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Any books on getting married and starting a family? I feel like most adventures are 'coming of age' stories.
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>>25620280
Roots by Alex Haley
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>>25620299
Uh isn't this the buck breaking book?
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>>25620280
This mutt with shit coloured hair and eyes is considered white in America btw. Point at them and laugh.
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>>25620311
No, it is about slavery though.
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>>25620320
That's the daughter of the most influential writer of the 21st century.
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>>25620320
shalom!
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>>25620280
Is that Annaplusone?
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>>25620280
She's carrying tyrone's child
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Does anyone have actual suggestions?
I'm 27, 'pushing 30', and I feel like I'm being left behind by my friends who are on their way to getting married and having children.
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>>25620494
It's pretty much over for you. Your options are about to contract to 30+ walled roasties with rotten eggs.
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>>25620494
Wuthering Heights
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>>25620504
>rotten eggs
Medically disproven, though. Don't you feel ashamed spreading fake news?
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>>25620504
Or the contrary, he should aim for 18-19 girls
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>>25620494
Many of my friends married later and their wives are fine.
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>>25620494
The Betrothed - Alessandro Manzoni
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>>25620537
Do they have normal, functioning married lives, though? And, what about children?
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>>25620494
What's stopping (You) from tying the sacred matrimonial knot with a good, homely woman? You're gainfully employed, right?
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>>25620553
One guy's wife nags him that he works too much, imo that's his fault. Other than that they have functioning marriages and all have children.
But then who knows, maybe they just got lucky.
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>>25620559
I'm not marrying an uggo. I'm better than that.
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>>25620494
I'm already 38. It's over.
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>>25620607
>>25620625
Are you guys balding/already bald?
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>>25620639
I'm balding a bit but for my age it's really not bad, unless I have my hair very short it's not that noticeable.
I'm just very ugly in general and very autistic.
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>>25620625
What were you busy doing for the past 15 years, donkey? There's still time though, albeit miniscule. Monthly income?
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>>25620649
I tried to date many women, through friends, apps, even cold approach.
I'm self employed, so my income varies, but it's relatively high and I have lots of savings. Money doesn't help much unless you have a certain baseline in looks and aren't super autistic.
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>>25620639
No.
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>>25620659
Ask your parents to find a woman for you.
Attend the local parish or something, etc.
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>>25620280
>books on getting married and starting a family
that's a book u and ur wife will be writing, is it not
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>>25620675
Also, something tells me you do not marry in the first place. As, a person truly desairant of matrimony would probably have found someone by now. Do you not have any male friends who have unmarried sisters?
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>>25620679
What if the Mrs is of a shy demeanour and is not blessed with the gifts of literary merit and craft?
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>>25620675
>>25620684
Thank you for your tips but I think we just live in different worlds, I don't think the church is an option for me.
I have friends with unmarried sisters, but not many. My friends did introduce me to some female friends, though, and I gave them the biggest ick of their lives when they saw me.
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>>25620711
I think I'm really some kind of monster to women, for instance once I was on a small party with mostly close friends and when I asked one of the women what her name is, she told me that's none of my business.
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>>25620711
How have you seen lived so long sans womanly company? Did you ever have a gf? So, what's next, perpetual solitary life? Unmarried men tend to do nuts in their late 40s due to lack of gentle womanly companionship. DO something about it, quick.
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>>25620719
LOL
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>>25620693
yes, maybe i should have put writing in quotes
>that's a book u and ur wife will be "writing," is it not
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The book of Genesis.
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>>25620504
Not really, guys can just date 21-25 year olds until they’re like 35.
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>>25620339
I thought it was a Lolita cosplay when HH tracks her down
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>>25620494
I met my wife when I was just 29. Got her pregnant 8 months later and married her 1 year after meeting her. She had just turned 27 when we met. We have two kids now.

If you can talk with women it's just a matter of dating until you find one you'd trust enough to chain yourself to.

The issue with finding it late is the clock it ticking. If I was 25 and she 23 we would not have had kids this fast. But we want 3 and I don't want her to get pregnant past 32/33. Also you want to be somewhat young when you have kids.
I see the cope that men can just wait until they're 40 or whatever. They'll probably never see their grandchildren, guaranteed not to if their kids also want to wait until 40.
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