would you date a trans lesbian neet in her 30s who had a reverse life path where she worked in her 20s and kept things together and then unravelled and became a helpless seemingly unemployable neet freak when she hit 30
>>45178959Was it burnout? How did things really unravel and why is it hard to get it back together?
>>45178969I dont know if it was burnout. I had a good job that wasnt too hard and a supporting gf. Blew up and just stopped living life and couldnt cope anymoreAnd well now im seemingly unhireable and cant even get interviews for minimum wage stuff and even if I did I dont think I could cope with the work now. I got an interview for a more professional job and botched my talk so bad the guy could just smell Im drowning and sounded annoyed the whole time
>>45178959I would marry you, because I am you.
>>45179039How do 2 neets marry...
>>45179003How long ago did it start? I didn't realize you were you in a relationship before too, I only remember seeing you talk about working a normal career
>>45179068u go to the courthouse and just pick someone to be the witness (we have no friends)
>>45179086About 4 years ago it started. I was dating a nice cis woman at the time we're still friends
>>45179109:( I'm sorry. I'm not going to give you any unsolicited advice, just hope that you get out of this slump soon
>>45179091Where do you live tho>>45179129I wouldnt mind advice
>>45179150norcal
>>45179165Oh arr you the bay area neetWhy did you never add me..
>>45179150I don't really have good advice, more like questions to understand what you've tried so far or what led to your situation now. Do you struggle with anxiety?
>>45179191Yes anxiety low dose benzo helps it usually causes stomach pain with how bad it gets. I lose hope easily and get tired very easily. Im in bed a lot now
>>45179224I can't imagine that's easy to deal with when you're already stressed about finding a job too
>>45178959how did you get a normal career, i think its impossible for me as ive never worked and im almost 30. just dicking around with this useless degree
>>45179182how would I do that?
>>45179224how did u get a bento rx? I think it would help me but people only do like stupid ssri and antipsychotics
>>45179358Try to convince your doc to get you on a low dose and nothing else works. I only take 2.5 mg valium as needed. You dont wanna rely on it constantly and ideally you use it temporarily
>>45179260I legitimately just got really lucky and got a good temp job. I have no advice im a fuckup. Most of my jobs were fast food..
