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They say everyone wants a dominant top gf, but the problem is how do I even communicate that without attracting a bunch of horny people? I want a gf, not just sex, and if you met me you would probably not automatically assume I'm dominant or a top because I dress, act, and look pretty feminine. The overly horny trans women who immediately talk about sex and seem desperate are a complete turnoff for me. I want to conquer a woman, at least a little bit.
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>>45169144
This is propaganda to make transbians act more demure
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Everyone wants a dommy mommy gf but nobody wants to get beaten because mommy is in a bad mood. Thats considered domestic abuse because of woke. Sigh
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>>45169218
wrong most trans girls would love this
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>>45169218
i would let her because im a good fucking person
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Is anyone else extremely submissive to a fault and has to be degraded to cum but also feels very bad about themselves afterwards and feels like everything thats said is true and wants to cry
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>>45169300
i dont think thats really relevant to the matter at hand
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>>45169332
I mean OP is clearly just fishing for a gf so what is there to discuss
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>>45169342
fishing for a gf on tttt is like fishing for fish in a sewage treatment plant
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>>45169354
People do it all the time nevertheless
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>>45169362
i cant imagine what youre talking about
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>>45169342
Not fishing, I genuinely don't know what to do to make other girls think I'm that way without just saying it, and if I just say it out loud it's just going to attract people interested in sex. That's also why I'm not fishing, I wouldn't want someone who reads only this about me and then decides they want me
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>>45169392
Have sex with them
Next question
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>>45169398
were on tttt you retard HOW
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>>45169398
But if they think I'm a bottom they obviously wouldn't want to have sex with me or even think of me as a potential partner
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>>45169407
Just talk to someone you're interested in about it? Have you never had sex or something?
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>>45169422
>on 4chan
>surprised everyones virgins
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>>45169415
Who is "they"? What context are you communicating with people? Are you making an ad for yourself or something? Typically you just find someone you like and talk about what you're into and have sex, or find the relationship dynamic during sex. You seem to be assuming the psychology of random people you've never met.
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>>45169422
Not the one you're responding to but I'm kind of new to dating women and most of my experience is with men
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>>45169144
I'm really submissive and touch starved but I don't talk about that irl because I don't want to have sex with someone I just met. I'd probably talk about one of the projects I'm doing, I like repairing electronics and mechanical things. I fantasize about having a conversation with someone with conpatible interests where someone finds me interesting and fun about as much as being dominated. I am extremely autistic though so none of this has ever happened.
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>>45169144
>and if you met me you would probably not automatically assume I'm dominant or a top because I dress, act, and look pretty feminine.
i would not do that desu
but i could probably tell after 2 minutes of talking. im rly short and a passoid and have a certain...idk like the way i am its just idk even other bottoms i got a bit closer to literally wanted to top right now
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>>45169392
Go to kink munches. Everyone there is known to be a pervert, but people talk casual anyway. Also they already tend to be full of trannies, you'll fit right in
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>>45169474
the ones in my area are mostly people 20 years older than me and majority men
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I mean if you're an dating apps and such then just hint towards it in your bio. If you're meeting people in person like at bars or whatever, just approach them and flirt a little. I'm a giant sub and if a confident woman hit on me I'd be a puddle.
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Dominant trannies are always narcissistic, psychopaths or have complex trauma, so it's always pretty obvious to notice. You don't need to say it explicitly, just make them feel inferior and they will beg for your attention
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>>45169901
>just make them feel inferior and they will beg for your attention
i HATE HATE HATE this
instantly kills ALL attraction
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>>45169901
don't try to dom people without their consent that's a crazy red flag
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>>45169300
Ask to be cuddled and praised for aftercare. With lots of kisses.
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>>45170083
Good idea tbqh will try
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>>45170042
We are animals and we work in hierarchy, we just call it attraction and charisma
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>>45170161
Nah there are tons of egalitarian relationships you've just got issues lol
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>>45169218
if she holds me for 0.00001 seconds she can do literally whatever she wants with me for the rest of my life
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>>45169144
Sounds exactly like what I look for in a partner desu. It tends to take me a while to open up to actual sexual activities. I usually prefer cuddles/kisses, and once I'm comfortable maybe some play scenes. On top of that, Dominance outside of the bedroom is so much more important to me than in the bedroom.
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>>45169474
I hate it so much when a baby trans clings to me in public just because they clocked me. Their behaviour always gives me a massive ick, K don't eanna be associated with that
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