life would have been better if he stayed with his first gf

>>85849358
yikes. literally nothing you said is true. including the shit about mcdonalds. taco bell is better than mcdonalds. at least taco bell is still itself and not trying to be starbucks.

>>85849493
i'm going to go to a rennaisance fair and do it all in character with someone dressed up as a knight. the thin veil of fiction will give me unearned confidence. then it will be a fun story i can tell my grandchildren instead of something lame or regrettable.

>>85848555
I think her recollection is still warped by intense feelings of love because the relationship was good. I felt the same way with an ex and it took years for the spell to be broken and to see her flaws

>>85848541
You're likely very different too except those changes are accumulated slowly and you get to slowly change with them to the point you dont realize your edges were rounded off. You only notice a river carving a path if you leave and come back a decade later, not if you're watching it every day

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>>85847734
So, uh, what exactly do you bring to the table, femanon?

>>85851608
She's going to be a career woman. She's not very intelligent. She's not a virgin. She has very high expectations for a man and will constantly be comparing everyone to her ex. So basically she's the average modern woman, who will find someone to date and marry her without issues. It doesn't really matter what a woman brings to the table anymore, men are pathetic cucks desperate for scraps.

>>85847734
Its not easy sister, most men are too pornbrained to care about womens orgasms. Hopefully you will meet another guy or maybe lezz out since butches are pretty romantic

>>85847765
then why have you come here? Go on reddit.

>>85847734
how about you fuck off with your relationship nonsense someplace else?

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>>85847734
>years later he gets another girlfriend, shes older than us and hes still with her
Sorry to say but this all but confirms for me that what you had here was a genuine submissive boyfriend. A rare breed. To find another one like him you're gonna have to sift through hundreds of selfish """submissive""" losers in kink spaces to find another one like him. Happy hunting!

>>85851731
What makes you say she isn't intelligent?

>>85851796
The way she writes. I didn't even say it in a misogynistic way, believe it or not. I've met women who write in a way where I can tell they're intelligent on this board. She types like a fucking retard. It's hard to explain. Let me try:
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>>85848541
It's this type of writing style without punctuation and where every single sentence is focused on herself that in my experience are signs of low intelligence. Just count how many times she is the subject of each sentence. Every single post she is talking about herself. The entirety of her posting history in this thread is just about herself or how the things around her relate to her. Such people are generally retarded.

My second point is that she types too feminine (avoiding capitalisation, the random capitalisation of words, constant sentences to show excitement with an exclamation mark), but it's not done in a sincere manner. I promise you this isn't a schizo thing, but I can tell when a woman specifically tries to type cutsie to signal that she is a woman and get woman priveledges online. Some women type normal, they don't do that shit, it's specifically a subset of women that inject femininity into every part of their writing style that are retards. Because, again, it is self centred.

Generally, narcissism is a sign of low intelligence. Having to center everything on yourself, your experiences, how you perceive the world etc. is a sign of low intelligence. I'm not talking about "empathy" being a sign of high intelligence or something, it isn't, but it's being able to not filter the world through a focus on yourself and how everything affects you. It's about being able to comprehend things exist in the world not centred on you. It's hard to explain. To me, just seeing her posts makes me think she is a fucking retard from the way she types. It's an intuition thing, rather than something I can break down and explain into bullet points.

>>85851853
>Anon makes a thread about her experiences
>Other anons ask her about said personal experience
>She answers
>"Guys, shes dumb because she is narcissistic!"

im like that but the people that gravitate towards me turn out to be bad people and end up taking it for granted

>>85851951
do you have a story or a specific example of someone taking you for granted?
>>85851404
>I think her recollection is still warped by intense feelings of love because the relationship was good. I felt the same way with an ex and it took years for the spell to be broken and to see her flaws

my situation would have been so much easier if he had major flaws, but i really cant think of any :/ what were some of your ex's flaws that you ignored when you were under that love spell?

>>85852215
according to the ppl i had relationships with the type of intensity and devotion i provide is yet to be matched but unfortunately i make it clear on day 0 that trust is non negotiable and they always find a way to break it in the most deceptive way possible

no offense but the fact hes an ex and youre still not over it seems odd considering every ex i had is still obsessed and begging to this day

>>85852455
>i make it clear on day 0 that trust is non negotiable and they always find a way to break it in the most deceptive way possible
how so, if i may ask?

>considering every ex i had is still obsessed and begging to this day
so they werent devoted when you dated them but became devoted once you guys parted ways?

>>85852565
>how so, if i may ask?
ranging from things like the mere existence of things/actions that i am not okay with in a relationship to straight up bold lies and deceptions. the funny part is i always figured every single incident out b4 they went through with the lie and i told them in advance that if they come clean its fine but without fail they never did and doubled down at which point the relationship and any love or respect i had was dead from that point on

>so they werent devoted when you dated them but became devoted once you guys parted ways?
no it's always mutual obsession to pretty extreme levels similar to a exponential growth graph until the inevitable
and while some of the lies were just not acceptable no matter what it wouldnt be fair to say that some of the lies didnt come from places of insecurities aka they didnt want to lose me no matter what since the importance of truth was so high guess they just didnt wanna risk it but sadly there's no difference for me. you're either honest or you're not.

overall id say im pretty done with humans or any type of close connections dont think i can ever find someone who wants what i want

>>85847734
I'm sure they become more difficult to find with age because of the way such selflessness often isn't appreciated or is taken for granted. Of course, no one is perfect but striving to do the best you can by your partner is the idea. It simply seems that devotion on the that level is often seen as 'doing too much these days, at least in the West.

t. hopeless romantic

>>85848053
>high quality guy
Half of all incels are like that. OP wants a guy who looks like a chad but acts like a soft boy, that's a lot harder to find.
I agree the older you get though the harder it is to find a single person like that. The part of me that was like that is slowly getting burnt out and beat down without any reciprocation. I can feel my brain becoming smaller and my emotions disappearing.
>>85848581
>a man slaving away for them
This is my idea of a healthy, perfect relationship too if they're affectionate and loving and give me praise, but the issue is I look like Quasimodo irl and have no personality/stunted growth so it's impossible.

>>85852618
youre being kind of vague in terms of what lies your ex told you...
>>85852748
i really dont want to go search for teenage boys...

>>85853034
yes i happen to have integrity even after the fact and wouldnt go out of my way to air things out on a public imageboard
no offense again but ur story doesnt rly add up either

>>85853109
what parts dont add up :?

>>85853115
the parts where you did him wrong either knowingly or unknowingly

>>85853151
and what makes you think foul play must have occurred?

>>85853233
they way you paint the relationship focusing only on his side completely skipping out on your role and part in it with a sudden end

>>85853319
>>85853233
also as some other posters identified the way you type and put your thoughts together tells me you arent a stable person
can see some worrying patterns speaking from experience regarding this point too

>>85853319
i guess thats fair, our relationship was fairly drama-free though and we just spent time doing fun activities like snowboarding, biking, cooking and traveling. we were best friends and quite affectionate with eachother. we never argued over anything serious really, but neither of us wanted to do long-distance across different continents knowing it was going to be long-term

>>85853363
are u eastern european who moved to the states? what reason are u going back to europe for

>>85853369
no im from a rich european country. i may go back after i finish my studies to spend time with extended family + travel before i start waging. i guess like a gap year

>>85853398
if you're swiss i will consider this destiny but do nothing about it

>thread is still up and dumb fuck /r9k/ simps are still validating this rotten hole with the attention she craves

hopeless board, hopeless people