I'm gay but I'm extremely uncomfortable with women being attracted to me. Luckily I'm pretty much average so it doesn't happen often. But a black woman did a "call me" gesture at the stoplight and the worst panic and dread I've ever felt set in once again, to the point where I broke my sobriety streak of (barely) two weeks. Is this normal? Why am I like this? How am I supposed to live with this?
I'm gay too but I just go with the flow, if a girl is into me and wants to sleep with me I just do it no lie, icgloaf it's not like i hate it, it's just not anything in partocular to me and I don't lead anyone on with ideas of a relationship etc, if she has a good time that's great, but basically if we want to shut down androcentric cisheteronormativity we all gotta do our part, if a woman sleeps with me and that satisfies here then my work is done, means maybe she won't sleep with some entitled incel, that's all I care about. Sometimes I even tell them I'm gay and they never gaf, just go with the flow, if any cishet guy is reading this this is why women are choosing the bear over you
>>45174242It just sounds like you're pre-emptively stressing about the 'I'm gay' moment of coming out to a stranger.
>>45174242I feel the same way, I think it's a mistrust of women because of how they treated me as a teenager. I basically assume they will treat me ok if they have no reason to hate me, but if I reject them then they could potentially be incredibly nasty to me because they could take it like an insult.Just remember that these thoughts are pretty unrealistic, most normal people are reasonable.You could also try adding a bunch of subtle signs of disinterest, most women are pretty good at picking up on these.
Probably realize that most women are evil demons. I get the same way, although I’m bi. It’s the way they act, like they already own you, like they can’t believe you wouldn’t want them. It’s arrogance and manipulation at full display oftentimes.
>>45174452Sounds a lot more like men desu
>>45174539Nope, women are far more entitled and think the world is their stage.