how do you get ffs as a boymoder without your family or job or anybody noticing?i refuse to come out and i plan on boymoding after i just want to feel better when i see myself
>how do I completely change my face without anyone who is close to me and knows what I look like noticing
>>45173685Yes? How?
Glad to see you’re already thinking like a real woman (a complete retard) anon
>>45173634just pretend nothing changed and gaslight them when they ask, thats my plan. or just say youre experimenting with makeup or something idk its probably just worth coming at atp
>>45173696Sorry for not wanting to disappoint my dad I guess?
>>45173634I did this, and people started gendering me female on accident all the time so I just went all in
>>45173634You can be like me and nobody will notice or comment on it. It depends on what you get done. If you have a rhinoplasty, people will notice
>>45173707basically my plan but i think noone will notice anyway noone ever looks at me i mean i got new glasses recently and noone said anything, when i started wearing makeup noone said anything, when i started getting nails done noone said anything so i guess if i get prettier noone says anything and i dont even care
>>45174135im the opposite tbhon where my mom and younger brother make constant comments/questions about my skin like how i look weirdly pale or glowy or how my longer hairstyle/bangs is weird for guys to have and i always have something stupid to say like its just basic skincare or that a ton of people have hair like this where i live or whatever lol. ive done such a poor job at hiding my chest too theres no way none of rather large family havent guessed that im a tranny and just dont want to bother confirming it with an argument and the rest almost certainly think im a regular fag atp cuz ive never dated or even talked about women around them lol. i wonder if i can convince them its botox/filler or maybe cis male coded routine cosmetic surgery when i come home with a nosejob and half my jaw missing
>>45173899I don't want rhinoplasty but people say you need it if you get brow work
>>45173634my plan is to lie and say that i went to like poland or albania or something and just say that i got beaten up by hooligans and had to get reconstructive surgeryi think it's literally foolproof
>>45175786Your parents wouldn't have questions about you being brutally mauled?
>>45175793bad things often happen to me and i'm faggy looking so it'd be believable
My dad would never see me as worthy of speaking to ever again if I got ffs and I live with him He probably wouldn't kick me out but the coldness from everyone has scared me
>>45175832Your dad sounds like someone who isn't worth speaking to, so you wouldn't lose much
>>45175849I love him he's my dadMaybe he'd react different than I think but my mother swore to never say anything when I came out soUnless I can do it without anyone noticing I have no future
>>45175867If he'd stop speaking to you over this, he doesn't love you
>>45175957He would believe in his heart he's doing the right thing.It wouldn't come from a place of hate and I know being trans is weird and disgusting so could I blame him
>>45175972If he really does love you and it really doesn't come from a place of hatred, he will learn to get over himself when he sees how much better you're doing
>>45175781people say a lot of things without knowing what theyre talking about. rhino is not necessary if you go to a decent surgeon. i think they feel separately insecure about their noses
>>45177032What is a "decent surgeon"
>>45177095idk, i would say as long as theyre not notoriously bad and consistently botch people, then i would call them decent. If they're able to do a Type 3, then they're probably decent
>>45173634Wow I’m doing this soon in going to just rest to gaslight my family that it didn’t happen because they think I stopped HRT I hope it goes well because they are kind of gullible. If not I’ll have to move though
BumpNeed advice
>>45177492people have suggested either pretending it didn't happen or coming up with an excuse for why you got it that is unrelated to being trans, what other possibilities are there? for your job you could wear a surgical mask but that wont hide a bleph or a brow reduction/lift so you'd have to get bangs or something. bangs and a mask could work for your family too but for me i think the maga people would give me endless hell for wearing one all the time. maybe longer hair with face framing could create the illusion its the cause? i wouldnt suggest asking for more subtle results or not getting rhino, its not worth your happiness nona, just be glad you have the opportunity to get it, this is definitely a good problem to have, so many people wish they had your problem instead of having surgery being totally inaccessible
