>Have very staunchly atheist liberal dad and religious slightly conservative mom>Both very gay accepting>Mom went to pride starting in the late 80s>She convinced my grandparents to be accepting>Dad just doesn’t care>Me at 13>Come put to parents as trans> “oh anon we love you but that’s just a phase, puberty is hard”>Go back in the closet but voicetrainmaxx for a year >Start passing >Come out again>Same response>Get diy pilled>Start T>2 years later>Go to state tourney for wrestling>Be in boys division>Parents come to watch> “oh anon, good on challenging yourself extra going against the boys”>Mom perfectly genders trans celebrities/family friends, dad misgenders them wokely>Give up on bringing it up>3 years later>Staying at home for the summer>Have decent moustache>Full twunk build>Have cis straight girlfriend over often>Calls me her man/bf in front of them>Finally ask parents to gender me correctly> Stays like “she-i mean-he *exasperated sigh* will get her…” the whole time> I’d rather they just misgender me than remind me of how feminine they see me as> Tell them they can just go back>Bring up top surgery date> Mom very supportive> Dad appalled “young women are getting plastic surgery,” but says it’s my choice>Enjoy debating politics with parents>Eventually hrt for minors comes up>Their fully formed opinion is people in early/before puberty should get blockers/hrt, but afterwards you should wait until 18 since the the timing afterwards is not as important>Never heard that one before>Misgendering is mildly annoying, but the problem is the feeling that they are disappointed in a uncontrollable part of me>don’t want to threaten our relationship considering how otherwise healthy it is>wish they fully accepted this rather than just being tolerant>feel like that comes from them still just seeing me as a womanAnons, is there any way to get them to see me as a man or am I cooked?
