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At 6ft, even if every other aspect of your transition is a success, you'll still just end up being a 6ft woman, which is a struggle on its own, even if they think you're AFAB.

I lucked out on hips and ribcage, got FFS, my voice still needs some work but it's passable most of the time. I live in a conservative-ish area but apparently newly met people assume I'm a woman. However, I come to realize that no matter how good I can pass, my height will always be something I won't be ever able to forget about. Small women look like children to me, interaction with them can be so awkward sometimes. I know most men wouldn't want me just bc of my height, even if I was perfectly cispassing. Those who would want me probably expect me to be a domme. I'm anxious all the time about my body being too big and taking up too much space, especially bc I have those faggy autistic fidgety mannerisms.

I should probably just keep larping as a tall cis woman, but actually I don't even relate to the typical tall AFAB experience. One thing I realized about tall AFABs is that they have been already tall as preschool kids, otentimes taller than every other kid in my class. As for me, I actually was shorter than most of my female friends when I was 10, I just had a growth spurt at 14 and at first didn't even realize that I've grown taller than every female I know. I'm still not used to this.

Of all the things that matter in life, one's height is the most stupid. No wonder there is no height customization feature in unmodded sims.
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>>45162941
Everytime I see a tall woman i assume she's trans. I'm 5' 10" but I just assume no one my height or taller could be cis.
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>>45162972
yea that's an issue as well
whenever I see a woman my height in public, I keep in mind that she might be trans, but I don't make hard assumptions until I hear her voice
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idk i like being tall but i lucked out with ass,hips, boobs, face etc. one of the benefits of being tall is you had a later puberty on average so my voice only dropped like a year before starting hrt. ig being tall is clocky but id rather be tall with an hourglass than short with a brick body and cones.
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>>45162941
A real man won't mind
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>>45165765
enjoy your bottom chasers
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>>45165840
I am the top chaser
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>>45162941
Every girl is the same height laying down
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>>45164312
the point of the thread is, even if you aren't clocky, life as a tall woman is still fucked
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>>45162941
For some reason, people can't admit that tall women are as fucked in life as short men are. As a 180cm gigapassoid, even cis women who don't realize I'm stealth can relate to the experience of being completely undesirable to any man shorter than you.
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>>45167855
that's completely inverted nonsense, tall women themselves exclude shorter men from their dating pools, not the other way around.
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>most men wouldn't want me because of my height
>probably expect me to be a domme
Not my experience. I get unwanted male attention frequently when I go out from men who have a thing for tall women. One time a guy even catcalled me and said "wait, I LIKE tall women" and I noped out faster than a millennial from the cable subscription
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>>45167884
this, tall women have infinite options and get more attention than they can comfortably handle, just like all other women. it's an incel fantasy that tall women are somehow undesired and therefore available. they aren't, and they don't like men who are shorter than them in any case.
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>>45167937
>and they don't like men who are shorter than them
:(
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>>45167942
if anything they're even more thirsty for tall men than the average woman is. the selection of men they are willing to date is so small that they are very proactive bout the guys who check all the boxes. I've never seen a woman act more desperate than this 6'1 woman who hit on my 6'6 friend.
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>>45167956
>if anything they're even more thirsty for tall men than the average woman is
i knew that already :(
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>>45167966
suck it up son, or troon out if you want a chance with a tall woman.
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>>45167969
Why would i troon out just because im a manlet?
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>>45167970
if you want intimacy and more importantly, genuine desire from women, your odds as a short man aren't the best. it's much easier to be wanted by lesbian women if you can pass as a woman yourself than it is to be wanted as a short man. but if intimacy and desire are of secondary importance to you then of course you shouldn't.
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>>45167956
>>45167937

obviously they guys I will lust over will be like 6'6-ish, but it's not like i would never ever date a shorter guy in any case. I can imagine a short guy who checks all the boxes and then I would probably try not to care abt the height difference. While short stature is unattractive in men, their insecurity about it makes them even less attractive and I know I'm a hypocrite for saying that while making a thread about height insecurity myself.
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>>45168008
>I can imagine a short guy who checks all the boxes and then I would probably try not to care abt the height difference.

wow, how great does that sound for the guy. you're just holding back your disgust at his short stature, what a wonderful relationship. but at least you're self aware of your hypocrisy so slay queen or whatever.
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>>45168034
no one's perfect, you always have to accept the other persons shortcomings when you date
however, I'm not gonna pretend like I'm attracted to short men. Whom I'm attracted to is not my choice. Just like I have to accept that most men are not attracted to trannies, you have to accept that most women are not attracted to shot men. I know it sucks.
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>>45168046
for your and shorter men's sake, never date them. it's humiliating to be with someone who resents your body. granted that's pretty much the default male experience but that's another discussion.

accepting it is one thing. people in this thread pretend it's the tall women who are being rejected and not the other way around. I wanted to correct that.
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>>45167855
I can’t believe how brain broken people are in height like ohhh nooo the insecure manlets won’t want me?

Who tf cares if a guy is too insecure to date a taller woman why would you want him?? Would you really date a man with no spine?
My bf is like 4 inches shorter than me and it doesn’t bother him the tiniest bit like why would it lol?

When I was a man you’d get the short insecure guy syndrome occasionally from guys but it was like 1/100 I’m taller than basically everyone I meet. Why would I want to date one of those little pansys like it’s the most pathetic thing
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wherein a youngshit passoid complains about a lack of problems
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>>45167467
ur putting that shit on me sorry im not as miserable as u lmaooo
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>>45162941
She's 6'2", dgaf, and doesn't afraid of anything. Nobody thinks she's a man, they just think she's a racist, so there's literally no downside
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Yes, it's over. You'll never pass. Either end it now or do risky surgeries. I'm 5'2, but if I was a gigahon like any 5'8+ tranny, I'd rather risk my life and take the surgery. This way I'd at least have a chance
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>>45168449
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>>45168462
Yes, I care about the white race and regularly report pedophiles to various government agencies. Anymore questions?
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>>45168080
i'm neither a youngshit nor a passoid, maybe a semipassoid at best
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>>45162941
So be a man
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>>45169795
ew
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>>45162941
>I actually was shorter than most of my female friends when I was 10, I just had a growth spurt at 14
i was already first percentile for adult males by like 13 lol. absolutely fucked.

>>45162972
i dont cause i dated a girl who was 6ft and also for some reason i know a ton of tall girls and from my experience i would guess the average is way taller than it is. i think girls who are like 5'8 are normal and 5'6 are short. if they are over 6'2 tho i might get sus, but theres gotta be something else or i wont even think about it.

>>45164312
by the time im done getting proportional my legs are going to be so huge. i knew that going in theoretically but like irl they are so big

>>45167966
hahahhahaha =|

>>45168076
same
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>>45169017
>I lucked out on hips and ribcage
passoid. i'm 6 inches shorter than you but my barrel chest and moid hips clock me immediately
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>>45170743
us
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>>45170770
yeah except scratch "at least i'm short" and replace it with "eek! a foid!"
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