First of new job as a boymoder went alright. Coworkers are nice. Being frequently misgendered kinda sucks. But I did malefail twice to people outside of my department (boss took me around to meet people throughout the building). That was kind of amusing.How long can I realistically boymode? Anyone have a similar experience?
>>45147973Picreal is what I'm working with:>https://i.postimg.cc/PrL9F954/Screenshot-2026-10-27-192255.png
>>45148207>boymode
>>45148207you are 100% just a presenting hon
>>45147973New glasses. Now
>>45148207Do you voicetrain? How tf are you boymoding
>>45148573Imagine I'm wearing a button up and a jacket. Still obvious?>>45148634They're good for boymoding though, right?>>45148696Nope. No voice training. Tbh, I've been unemployed since June. Haven't really interacted with many people since then. Malefailng today was kind of a shock. All the coworkers in my department are gendering me as male though, so who knows.
>>45148573She looks like a leftist Jewish woman.
>>45148727You should voice train, you could pass
>>45148994Been putting it off--not even sure I wanna--but I guess I should. It's really hard to start though.
>>45148207Holy forehead
>>45148207you remind me of eggman
>>45149615Been big all my life, what can I say :P
>>45149531its vastly more awkward to look like a woman and have a mega male voicefrom the pic you could pass if you dress well and voice train
>>45149676Gotta the job as a dude, so I need to boymode for a few months at least. I'm already going by my preferred name though (childhood, unisex nickname), and I get the feeling people can tell something is up.I'm hoping when I do come out, it won't be a big deal. It a office job with the local government.
>>45149821Well, that face and hair is not of a man, of course they notice it.
>>45149834Body isn't helping much either desu (picrel is from July)>https://files.catbox.moe/57vin0.pngI don't know though, I feel stuck.Wife also doesn't think it's that noticeable, so it's hard to know if I'm overstating my progress or not.
>>45149936NIGGA YOU HAVE FEMALE BREASTS. STOP BOYMODING
>>45150151What if I hate women's clothes?
>>45150151Easier said than done. Seeing as I'm new at my workplace, I'd rather give it time for the attention to die down a bit before doing something big like coming out. I obviously don't dress like picrel at work (boobs are actually bigger now) but I feel like they're still somewhat noticeable even in baggy clothes.
>>45149936ur cute asf and also passing
Ermmmmm freaking mogs me alert
>>45147973"boymoding" with clearly visible breasts and female hairstyle what world are you people living in does the word boymoder even mean anything anymore
>>45150363I had the same hairstyle prior to transition for a bit. It's just long hair without much done to it. I wear baggy shirts to try and camouflage the boobs. I'm making some effort, I swear.
>>45148207you look better than last time. hairline's a little grim, and >>45148634 yes get rid of those immediately no they do not make you not look like a woman they just make you look stupid. and tweeze your eyebrows
>>45150363For me, it's a lifestyle, even women could boymode
>>45148207you look like a normal uggo woman. voicetrain now
>>45149936...I think you are posting this just to make us feel bad
>>45150210woman is not when clothes nona
>>45147973>How long can I realistically boymode?forever.
>>45148207Why do white trannys do this?
>>45151203I don't fully pass, so boymoding seemed like best way to get hired.
>>45148727No Nona those glasses make you look like a dork.
>>45151713My wife likes them :(
>>45149936Troon performs worst boymode of all timeAsked to leave boymoder space
>>45152059It that bad?
Lucky you, I haven't ever malefailed at my new job. It hurts, there's a girlmoding tranner sitting across from me and she clearly mogs me, voice-wise and everything. Socializes nicely too while I'm a loner just like everywhere else>>45148207The curls aren't helping probably
>>45154408>The curls aren't helping probablyThey're natural. I do have a cut scheduled. No idea what to do.
How the fuck are you not consistently male-failing with that hair and body?That outfit shows off your clearly feminine hips and breasts. Literally if you voice trained you could get gendered correctly on a consistent basis. That's how I've been able to girl mode at my job.
>>45155540>Literally if you voice trainedMaybe she doesnt want to
>>45155540The body pic isn't how I dress out and about, just a demo of how my old male work clothes fit back in July. I wear loose camp shirts and pleated pants. It's not as noticeable.
>>45155540Picrel is today's work fit, minus a cardigan. Not nearly as noticeable.>https://files.catbox.moe/ee0y0m.jpg>>45155803I go back and forth. I kind of don't want to, but I understand why people do. May end up doing it eventually.
>>45156121I will respect you not wanting to, but, if being misgendered makes you upset, it is literally the best way to fix it
>>45153388It's just like I mean fr she doesn't look like a boy I mean like justSheVery obvious female occuring thereIf you looked like that and I worked where you work and you told me your pronouns are he him, id start thinking your trying to go ftm and just haven't done anything
>>45148207just a tourist from the front page, I can't figure out what gender you actually want to look like, you people all mostly seem pointlessly neurotic and deranged, you look like a girl, have a good one
>>45156416Wanna look like a girl, but am still presenting masc at work.
>>45156416At least your able to realize the neuroticismTrans people always shooting themselves in the foot like>IM FEMALE IM A GIRL IM A WOMAN!!>cold feet.png>No liek I'm totally boymoding rn uwu:3Like idk if ur gonna fr transition and take the hormones you have to bite the bullet at a certain point and actually have the confidence to identify female to your peers otherwise your just gonna live a life of being not one gender and not the other either and everyone else around you is gonna be constantly unsure of how to address you bestLike some of you are allergic to being straightforward idk what it is
>>45156121>>45147973Is it caged or hanging?
>>45156560I'll get there. I just happened to leave my job during transition and am still in the awkward early phrase. Figured it'd be best to not mention that I'm trans when applying to places. I'll eventually change my documents and come out to HR. Have never girlmoded though. Still feel like I need more time on HRt and more laser sessions (8 so far).
>>45156560>Like some of you are allergic to being straightforward idk what it isGot a problem with gender warriors?
>>45156416>tranny>neurotic You don't say
