My (ftm) wife's (afab) boyfriend (now as of last week MtF Girlfriend) has just come out to her as trans and i'm not sure how i feel about it. Like I'm not transphobic in any way but I'm not sure how the more feminine energy will affect our own dynamic between the two of us (me and my wife). like it was nice for my wife to have that more masc role in her life and I'm not sure If i can be masculine enough to fill that space? Like IDK if maybe another boyfriend would be on the cards now in addition to her "new" girlfriend? obviously its her choice tho but I'm still a little lost and confused to how this might work. And advice on polycule management?
no one in your faketrans polycule is valid. hope this helps
